So i met this great guy, he has a wonderful personality, his looks are okay even though he is not everything i had wished for physically in a man that i would like to date. i'm just so sad and confused because he is still struggling to make a living. yes i know he is a young guy and is still practically building up, i just seriously wished he was was already made and really comfortable. however, i do not want to let him go because he is is a very unique person. i fear that it may be hard for me to find a man who is this good.
what do you guys think? would it be worth throwing away a good man just because of my other expectations? am i being a bit too over the top? do you think i should be patient and just watch him grow? is personality what should really matter the most?

^^ Are you made and really comfortable?

You're wasting your time.

There are sexy men out there with admirable personality.

Beauty will fade. If he's ugly from the start, imagine what he'd look like later on. And wouldnt you like to enjoy beauty before it fades?

I understand that Nigerian men wowo die!! Try Ghanian or Congolese men jare.

Your soul mate is out there, dont settle for less.



Side Effect of this advice: Spinsterhood.

simply put-He's a great struggling guy and you dont know if you should stick around or not.
Listen sweetie,you dont find great guys all the time.he's on a quest for good life and comfort.walk with him.it might be a little rough but i bet it'll turn out good in the end.

True talk @ slimyem.

Do not despise little begining; d later end shall be great.

@ poster why not try to work hard also and make something for yourself instead of waiting for a well to do man to come and take care of you. A good man is very hard to see these days , and when you meet one its is advisable to stick to that one. The most important thing is that he is hard working , so the money will come later. Would you rather stay with a rich man that treats you like trash or stay with a hardworking young man that treats you like a queen?

op no need wasting ur time with him, becos when he hit money he will discharge u & marry anoda babe