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Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by lexy2014: 3:20pm On Sep 07, 2023
Infolenka:
Your mother is your sister and your father is the father of your mother.

This means that your grandfather is your mother's husband as well as the father of her daughter, and your mother's father's grand daughter is his own daughter.

So your father has two daughters and one granddaughter who is also his daughter.

Where does husband come into the discussion?
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by hansomb: 3:39pm On Sep 07, 2023
Infolenka:
Your mother is your sister and your father is the father of your mother.

This means that your grandfather is your mother's husband as well as the father of her daughter, and your mother's father's grand daughter is his own daughter.

So your father has two daughters and one granddaughter who is also his daughter.
The more I read the less I understand
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by Anny69: 3:42pm On Sep 07, 2023
Wicked men everywhere. undecided How would you rape your daughter? Disgusting pedophile.

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Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by cosmos1440: 3:43pm On Sep 07, 2023
after reading the story, i had a gut feeling, this must be an African American (black) family in the US of A... a few search on the web and
. . . voila!!! i was right

Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by eepeepook: 3:44pm On Sep 07, 2023
There are many stories of this sort in Africa. I had a neighbour back in the day who was in this position. The man claimed the child was his son’s and called the mother the child’s sister. I believe as a fully grown man with children of his own today, he’d have long found out the truth.
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by sterlingD(m): 3:50pm On Sep 07, 2023
YeyeGbami:
Touching!

Some men lack self control. Instead of motivational speaker, she for join US marine
As l start to read the story my head start to dey hot.My head come dey heavy me one kind the story want to turn my brain upside down so l stop for my sanctity and peace of mind.

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Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by iamtardey: 3:59pm On Sep 07, 2023
I thought for like 15sec before I came at what’s going on here… as usual I have to jump from the topic to conclusion straight hehe
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by SweetDipBenny(m): 4:02pm On Sep 07, 2023
Messed up sad
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by juman(m): 4:05pm On Sep 07, 2023
It happens sometimes.
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by samuelson06(m): 4:36pm On Sep 07, 2023
Infolenka:
Your mother is your sister and your father is the father of your mother.

This means that your grandfather is your mother's husband as well as the father of her daughter, and your mother's father's grand daughter is his own daughter.

So your father has two daughters and one granddaughter who is also his daughter.

Are you through?
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by Sabadon(m): 5:09pm On Sep 07, 2023
Infolenka:
Your mother is your sister and your father is the father of your mother.

This means that your grandfather is your mother's husband as well as the father of her daughter, and your mother's father's grand daughter is his own daughter.

So your father has two daughters and one granddaughter who is also his daughter.
LoL reminds me of the song, I'm my own grandpa

Ok now since you share a father with your mother, that means your mother is your sister, and since you are a sister to your mother, inevitably you are your own Aunty grin

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Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by ogahope(m): 5:13pm On Sep 07, 2023
She really went trough hell in order to be a voice to her generation.
Her story is enough to encourage others who are passing through such situation. God kept her alive in order to save others.
Devil has really done alot of havoc to alot souls.
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by Kyari79(m): 5:19pm On Sep 07, 2023
Then why advertising ur stupidity to the puplic
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by haphizz57(m): 5:27pm On Sep 07, 2023
We all got a secret. But dis one pass power
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by Eriokanmi: 5:44pm On Sep 07, 2023
Americans' lifestyle is so weird and unimaginable. No single moral to learn from it.
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by Originalsly: 5:53pm On Sep 07, 2023
Which Nigerian woman has the balls to come out and make such a confession? ... she would be gang raped by social media. This is nothing new.
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by Walz001: 6:06pm On Sep 07, 2023
Men with their dark part of Life ...... One just need to be extremely careful with how we live our Life ...... this is so bad to be aleeping with his daughter
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by Godmind2022(m): 6:23pm On Sep 07, 2023
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


Where's the testimony here, her life is an unrewritable tragedy and she's stuck in denial.

I understand men being sexually attracted to their first cousins, their mom's younger sister or their wife's mother because I've been in that boat.

But I'd never understand how someone will find his own daughter sexually attractive.




Common on! This lady is healed. If not, you can't be reading her story. She would have kept it a top secret. And that's what the devil ( the die-hard enemy of our souls) wants.

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Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by IjebuWarrior: 6:23pm On Sep 07, 2023
Infolenka:
Your mother is your sister and your father is the father of your mother.

This means that your grandfather is your mother's husband as well as the father of her daughter, and your mother's father's grand daughter is his own daughter.

So your father has two daughters and one granddaughter who is also his daughter.

Yaba-Left V.I.P! cool
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by Younghacka(m): 7:19pm On Sep 07, 2023
Infolenka:
Your mother is your sister and your father is the father of your mother.

This means that your grandfather is your mother's husband as well as the father of her daughter, and your mother's father's grand daughter is his own daughter.

So your father has two daughters and one granddaughter who is also his daughter.
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Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by Younghacka(m): 7:21pm On Sep 07, 2023
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


Where's the testimony here, her life is an unrewritable tragedy and she's stuck in denial.

I understand men being sexually attracted to their first cousins, their mom's younger sister or their wife's mother because I've been in that boat.

But I'd never understand how someone will find his own daughter sexually attractive.
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Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by Atolu01: 7:35pm On Sep 07, 2023
Repeated/ chronic trauma is nothing funny. Thank God she is living a much better life now, and she is sufficiently healed to acknowledge it.
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by Faithy04: 8:22pm On Sep 07, 2023
Life can be terrible sometimes all we have to do is to pray and encourage ourselves in the word of God
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by bizzibodi(m): 9:09pm On Sep 07, 2023
Which kind pfucking father is that?this kind shiit should not b allowed to pass away in uncle Sam country 4 that matter.
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by SonOfHercules: 9:15pm On Sep 07, 2023
I have one that is living with me now. Both parties feels it's normal. But the son dey fear to live wit his daughter,e doesn't want to repeat the same mistake.
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by Okhuadams(m): 10:18pm On Sep 07, 2023
osuulola:
A woman has opened up about the harrowing moment she discovered that the man she knew as her maternal grandfather was also her biological father, having raped his own daughter and gotten her pregnant.

LaKiesha Allen, 44, from Lansing, Michigan, endured a horrific childhood that saw her routinely abused by her mother – who, she later learned, was also her sister.

Now, in a gut-wrenching interview, LaKiesha has opened up about the horrific abuse she suffered at the hands of her mom, which left her ‘bleeding and bruised’, while also recalling the sexual assaults she faced from the son of her mom’s boyfriend.

The ‘darkness’ she faced throughout her childhood started before she was born – as she was conceived when her mother was raped by her father at age 13.

LaKiesha, who is now a motivational speaker and uses her story to try to help others, spoke out about the struggles she had to overcome during a recent interview with Unfiltered Stories.

She explained that her mother met her biological father for the first time at age 13 after she was sent to stay with him for the summer.

‘She had no idea that her father was a pedophile,’ she said. ‘When she came home from that summer, she was pregnant with me.

‘was born to a 13-year-old little girl. I was conceived in darkness – but what I was born into was just as traumatic. My entire childhood was one form of trauma after another.’

LaKiesha also shared how she was sexually abused from a young age by the son of a man her mother was dating.

‘He would babysit me and he would sexually molest me. He would use religion to do it,’ she said.

‘He would tell me that I would go to hell if I didn’t do it or that he’d molest my younger brother if I didn’t perform. And then he would bribe me with food as a prize for performing.’

LaKiesha said the sexual assault eventually came to light and her mother left that man, but she then started going ‘from one guy to another.’

LaKiesha recalled ‘being left alone for days at a time’ at age eight while trying to watch over her younger siblings.

‘I understand now that the age that [my mom] was, still a teenager herself, and the trauma that she endured – she was a young girl herself looking to be loved herself but looking in all the wrong places,’ she continued.

While she had children, she was still a child herself. Mothering the children she had given birth to was not something she was equipped to do.’

LaKiesha told the publication that she would be ‘penalized’ by her mother if ‘something was not right when she came home’ and suffered ‘relentless beatings.’

‘I endured beating, after beating, after beating, after beating,’ she said. ‘Tumultuous beatings.

‘Extension cords were her weapon of choice. She would beat me profusely to the point where my skin would be black, blue, and purple.

‘As I was getting older I started to think, “I can’t take this anymore.” I had a lot of anger in me.’

The Michigan native said that she had no idea who her father was for most of her childhood, and she would dream of him showing up and rescuing her.

When she eventually found out the truth from her mother, she was devastated.

‘My world was just shattered. Up until the truth was revealed there was not a night where I didn’t go to sleep just praying and wishing for my father to come and save me,’ she explained.

‘But with the truth of who my father was, that escape was no longer [possible]. My father was a pedophile. I was fathered by a pedophile.’

LaKiesha admitted that she attempted suicide soon after, at age 13, by downing a whole bottle of Tylenol while she was home alone.

But she started ‘vomiting profusely’ and most of the pills came ‘back up,’ which she now believes was God looking over her.

‘He didn’t let me die. Those pills should have killed me but they [didn’t], God took me back,’ she said.

She recalled one occasion when her mother got into a horrible fight with the new man she was seeing and tried to defend herself by pulling out a gun. Unfortunately, it backfired.

‘She tried to fight back. She pulled out a gun and she tried to shoot him with it. But he pulled the gun from her hands, beat her with it, and threw the gun away,’ she remembered.

The next morning, LaKiesha – who was around 14 or 15 years old at the time – said her mother hurt her worse than she ever had before, which left her in ‘searing pain.’

I was just done, my body was bleeding, I was bruised all over. Welts were forming up on my body,’ she told the outlet.

And that was the final straw for her. She recalled sitting on the bus that morning and thinking that when she got home from school later that day, she was going to ‘find the gun’ and use it to ‘kill’ her mom.

Instead, she decided to ask for help. She wrote a letter to her teacher describing her situation and stuck it under a book on her desk.

She was then brought into the principal’s office and CPS was called. She was put into foster care that day, but she experienced more ‘domestic violence’ in her new home.

A few days after she went to live with the family, she said she overheard her foster mother yell on the phone, ‘I’m sick and tired of my check coming late. I don’t work for free. You can have this girl back.’

She was told to pack her stuff up and was given a trash bag to hold all of her belongings. The foster family then left her outside of the CPS office.

‘I’m around 14 or 15 years old with my belongings in a trash bag sitting in the dark pretty much because the sun hadn’t fully come up yet,’ she said of the moment.

‘I’m waiting for my social worker to show up. I looked at the trash bag with my belongings in it and I thought, “I’m just trash. My life has no purpose.”‘

LaKiesha said her life started to improve after she was placed with a new foster family that was much better than her first.

She also got involved with the W.K. Kellogg Foundation, which ‘works with communities to create conditions for vulnerable children so they can realize their full potential in school, work, and life.’

She called joining the organization the ‘catalyst’ for getting on a good path. She soon became passionate about helping other foster kids and began sharing her story with the world.

‘I spent my 16th birthday speaking in front of a large crowd, and I will never forget it,’ she said.

Something erupted inside of me and this power came over me, like, this is where your freedom is. This is where you’re going to find your voice. I thought, “OK, I can do this.”‘

She also said going to church was monumental in her learning to ‘forgive’ what had happened to her.

‘Unforgiveness would have kept me chained to the trauma, bound to my past. I now recognize my traumas and triggers, I now have the power to control them before they overtake me,’ she shared.

‘I am not defined by what I come from. I am not defined by anything that happened to me. I am not defined by the natural DNA in my blood.

‘I am defined by my resilience and my faith in God. I am defined by my ability to say, “Yes, this happened to me but it’s also evidence of the mantle that God has called me to.” God has taken pain and turned it into purpose.’

She said she has now ‘forgiven’ her mother ‘for everything she has done,’ but she admitted that they still don’t have a ‘healthy relationship’ because her mom is still ‘stuck in her trauma.’

She is now a mother herself and is ‘focused on being the best mother that she could be.’

I spent so many years of my childhood seeking a natural father, not realizing that I would never have one,’ she concluded. ‘What I found instead is God, who has been my father my entire life.’

Credit: Daily Mail

https://www.starnews.com.ng/how-i-shared-father-with-my-mother-woman/
A very long story from the first paragraph I read. I thank God you made it tru
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by DAMN99: 10:20pm On Sep 07, 2023
Bro this is the most craziest thing I've seen on the internet today
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by saasala(m): 11:34pm On Sep 07, 2023
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked


Where's the testimony here, her life is an unrewritable tragedy and she's stuck in denial.

I understand men being sexually attracted to their first cousins, their mom's younger sister or their wife's mother because I've been in that boat.

But I'd never understand how someone will find his own daughter sexually attractive.

Are you for real bro? Sexually attracted to your what? Sh1t. WTF man
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by econity(m): 8:06am On Sep 08, 2023
CHINATOWN
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by ojari: 8:59am On Sep 08, 2023
Terrible things are happening 😢. It's unbelievable the extent of wickedness human beings are capable of unleashing on others, even on their own blood. Hurt people, hurt other people. Poor girl. I hope she heals.


Anyone who has experienced trauma or failure, or a stretch of disappointments from life and others can also recover etc. Denial among other things often get in the way of healing, recovery.
This video can teach you how to get up when you have been knocked out. How to Identify obstructions to your rising up and how to heal properly.

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5 symptoms of false recovery and how to heal


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GNRxBfi-rbw?si=SNGOYcVUjpnsewml
Re: How I Shared Father With My Mother – Woman by Brandiebird: 9:05am On Sep 08, 2023
Sabadon:
LoL reminds me of the song, I'm my own grandpa

Ok now since you share a father with your mother, that means your mother is your sister, and since you are a sister to your mother, inevitably you are your own Aunty grin

I laughed so hard! God forgive me 🥲

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