Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,153,592 members, 7,820,126 topics. Date: Tuesday, 07 May 2024 at 10:09 AM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. (35760 Views)
I Married Her A Virgin But Now This Is Happening / I Married My Daughter, Fathered Two Kids With Her, While My Dad Married Her Mum / I Married Into The Wrong Family.. (true Story) (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by achimendy(m): 5:11pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: I hope you don't go around dishing bad advice to the said person, with your rude and abusive comments am seeing up and down. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by wallarwallar(m): 5:18pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: Comment from a bloody single.. What do you know since u don't hv any experience |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by Jewessgratitud3: 5:21pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
wallarwallar: Hahaha ๐คฃ๐๐คฃ๐. E pain am! |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by femtex007(m): 5:23pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
[quote author=Anfieldboss post=125098380] See it is not even about the fact that the man is earning 150k, that is why he is upset. The man is upset because "his so called in-laws made life difficult for him just because he wants to marry their daughter". I have seen men that are very well to do, and encountered such from their in laws. The in laws were so demanding just because the man wanted to marry their daughter, after the wedding, the men refused his wife from going to see her people, neither can the woman's people visit her in her matrimonial home (in a bid to pay their in laws back for stressing them out for wanting to marry their daughter) Families should know that because a man is coming for your daughter's hand in marriage, you should not tax and overburden him. Ultimately, I blame the man for still going ahead with the marriage despite seeing the overbearing attitude and over demands from his would be in laws. He would have simply walked away and would have found a better girl from a better family background. [/quote You have said it all. Same thing happened to one of my ex gf. The guy that wanted to marry her went to her family house to collect list. On getting there, they overbilled him. He even got mad but the girl is a good girl. The girl never supported the family. She talked to the parents but they didn't listen she even got angry and left them. At the end of the day, The guy got married to the girl and promised not to send the wife's parent money. Last year December they were expecting money. But the guy didn't send them a dime. When they asked the wife she told them that the husband borrowed money to marry her that he's still trying to pay back. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by AntiWailer: 5:28pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Nonsense Daughter and Hungry Father. You wait for your daughter to grow up and be insisting on what you could not afford. The eediot said her husband is well to do with 150k salary. |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by Johnholt909: 5:31pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
If my gurl tries this nonsense i"m reading here, i would leave her for her parents to marry her. Or I would tell the parents that I'm not marrying their daughter anymore The lady in context aren't really smart. |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by bizhop01: 5:35pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
he earns 150k per month, so he is not doing that bad. my dad wrote the wedding list and everything he would bring, when he saw them, he fumed that they were too much and they should reduce it but my dad insisted that he won't collect it twice, I also told him if he really loves me, he would provide them, he could get help from his family too, it is called bride price and other things, and it is once. We had little issue then but he later resolved it. He brought everything they asked for. During the wedding, my parents told him to buy a cow. FROM SOMEONE THAT'S COMPLAINING This vagina people dey funny sha |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by storm001(m): 5:39pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Using the word "if you love me, you should provide what they asked for", is one of the tools used by women to emotionally blackmail the men or whoever they want to manipulate. The man discovered he is being manipulated and he hates it. |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by mikaeli01: 5:42pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
When I read through your comment I wondered if you think people who earn a honest small income should marry at all. Bride price shouldn't be too rigid as happiness and a working home for the two is what is paramount not any price that end in the bride family. I blame the husband, he should have maintained his stance on what he can afford based on his earnings. If the family refused his honest submission then the bride go look for someone else who is capable and he look for another lady whose family do not place too much importance on material and monetary price but rather good and happy home for their daughter. I love my woman does not mean that I should overstretched myself for a one day event. The event of that single day called ceremony does not in anyway indicate true love or how it's going to be after. |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by richie240: 5:55pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
May our mouth not lead to our destruction in Jesus'Name, Amen! Jewessgratitud3:Na dt ya papa go marry u las-las! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by Psoul(m): 6:03pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: You and your parents are the kind of people that no one should approach for relationship. Just listen to yourself. "Is he not the one who sought your hand in marriage. He should do everything... " Silly people. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by bigcasava1(m): 6:28pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:if I will advise the guy he should calm down and love his wife but the wife's family should not come near their house 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by sajiwere(m): 6:30pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
If the loan collected by this guy is interest free, the lady should go and collect interest loan to offset it Jewessgratitud3: |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by BeigJawnson(m): 6:33pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
For someone like me... I go don back out... Na your papa go find another husband for you. I will even disgrace that your father. I will as if nothing happened. On the wedding day, na my absence them go see. Nonsense |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by njoryor(m): 6:36pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
iLoveYouToo: Same story rehashed over and over again. |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by njoryor(m): 6:37pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
iLoveYouToo: Same story rehashed over and over again. This was in 2009 |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by EcoNews: 6:59pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
He won't pay twice another foolish line of tot from GenZ. All I gave to my inlaw was returned to me that they were not selling their daughter. We just concluded the burial of my mother in law last weekend n every member of the family were there n they thanked for the little I had to contribute. While a man should prepared financially going into marriage families should also be understanding knowing that fingers are not equal Jewessgratitud3: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by Billmos: 7:10pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Very pathetic for a young marriage like this,I think d young man over react now cos he should have shown this attitude when there was still time to walk away when those over expense demands were given by his father in law to be then.well in my own case once I paid what is in d bride price list how the occasion will be solely depend on me except u want to support me then u can tell me how u want d hall n whatever to be.cos in d occasion everyone including my in laws are my guest and I'm d host.and besides I can't go to loan huge money just to show off for just a day.d young man should not put d blame on his wife he supposed to tell his father in law dat he is planning his marriage base on his financial capacity.if d father in law don't accept den d postpone it till when he is financially ok to run it as he want. |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by Tzar(m): 7:13pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Nigerians are so greedy, ungrateful and insensitive. I hope you and your family have enjoyed your extortion and one day of fame? Now that you have dented the manโs ego with your demands, you donโt want to live with the consequences? The man has given you and your greedy/ poverty stricken family what you want, GIVE HIM THE LIFETIMES OF PEACE & QUIET HE ALSO WANTS! You cannot eat your cake & have it! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by iLoveYouToo(m): 7:20pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by jossytech(m): 7:20pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Women should know that a man is not looking for burden, but a partner to help and improve his life.[b][/b] This enter my body, thank you my mentor boss 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by Nweike1: 7:25pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:I agree with you, he should have backed out immediately they presented such a list to him 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by hobat4cash(m): 7:29pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:Trash |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by hobat4cash(m): 7:31pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Jecci:Why are u wasting time replying that thing. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by yusufmurry: 7:35pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: Haunty, you have done many things wrong. If you loved your husband, you would have sat to plan everything including finances but you chose to behave like other of your Imo state girls. What the hell should your family detect how the wedding is to be planned even compelling him to buy a cow and the kind of hall they want? Rubbish! Secondly, you don't even have a good manner and your choice of words and response to him is weird. Imagine, telling your husband that if he loves you, he should pay for everything your parents demanded. Yet you knew his salary. Now, you want him to be happy, and care of you with a loan to be paid. Yet, you have no job or work to talk about. I think the guy is a SIMP. What was special about you? Nonsense! I pity guys that go to borrow for marriage ceremony |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by Realist777: 7:45pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
mask3:The nigga is a pussy man 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by Buffalo2(m): 7:54pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
The way some parents behave when it comes to this less than 24 hrs program they call wedding eh, you'll think they are the ones that manufactured the lady ni. What would God that gives freely now do? The only mistake the guy did was to put all the blames on the wife. Since he's endured getting things done in the in laws way eh, he should just take the decision not to have anything done with them again since they've succeeded in selling their daughter. |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by freddie009(m): 7:54pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3: From the post is obvious he got married to young girl who has nothing doing at the moment. Baba I know someone who earned 80k when he got married, the lady was a working-class lady they collaborated. Everything worked fine , they had some business together before they eventually travel out of the country with their cute kids. Men stop putting yourself under unnecessary pressure on yourself trying to be a man, men's life matter. Get yourself a working-class woman. You guys don't know the benefit of having a woman that has something doing, not everyone will be rich. |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by marsup: 7:59pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
It will be hard to change his mood, if that is what is truly bothering him. Your family should have been considerate. I don't know why he had to put himself under unnecessary pressure. Paying the bride price was already tough, why should you allow your family dictate the venue and items for the wedding, when you already know his financial constraints? |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by Brushstrokes20: 8:03pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Why repeat this same story |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by ridwintin89(m): 8:23pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:See, you have to apologize to your husband. That statement "you are the one that want to marry me' disgust me a lot. I can quit a relationship if a lady says such to me. It means you don't love or value him at all. |
Re: My Husband Is Not The Same Man I Married. by Gidigrav(m): 8:58pm On Aug 14, 2023 |
I will never take a loan for a day wedding is just a day marriage is life time so if we can agree beyond my own power we quit your dad can't be forcing things in as much as i love u but I can't withstand what you want and you can be understanding i let you go and look for another wife all this things are common sense |
(1) (2) (3) ... (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (Reply)
Maid Pours Her Urine In Her Boss Juice (Video, Pic) / Checkout This Viral Family of 6 Photoshoot / What Is The Penalty Given To A Man Who Didn't Pay Lady's Dowry Before She Died?
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 95 |