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Advice Needed � by wash02(op): 3:06pm On Jul 31, 2023
A friend sought for advice concerning a houshelp who's being sexually harassed by the man of the house. She's an 18 year old high school graduate with an aged father who's impoverished and in the village.
According to the househelp's account, the man of the house started said harassment when she turned 13 and she's caught between reporting this shenanigans to his wife and keeping mum about it.
She's not directly related to anyone in the household albeit originating from the same village as the lady of the house; She's had to bear this ordeal admist threats from the man to kill her or quit sending money home to her aged parent if she were to spill the beans.
Please kindly drop your 2 cents on what she should do.

Lest I forget, she claims her virginity is still intact as he's only tried to penetrate using his fingers.
Re: Advice Needed � by woginid967: 3:13pm On Jul 31, 2023
wash02:
A friend sought for advice concerning a houshelp who's being sexually harassed by the man of the house. She's an 18 year old high school graduate with an aged father who's impoverished and in the village.
According to the househelp's account, the man of the house started said harassment when she turned 13 and she's caught between reporting this shenanigans to his wife and keeping mum about it.
She's not directly related to anyone in the household albeit originating from the same village as the lady of the house; She's had to bear this ordeal admist threats from the man to kill her or quit sending money home to her aged parent if she were to spill the beans.
Please kindly drop your 2 cents on what she should do.

Lest I forget, she claims her virginity is still intact as he's only tried to penetrate using his fingers.
Simple

The girl should be promoted out of that house.

Women's right organizations can help but they will cause drama


So all those aware should get her a place with a mature female, who will heal her mental health and restore her dignity and from there send her to learn a trade that she can use to support herself.

As for the parents in the village, they should also be supported pending when the girl perfects her skills enough to earn a good salary, then she can be sending money home.

Its well
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