CuriousStudent:
A fictional tale to shame women. Imagine catering for four kids and a bedridden man at the age of 26( when your mates are going from dates to dates and partying)

This should be the duty of a woman in her 50s whereby haven enjoyed the protection and provision of a man for decades, repays him by nursing him and taking care of him when ill health arises but not a young lady at 26.
So try to see things from the mother perspective.

Men walk out of their families and abandon their wives with kids if they feel overwhelmed or for their peace of mind,so why should this be different?

The lady in question can drop the man temporarily with his relations and give her kids to her parents then go Abroad. While abroad she can be sending money for the upkeep of her kids and husband till she can bring the kids over. The man should remain in naija while the wife hires a nurse and sends up keep till he is stable enough before he can join them over

uuzba:

She's a fucking lunatic.
And EVERY MAN will see that.
Never touch another man's wife.

LilMissFavvy:
How the man treated her before the accident should help her take a decision. If he used to treat her badly or cheated on her, then she should know where to place him . His side chick should come and clean his poop, but If he was a good husband before the accident, she should not abandon him. She can travel to make money then be visiting him from time to time.

isabi2lof:


Same problem I do have with them , they all know the truth , very soon they'll come out to say , a man's accident is different from a woman's accident 😂😂😂 .. e no dey tire dem to compare and contrast

You even went too far with an accident scenerio , some abandoned their wives during pregnancy period and child birth ..

Only few men will stay with their wives , and those few men might not even be religious per se ..

CuriousStudent:

So you assume most of this women are looking for marriage?

Most are in need of pennnissses to be serving them or a sugar daddy(ies) to help with the kids( for the broke ones)

Rarely a divorcee or widow or single mom of several kids will be looking committed relationships.

Abifarin16:
May God not allow us to be hard tested.
This is not your regular occurrence. The mother has money to send her abroad she no fit use that money pay for surgery? Hopefully he gets better, gets a job or his former job and pay her back. 4 kids at 26, she fit cope?
People be going through alot.

Holluwhakemmy:
This story get k leg

CuriousStudent:

You Sabi Dem ba
?
Their compare and contrast tactics eh

There is always an explanation and theory of how men and women scenarios are different.

That is why I don't pity them ,even the ones crying on my mentions


If they like cry from morning to night on my mentions, my stance will not change sadly.

Mindlog:


I believe you read "visiting hours" not "staying" in the hospital.

How do you explain week in, work out a husband who is in the same state with the admitted wife, not showing up?

Rushna27:
Truth be told she's too young to face such stress but in all the decisions is hers to take....cos she is d only one who can tell what she want and how she wants it....

CuriousStudent:

And what makes you think it is total abandonment?

CuriousStudent:


Yawns
Whether she secures a man or not is not even my business. What does a woman with four kids need a husband for?
They mostly need men to be servicing her...

Being single is still better than caring for 4 kids+ vegetable

CuriousStudent:

Read the full story,she will marry abroad not in naija . Only naija bred men hold prejudice towards divorcees.

Day by day women walk into their second or sometimes third marriage abroad with kids, not here in naija

CuriousStudent:

So you assume most of this women are looking for marriage?

Most are in need of pennnissses to be serving them or a sugar daddy(ies) to help with the kids( for the broke ones)

Rarely a divorcee or widow or single mom of several kids will be looking committed relationships.

CuriousStudent:

Read the full story,she will marry abroad not in naija . Only naija bred men hold prejudice towards divorcees.

Day by day women walk into their second or sometimes third marriage abroad with kids, not here in naija

einsteine:


Yeah she is 26.

I know a lady who had 6 children and at age 29, she left her husband to Canada. She has remarried and now has 2 children for the new husband.

Rayban25:


ogbeni keep quiet.

omotola jalade got married at 18 and had her fourth child at 28 years of age. so what where you saying again that its not possible to have 4 kids at a young age?

Blissbath:
. You are very right... this is what I see everyday in the hospital

1Sharon:


Maybe if she had just one kid and she was very good looking. It's possible.

But 4 kids is too much of a burden for another man

1Sharon:


I'm responding based on what the mother has said, she said she can still get remarried.

With those 4 kids, that will set the daughter back.

1Sharon:


Is Omotola the norm?

CuriousStudent:
A fictional tale to shame women. Imagine catering for four kids and a bedridden man at the age of 26( when your mates are going from dates to dates and partying)

This should be the duty of a woman in her 50s whereby haven enjoyed the protection and provision of a man for decades, repays him by nursing him and taking care of him when ill health arises but not a young lady at 26.
So try to see things from the mother perspective.

Men walk out of their families and abandon their wives with kids if they feel overwhelmed or for their peace of mind,so why should this be different?

The lady in question can drop the man temporarily with his relations and give her kids to her parents then go Abroad. While abroad she can be sending money for the upkeep of her kids and husband till she can bring the kids over. The man should remain in naija while the wife hires a nurse and sends up keep till he is stable enough before he can join them over

CuriousStudent:
A fictional tale to shame women. Imagine catering for four kids and a bedridden man at the age of 26( when your mates are going from dates to dates and partying)

This should be the duty of a woman in her 50s whereby haven enjoyed the protection and provision of a man for decades, repays him by nursing him and taking care of him when ill health arises but not a young lady at 26.
So try to see things from the mother perspective.

Men walk out of their families and abandon their wives with kids if they feel overwhelmed or for their peace of mind,so why should this be different?

The lady in question can drop the man temporarily with his relations and give her kids to her parents then go Abroad. While abroad she can be sending money for the upkeep of her kids and husband till she can bring the kids over. The man should remain in naija while the wife hires a nurse and sends up keep till he is stable enough before he can join them over

CuriousStudent:
A fictional tale to shame women. Imagine catering for four kids and a bedridden man at the age of 26( when your mates are going from dates to dates and partying)

This should be the duty of a woman in her 50s whereby haven enjoyed the protection and provision of a man for decades, repays him by nursing him and taking care of him when ill health arises but not a young lady at 26.
So try to see things from the mother perspective.

Men walk out of their families and abandon their wives with kids if they feel overwhelmed or for their peace of mind,so why should this be different?

The lady in question can drop the man temporarily with his relations and give her kids to her parents then go Abroad. While abroad she can be sending money for the upkeep of her kids and husband till she can bring the kids over. The man should remain in naija while the wife hires a nurse and sends up keep till he is stable enough before he can join them over

jmoore:
She is 26 years plus, has 4 kids already.

Her husband has been working and providing for the family until he had an accident which affected his waist. The company stopped him from working because it affected his mobility and productivity.

She reached out to her mother for capital so she can start a business. The mother refused to help her. She gave him a condition that she should leave the marriage and she will sponsor her to travel abroad.

The mother told her that she is too young to suffer in that marriage, that she can easily remarry.

GloriousGbola:


If the mother had that kind of money, the daughter would not have gotten married at 21 and started spitting out children once a year.

Just an incoherent bs story from Andrew tate geng

Mindlog:


Your post reflected stupidity!

if she chooses to fill single in her visa application, who would query her?

1Sharon:


Is Omotola the norm?