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Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Dexter08(m): 12:35pm On Aug 19, 2023
Samantha124:
But why does it sounds like it's only men who get addicted to porn and masturbation?

Both genders do watch porn and can be addicted to masturbation but given the beliefs said vices have on men is the reason for the laser focus on men.

One of such belief is that it causes erectile dysfunction.

Were reverse the case, probably same laser focus would have been on women too.

Women watch porn too and are addicted to masturbation but society and science have made us to believe it has a negative effects on men than women hence why the torch light is focused on men.
Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Nobody: 12:39pm On Aug 19, 2023
I really don't find porn to be addictive, but I guess we're all different.
Dexter08:


Both genders do watch porn and can be addicted to masturbation but given the beliefs said vices have on men is the reason for the laser focus on men.

One of such belief is that it causes erectile dysfunction.

Were reverse the case, probably same laser focus would have been on women too.

Women watch porn too and are addicted to masturbation but society and science have made us to believe it has a negative effects on men than women hence why the torch light is focused on men.
Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Kipaji: 3:10pm On Aug 19, 2023
Samantha124:
When did you realize that you were addicted?

When I was doing it even when I wasn't hôrny. When I was doing it out of habit.
Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Nobody: 3:19pm On Aug 19, 2023
Excuse my curiosity, but how many times would you do it in a day?
Kipaji:


When I was doing it even when I wasn't Hot. When I was doing it out of habit.
Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Dexter08(m): 5:02pm On Aug 19, 2023
Samantha124:
I really don't find porn to be addictive, but I guess we're all different.

It is either you haven't found the right porn for you or porn isn't your kryptonite.

One thing I am sure of, you have something that easily beset you.

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Re: The Journey Of A Monk by ThothHermes: 5:12pm On Aug 19, 2023
Samantha124:
But why does it sounds like it's only men who get addicted to porn and masturbation?
Porn and masturbation is largely a male problem, but women are also affected.
Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Kipaji: 5:52pm On Aug 19, 2023
Samantha124:
Excuse my curiosity, but how many times would you do it in a day?

On average, two times a day, 4 to 6 days a week.
Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Nobody: 7:29pm On Aug 19, 2023
Okay, well good luck on your journey.
Kipaji:


On average, two times a day, 4 to 6 days a week.
Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Nobody: 7:31pm On Aug 19, 2023
I've never heard of a woman addicted to any of them, maybe they keep their addictions private.
ThothHermes:
Porn and masturbation is largely a male problem, but women are also affected.
Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Nobody: 7:34pm On Aug 19, 2023
Okay, if you say so.
Dexter08:


It is either you haven't found the right porn for you or porn isn't your kryptonite.

One thing I am sure of, you have something that easily beset you.
Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Kipaji: 9:43pm On Aug 19, 2023
Samantha124:
Okay, well good luck on your journey.


Thank you. We are on the front lines

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Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Littlechild(m): 3:32am On Aug 21, 2023
Kipaji:

When I was doing it even when I wasn't hôrny. When I was doing it out of habit.

There is no short cut to spiritual freedom.

1. Just imagine. You sexually or willingly opened your house/mansion for militant to come in. While inside your house, they will surely destroy everything good that is inside or coming into house -life. They are already inside your house. (life)

The only way to be free or to drive them out of your life is through a heavy spiritual fight. Those sexual thought and urge for sex and porn you are having are not truly yours. And the only way to be free from the demons of porn is via violent prayers.

You have to fast and pray for three days and use fire to boot them out of your mansion. You may not like this advice, but it is the only way out. Humans in general love short cut. (Quickest path)

2. It is more better if you have a serious relationship than for you to watch porn. Relationship with a woman will not ruin your life than porn. In pornography, millions of demons will enter your body and filled you with more lust. They feed through your addiction But in relationship, you will only share 50% of what the lady has in her life. That is why I have previously advice Men to date a woman that is pure in spirit.

3. It is best you pray, fight, work and establish yourself for the better future.

Kipaji. Porn will destroy you completely
Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Kipaji: 9:50am On Aug 21, 2023
Littlechild:


There is no short cut to spiritual freedom.

1. Just imagine. You sexually or willingly opened your house/mansion for militant to come in. While inside your house, they will surely destroy everything good that is inside or coming into house -life. They are already inside your house. (life)

The only way to be free or to drive them out of your life is through a heavy spiritual fight. Those sexual thought and urge for sex and porn you are having are not truly yours. And the only way to be free from the demons of porn is via violent prayers.

You have to fast and pray for three days and use fire to boot them out of your mansion. You may not like this advice, but it is the only way out. Humans in general love short cut. (Quickest path)

2. It is more better if you have a serious relationship than for you to watch porn. Relationship with a woman will not ruin your life than porn. In pornography, millions of demons will enter your body and filled you with more lust. They feed through your addiction But in relationship, you will only share 50% of what the lady has in her life. That is why I have previously advice Men to date a woman that is pure in spirit.

3. It is best you pray, fight, work and establish yourself for the better future.

Kipaji. Porn will destroy you completely

Your threats are useless. And why do you end with such a negative conjecture?
If I could delete you I would have. You will be fully ignored from now on.

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Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Nobody: 10:43am On Aug 21, 2023
Kipaji:


Your threats are useless. And why do you end with such a negative conjecture?
If I could delete you I would have. You will be fully ignored from now on.
Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Littlechild(m): 2:00am On Aug 22, 2023
Kipaji:


Your threats are useless. And why do you end with such a negative conjecture?
If I could delete you I would have. You will be fully ignored from now on.

I am not threatening you. Your affairs and life is not my concern. I am just being honest with you.

Ignorance is a bondage that lead others form of bondage.

Bye.
Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Kipaji: 3:07pm On Aug 23, 2023

Next time you want to watch porn ask yourself these questions :
- Do I want to watch another man nàcked?
- Do I want to see another man's genitals?
- Do I want to stand there watching another man having sexual pleasure?
- Do I want to helplessly look at another man fücking a woman that I would like to fück?
- Do I want to resort to seeing strangers fvcking to deal with my urges?
- Do I want to go through these humiliations just for a nut?

The endgame of porn is homosexuality and cuckoldry.
Become wise.
Become strong.

DAY 19 COMPLETED

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Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Kipaji: 3:11pm On Aug 23, 2023
A clarification

If you notice, I add "completed" to my day count. That is because I only count days once they are fully passed. Example, i will say "Day 1 completed"on my second day because at that point I would habe survived just one day on monk mode. The next day (the third day) I will say" Day 2 completed" meaning I have already spent two full days on semen retention.

Currently, I am going through my 20th day of monk mode. But I said "Day 19 completed" because the 20th day is not yet over and so it's not counted yet.

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Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Kipaji: 3:26pm On Aug 23, 2023
Kipaji:

Next time you want to watch porn ask yourself these questions :
- Do I want to watch another man nàcked?
- Do I want to see another man's genitals?
- Do I want to stand there watching another man having sexual pleasure?
- Do I want to helplessly look at another man fücking a woman that I would like to fück?
- Do I want to resort to seeing strangers fvcking to deal with my urges?
- Do I want to go through these humiliations just for a nut?

The endgame of porn is homosexuality and cuckoldry.
Become wise.
Become strong.

DAY 19 COMPLETED


This is the process of watching porn.

A man is going through the day;
He gets hôrny;
He goes to an adult website;
He looks for a woman he finds attractive;
He spends the next hours watching that woman getting fücked by other men;
He ejaculates on the screen while the other men ejaculate inside of her;
He cleans himself with shame;
He goes back to his day, but this time depleted and humiliated.

I am not becoming like that man. I don't have to be like that man. I can be strong instead. I want to be strong. Three hundred and forty-six more days ahead.

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Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Kipaji: 10:06pm On Aug 29, 2023

DAY 25 COMPLETED

I want to masturbate so bad. But I can't lose this challenge. I don't want to deplete myself. I don't want to lose against lust once again. I need to be higher than that.
Strength over pleasure.
Manhood is a difficult road.

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Re: The Journey Of A Monk by ChiefOkporghe: 10:29pm On Aug 29, 2023
Kipaji:

In a tenuous battle against my flesh, I went through 170 days—5 months and a half—without sex, põrn and mastürbation.
I was tired of being a degenerate lust-controlled põrn addict and aspired to be greater. For this, I needed to conquer my lust like a warrior on a battlefield. I decided to go 365 days without sex, porn, and masturbation, and from there carry on as a man in control of his life.

During the journey, I maintained a small journal in which I reflected on the battle. I decided to share it with you today. All text in Arial font that follows is from the journal. I hope that other warriors can get a thing or two from it. Besides, I would be more than grateful to receive the wisdom and insights from more experienced warriors.


Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Kipaji: 11:52am On Aug 31, 2023

It's so easy to be weak.
I can just go ahead and watch porn and masturbate. I can just go ahead and have sex. Nobody is controlling me. Nobody is watching me. Nobody would sanction me. It is all about me and me alone. Do I want to be weak? Do I want to be like all these guys who live for vaginas? Do I want to be controlled by lust? Do I want to be exploited by women who use men's lust to their advantage? No. That will not be me. I keep going.
I want to know what it is like to be a man above his lustful desires. Like a saiyan dreaming of what being Super Saiyan would be like. I want to know that level of strength. As days go on, the higher gravity levels. I am not falling.
DAY 27 COMPLETED

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Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Kipaji: 1:45pm On Aug 31, 2023

This journey toward strength is exhilarating. What kind of man will I be after going a full year without porn, masturbation, sex? What kind of man will I be after going victorious out such a hard fight? What will be my approach to my life? How will I move in the world?

I can't wait to reach these levels

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Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Kipaji: 7:04am On Sep 02, 2023


Wow, it's so hard
Re: The Journey Of A Monk by NairalandSARS: 12:13pm On Sep 02, 2023
Kipaji:

I am on my seven day no-fap, no-pörn, no-sex streak. It is very hard to not indulge in lust. I want to fück so bad. I want to take a woman and stroke my pènis into her vagina. But I know deep down that these thoughts are not constructive with respect to my life and my heart.


What's all these nonsense konji talk. U act as if konji is a spirit a man can't control whereas it is just undirected energy.

Find something to engage yourself in and sex won't cross your mind.

I had finally crossed the one-week bar here. I was extremely hard but harder was the journey ahead.
PS: I apologize for being graphic. When I wrote in my journal I did not think of sharing it publicly one day.
Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Kipaji: 2:31pm On Sep 04, 2023

DAY31 COMPLETED

A full month without porn, sex, or masturbation. It was not easy, but I reached this checkpoint. The next one is at 3 months.

I love being on a journey towards strength. I don't want to aimlessly release my sexual energy and deplete myself.
I feel urges everyday but I resist just like Guts fights the demons every night.
It is a lonely and painful path. I could just decide to be like my past depleted self and go through the humiliation of watching another man having intercourse. I can just say "Well everybody does it, so why not go ahead?" But no! I am not everybody. I am me, grandson of *****, and great grandson of *****. As such, I cannot accept weakness as my default state.

I want to become strong. I can become strong. Three hundred and thirty four more steps to climb.

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Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Kipaji: 5:12pm On Sep 12, 2023

DAY 39 COMPLETED

I failed to twitter. I should have never logged in. I went a month and 9 days without porn, sex, nor masturbation. This is very far from my objective.
Overcoming one's lust is just so hard. I have immense respect for those who reach 1 year on this journey. I am disappointed by my performance.

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Re: The Journey Of A Monk by abba190: 6:41pm On Sep 12, 2023
Kipaji:

This journey toward strength is exhilarating. What kind of man will I be after going a full year without porn, masturbation, sex? What kind of man will I be after going victorious out such a hard fight? What will be my approach to my life? How will I move in the world?

I can't wait to reach these levels
lgo easy, i dont think its possible for a young person to go 365 days without porn masturbation or sex.
Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Kipaji: 8:30pm On Sep 12, 2023
abba190:
lgo easy, i dont think its possible for a young person to go 365 days without porn masturbation or sex.

You are just firing me up to take up the challenge again
Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Alearna: 7:25am On Sep 13, 2023
Kipaji:

DAY 39 COMPLETED

I failed to twitter. I should have never logged in. I went a month and 9 days without porn, sex, nor masturbation. This is very far from my objective.
Overcoming one's lust is just so hard. I have immense respect for those who reach 1 year on this journey. I am disappointed by my performance.

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You relapsed?
Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Kipaji: 11:06am On Sep 13, 2023
Alearna:

You relapsed?

Yes. Failed after 170 days before. And now failed after 39 days.
Re: The Journey Of A Monk by Kipaji: 12:30pm On Sep 13, 2023
I'm getting back in the fight right now. Tomorrow will be my first day.
Warrior spirit.
Re: The Journey Of A Monk by JohnKernel: 3:47pm On Sep 13, 2023
WEDNESDAY, 13TH SEPTEMBER
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