Kobojunkie:
I thought you said she was the one who didn't really have time for the relationship as much as you had? Or was it more that your schedules didn't align well?

pansophist:
When it comes to romantic relationships, always go with biological reality, instead of social reality.

Biological reality would be a man marrying a woman he can take care of, is taller than and younger than her, a woman that will appreciate the experience he can give her, etc.

If you are a vulcanizer man shooting for a wealthy female banker, then you're conforming to social reality, and it hardly works.

For example, if you have 5k naira and want to feed for the whole day, it's foolish to go and eat in KFC. Buying something to cook or a roadside buka will give you more value for your money.

Let the richer women be with men that are richer than them, and you should be with a woman that in her reality, you're a catch. It's the law of relativity.

No de do pass yourself.

sharpwriter:

You are right about some ... but this CEO of yours maybe don see shege for men hand for past, and she dey look for husband desperately and had also been advised to be humble. And then this man she married also shows that he is a good man coz if na some, dem go don manipulate how to take all her properties and render her useless pretending to love her. Life sometimes no suppose hard.

Styluss:
No, as busy as I was, I had the time, just couldnt meet, I call and care always. We are in same city but i have a very tight schedule that I can only get a time out once a month, its beyond my control.
I use to tell her, if I had a regular job time, she will be considered busy because she flies and she only have time a few times per week herself. but she loves intimacy and obviously, once a month is crazy

She fell off along the line, and when I pleaded, I think she already moved on cos she acted as if I did more than that.

ideamonster:
The potential threat the career of a woman can cause to her marriage especially if her husband isn’t as successful as she is has always been a point of discussion. Moreover, some single men are even afraid to marry a woman who is successful in their chosen career than them. Some believe that the norm is husbands “should” hold higher job status relative to their wives. When this norm is violated, and wives hold the higher status job, negative consequences can follow: Women are more likely to be targets of husbands’ aggression, and the risk for divorce increases.

Question
is it a crime for a woman to succeed in her chosen field or earn more?

Women are generally hypergamous. So a tendency to look upward to men higher in status than them. So if the guy does not have any other thing to maintain her gaze after losing his financial position to her, then there is problem.

A rich woman needs to have other controlling lever. Either the guy is handsome, famous, knowledgeable or just another attributes that thrills her. Otherwise, the relationship breaks down as she loses interest in him.

Reason money alone doesn't help the man this days, especially when there is a semblance of independence on her part.

Solution: people should not marry with consideration of wealth. U must find something else that is eternal as point of connection. Pure Love is it, but may be difficult.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUrng-mfZpQ

pansophist:
When it comes to romantic relationships, always go with biological reality, instead of social reality.

Biological reality would be a man marrying a woman he can take care of, is taller than and younger than her, a woman that will appreciate the experience he can give her, etc.

If you are a vulcanizer man shooting for a wealthy female banker, then you're conforming to social reality, and it hardly works.

For example, if you have 5k naira and want to feed for the whole day, it's foolish to go and eat in KFC. Buying something to cook or a roadside buka will give you more value for your money.

Let the richer women be with men that are richer than them, and you should be with a woman that in her reality, you're a catch. It's the law of relativity.

No de do pass yourself.

ideamonster:
The potential threat the career of a woman can cause to her marriage especially if her husband isn’t as successful as she is has always been a point of discussion. Moreover, some single men are even afraid to marry a woman who is successful in their chosen career than them. Some believe that the norm is husbands “should” hold higher job status relative to their wives. When this norm is violated, and wives hold the higher status job, negative consequences can follow: Women are more likely to be targets of husbands’ aggression, and the risk for divorce increases.

Question
is it a crime for a woman to succeed in her chosen field or earn more?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUrng-mfZpQ

Kobojunkie:
Ok

Styluss:
I wasnt planning to marry in the first place. Painful but not marriageable

Hassanmaye:

Right now I want to marry from a rich family but my salary is just 70k, Omo I don't want to Miss this opportunity. I just want to know the problem, is it ego? See finish or what

pansophist:
When it comes to romantic relationships, always go with biological reality, instead of social reality.

Biological reality would be a man marrying a woman he can take care of, is taller than and younger than her, a woman that will appreciate the experience he can give her, etc.

If you are a vulcanizer man shooting for a wealthy female banker, then you're conforming to social reality, and it hardly works.

For example, if you have 5k naira and want to feed for the whole day, it's foolish to go and eat in KFC. Buying something to cook or a roadside buka will give you more value for your money.

Let the richer women be with men that are richer than them, and you should be with a woman that in her reality, you're a catch. It's the law of relativity.

No de do pass yourself.

talented321:
An experience would have been better''
1. Haven't u experience women in ur area of work or compound how women who are doing well behaves like they are special''
2. It has its own merits and demerits'' but it is very challenging when the woman is full of pride''
3. You may not see those red flags in the beginning but after some years into the marriage she will show u those signs except you also good in packaging urself.
4. It is very easy for a rich woman to divorce u'' look at nigerians actresses and many more'
5. Many of them are not faithful because they travel alot and have chance to do whatever they want'
6. There is a right u potray when living with the woman of ur standard and that of a rich woman'' you know the power that comes with cash even as man''

okewumi:
■ Is only insecure men.
Okonjo oweala is still with her husband and you will know she comes from a good home. A well brought up high lady will manage her home without ego. I have many as friend and they are wonderful wife to their husband.

ideamonster:
The potential threat the career of a woman can cause to her marriage especially if her husband isn’t as successful as she is has always been a point of discussion. Moreover, some single men are even afraid to marry a woman who is successful in their chosen career than them. Some believe that the norm is husbands “should” hold higher job status relative to their wives. When this norm is violated, and wives hold the higher status job, negative consequences can follow: Women are more likely to be targets of husbands’ aggression, and the risk for divorce increases.

Question
is it a crime for a woman to succeed in her chosen field or earn more?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUrng-mfZpQ

ideamonster:
The potential threat the career of a woman can cause to her marriage especially if her husband isn’t as successful as she is has always been a point of discussion. Moreover, some single men are even afraid to marry a woman who is successful in their chosen career than them. Some believe that the norm is husbands “should” hold higher job status relative to their wives. When this norm is violated, and wives hold the higher status job, negative consequences can follow: Women are more likely to be targets of husbands’ aggression, and the risk for divorce increases.

Question
is it a crime for a woman to succeed in her chosen field or earn more?


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eUrng-mfZpQ

IamMobisola:
Nigerian/African men are the ones with the problem. For them it is a Taboo for their wives to be richer/more successful than them.

Beyoncé is more successful and richer than Jay Z but they are still married today.
Cardi B is more successful and richer than her husband.
Ciara is richer and more successful than her husband and they have been married for years.
Kerry Washington; an American actress is richer and more successful than her husband, but they have been married for over 10 years. The list is endless

talented321:
It is choice' there are 80% chances that a woman who is doing well more than you will take advantage of you except the matured ones''

Karleb:
I remember when one agba one Twitter asked if women wanted to be richer than their husbands, majority said no. They prefer to their husband to be richer.

Kobojunkie:
Probably because it was exactly that, you wanting the relationship more than she did. How is she to blame for that?

Kobojunkie:
For you, maybe, but not for someone else.

talented321:
When starting mariage don't start with a woman who is richer than you''

talented321:
When starting mariage don't start with a woman who is richer than you''

Styluss:
Lol, yes, that's why her first one failed, even after a child, he still didnt consider her worthy? so who am I?

jeromestarks:
Three bottles of COVID -19 for you.