beautifulsoul12:
Good morning everyone. I have to create this account to post this.
I can't even sleep at night lately.

I'm so tired and I need help right now. I have been doing this all by myself for so long now, without much complain but now, I need help.
Before I got married to my husband, I didn't know he had a seasonal mental health challenge, but not violent.

I met him in the university, he was in medicine, he had dreams, very ambitious, one of the best in his department, Working his way to travel abroad to continue his education. We were just friends, but I liked him. He kept on asking me out, but I declined. I wanted to graduate first.
We parted ways in year two. He changed school, so, I knew nothing about him again till years later.
Reconnected with him years later after graduation, to my greatest surprise, he didn't graduate, wasted all his resources and couldn't travel out. We still love each other, so we got married.
after the birth of my first child, I wanted to leave him, but I couldn't because he was a good man, but with too many changes and I was the only one who truly care and was there for him.
Three years ago, he became much better. He got a small job, Started bringing in little for upkeep. I saw change and I was happy. We had our second child last year after 8yrs.
Since early this year, the whole thing came up again. Since then, he became jobless again.
The financial burden is all on me. Right now, we can't afford to renew our rent.
I lost my business capital some times ago in wrong business, since then, it has been so much struggles.

I'm trying hard but it's not enough.
I'm thinking of working away, but to where? what about my children? Who will be there for them? What about him? But I'm tired of being in a marriage where I have to struggle for everything, where I can not depend on my man.
Pls, help us renew our house rent.

What do I do?

Why do ladies always complain about one thing and end up asking for help about another thing?

You want to walk away because of his financial handicap or because of seasonal mental disorder?
You're the only that loves him really?
Clearly from the options available that you highlighted yourself, you should know even you don't love him.
Sit with your husband, highlight challenges and profer solutions instead of wanting to run away. 🏃‍♀️

verifiablefacts:

She no gree mention the mental part again.

Honestly I waited to read the mental illness part and details of it, thinking the husband must have probably run mad by now. Noticed she didn't tell us how other guys chopped her kpekus those years while they both parted ways?

She came up with the mental illness part only to end up talking about lack of finance. Una wey still dey date Nigerian girls dey try, when there's money you're the sweetest thing ever, but become bankrupt or stop spending on her, she'll tagged you "a mad sick dude with severe mental illness"

jeromestarks:
Handle your problem alone.
You rejected good men who approached you when you were younger and beautiful to marry this mentally retardant.
You chose your destiny. You should suffer it alone.

Never pity a woman who is suffering in her home. Good men came for her but she rejected them saying "he's too short, he doesn't have money, he's to tall, he doesn't have a car etc" and settled for a guy who used suya to bribe her.

Many women wished the men they rejected came back. But guess what, none will come back.

U SUCH A R3TARD

Konjiboii:
All I can make out in this story is that you are tired because there's no money, all that mental illness talk na just excuses to justify your separation.

Many of you are just mentally retarded on this platform

seuncyrus:


Many of you are just mentally retarded on this platform

The guy you mentioned is right. Did she tell us the kind of mental illness? So you can cure mental illness by paying of house rent.?

Coronavirus1:

Come and see for yourself a trial will convince you

As expected from one who is powered by religion and not much else. Please free yourself from the clutches of those gods of men and their religion of confusion which they enslave you with.

Justbehave:
The guy you mentioned is right. Did she tell us the kind of mental illness? So you can cure mental illness by paying of house rent.?

Someone is going through a shameful and difficult situation, if he doesn't have anything to say. He could have done well to keep quiet. But all for nairaland likes

seuncyrus:
■ Someone is going through a shameful and difficult situation, if he doesn't have anything to say. He could have done well to keep quiet. But all for nairaland likes

There is nothing shameful about what OP described please. Mental illness can happen to anyone at anytime.

seuncyrus:


Someone is going through a shameful and difficult situation, if he doesn't have anything to say. He could have done well to keep quiet. But all for nairaland likes

But he told her the truth nah. She should have just asked for help instead of trying to manipulate us with the mental illness talk. Besides,lot of scammers here with sub stories.

Justbehave:
But he told her the truth nah. She should have just asked for help instead of trying to manipulate us with the mental illness talk. Besides,lot of scammers here with sub stories.

I understand you.

Kobojunkie:
You are joking, right? No be the same dunamis wey 10's of 1000s of its members dey dey wait their own turn for healing after so many years? Na there you wan make OP go come shook head enter too?

Why are you people so wicked like this?

Ok bro. Since You have a better advise, give her then

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beautifulsoul12:
Someone contacted me yesterday, And was requesting two or more of my pictures, I did a video call with him even wanted to include my children in the call, but he still wanted pics. not that he wanted to help in any way, he just want to know me.
It's unfair for anyone to want to know the full terrible story of another, just to make fun of them.
If you can't help why still do things that break them the more.

Don't share your picture or make calls with anyone. There's a way the forum helps people and they can verify your story. How did Seun let people like ishilove and sexkillz leave this forum? Ishilove, where art thou?

beautifulsoul12:
I can be verify please

When you say you can be verified, what exactly do you mean How does someone verify another person as genuine on Nairaland Is that even possible

Turquoiseee:
■ Hahahaha. E Dey pain you say some people still love JESUS wholeheartedly.
I love Jesus darling and I will follow Him all my life!
HOLY GHOST FIRE PURSUE THE WORKS OF DARKNESS!!!

See this one deep in religious delusion!

Kobojunkie:
As expected from one who is powered by religion and not much else. Please free yourself from the clutches of those gods of men and their religion of confusion which they enslave you with.

Those who have ear let them hear what the Lord is saying.

Kobojunkie:
See this one deep in religious delusion!

Leave me like that! Let me follow my Jesus in peace. He’s a million times better. I so much love Him.
Let me be deluded in Jesus it’s my choice.

beautifulsoul12:
Someone help us pls. I can be verified. All the hurtful things some people are saying here about me are not true please.
You can verify me to know.

Pls, our urgent need now is to renew the rent. We can't be thrown out at this point.

I'm not lazy. I'm working hard just that only me can't do all that alone.

Pls help

Why did you start your post by chastising your husband and calling him mentally challenged when your initial intention was to beg for financial assistance?

Typical traits of a scammer.

Turquoiseee:
■ Leave me like that! Let me follow my Jesus in peace. He’s a million times better. I so much love Him.
Let me be deluded in Jesus it’s my choice.

Leave Jesus Christ who instead said all those of you who are drunk on the doctrines and traditions of men are all hypocrites - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 10 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 13 - out of it, abeg!

Coronavirus1:

Those who have ear let them hear what the Lord is saying.

Take that advise abeg! Hear what God is saying to you here.... your pastors and mogs are no different from the world He warned you of.

I can help with 5k. Respond to your DM

Kobojunkie:
Leave Jesus Christ who instead said all those of you who are drunk on the doctrines and traditions of men are all hypocrites - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 10 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 13 - out of it, abeg!

I don’t live in the doctrines of men or pastors but of my Lord Jesus. You’re not to decide if I’m a hypocrite or not but Jesus should.
I love psalm 23 I quote it every now and then. You should try it.
Jesus loves you

Turquoiseee:
■ I don’t live in the doctrines of men or pastors but of my Lord Jesus. You’re not to decide if I’m a hypocrite or not but Jesus should. I love psalm 23 I quote it every now and then. You should try it. Jesus loves you

You don't live on the doctrines and traditions of your pastors and mogs yet every single religious rubbish you have spewed up until now has, not from scripture, but from doctrines and traditions typical of the religious folks out there?

Jesus Christ is the one who said all of you who spew religious gibberish using His name are hypocrites - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 10 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 13. I am simply reiterating His teaching which you clearly do not accept since religious doctrines and traditions seem to suit you mean.

Darlingme:
I can help with 5k. Respond to your DM

Thank you Ma

Just say you need financial help.
Simple !

Kobojunkie:
You don't live on the doctrines and traditions of your pastors and mogs yet every single religious rubbish you have spewed up until now has, not from scripture, but from doctrines and traditions typical of the religious folks out there?

Jesus Christ is the one who said all of you who spew religious gibberish using His name are hypocrites - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 10 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 13. I am simply reiterating His teaching which you clearly do not accept since religious doctrines and traditions seem to suit you mean.

What’s your stress with gibberish or no gibberish? I said I love to read the Bible and I love Jesus. I love His doctrines because it brings life and peace to my soul. Is that too difficult to understand? Because what I see here is that you’re trying to suffocate by beliefs and imposing yours on me. I don’t care what you feel about Jesus. That’s your problem. But don’t poke your nose into what I believe.

You know what I see, I see you have been let down severally, your life is messed up! You don’t have the life you’ve always dreamed of and you turn around to blame Jesus. Thinking He’s the cause of all your mishaps and have sworn to turn hearts away from Him.
But Jesus still loves you. Give Him another chance. He has always meant well for you. Stop the unnecessary hate. Because the more you hate, the more people around the world know about Him and trust Him. He will heal your wounds, mend your broken heart and wash away your sins.
I tell you the more you counter, the more my LOVE for Him grows.

Turquoiseee:
■ What’s your stress with gibberish or no gibberish? I said I love to read the Bible and I love Jesus. I love His doctrines because it brings life and peace to my soul. Is that too difficult to understand? Because what I see here is that you’re trying to suffocate by beliefs and imposing yours on me. I don’t care what you feel about Jesus. That’s your problem. But don’t poke your nose into what I believe.

You know what I see, I see you have been let down severally, your life is messed up! You don’t have the life you’ve always dreamed of and you turn around to blame Jesus. Thinking He’s the cause of all your mishaps and have sworn to turn hearts away from Him.
But Jesus still loves you. Give Him another chance. He has always meant well for you. Stop the unnecessary hate. Because the more you hate, the more people around the world know about Him and trust Him. He will heal your wounds, mend your broken heart and wash away your sins.
I tell you the more you counter, the more my LOVE for Him grows.

Jesus Christ isn't fooled by your claims, you know why? He said those who love Him are those who accept and obey His teachings and commandments, and it is by the fruits they bear in doing that that will be know them. Action speaks louder than words in the Kingdom of God, do you know that? I mean you cannot spew the doctrines and traditions of men and expect the signs promised by Jesus Christ to show up in your life. It doesn't work that way.

Kobojunkie:
Jesus Christ isn't fooled by your claims, you know why? He said those who love Him are those who accept and obey His teachings and commandments, and it is by the fruits they bear in doing that that will be know them. Action speaks louder than words in the Kingdom of God, do you know that? I mean you cannot spew the doctrines and traditions of men and expect the signs promised by Jesus Christ to show up in your life. It doesn't work that way.

I feel your hurt, but JESUS LOVES YOU man. Just open your heart to Him. Men are fallible, but Jesus never fails. That’s why I love Him. Shalom

Turquoiseee:
■ I feel your hurt, but JESUS LOVES YOU man. Just open your heart to Him. Men are fallible, but Jesus never fails. That’s why I love Him. Shalom

All that audio love of Jesus Christ amounts to nothing where God is concerned. He does not listen for what comes out of your mouth because He sees clearly the content of your heart.

Kobojunkie:
All that audio love of Jesus Christ amounts to nothing where God is concerned. He does not listen for what comes out of your mouth because He sees clearly the content of your heart.

Jesus loves everyone genuinely and you inclusive. I might be imperfect, but Jesus is perfection.