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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Jeezuzpick(m): 7:44pm On Sep 05, 2023

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

Did you consider the fact that she just went though major trauma?

A C-section is no joke, Bro! You're talking of ₦300k, can you accept that amount to have your abdomen sliced open?

I will advise you.... be gentle to her and help her recover instead of pitying yourself.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by steveodo(m): 7:44pm On Sep 05, 2023

You sound arrogant in your wirte up, that may be the root of the problem, how can you think of taming your wife, is she a bird?

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by EvangelistChuks(m): 7:44pm On Sep 05, 2023

A woman that can’t respect and honor her husband when he is poor can never do same no matter his wealth.What you get is hypocrisy and eye service.Respect and honor is organic and not cosmetic.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by drimzsmoke(m): 7:44pm On Sep 05, 2023

Run away!!!

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by BRATISLAVA: 7:44pm On Sep 05, 2023

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

She should be respectful? Vecause you paid for a cs to birth your own child? Something men do globally, everyday without demanding "respect"?

How old are you? This is male fantasy.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Bfly: 7:45pm On Sep 05, 2023

You are probably typing this from a bar.
When you become sober, you can come back.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Kobojunkie: 7:45pm On Sep 05, 2023

oz4real83:
Wetin happen?

Excellent question! grin

Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Ladymillion(f): 7:45pm On Sep 05, 2023

oz4real83:
how I go mock you? What you emphasized so much on was the 300k you paid for the CS and you also used the word "tamed" about your wife, such word is used for wild animals. there is bound to be chaos at home if you do these things , that was why I wanted more details

Thanks a lot for this observation, he shiukd thank his Gid the woman didn't die in the process otherwise he would have spent more than the 309k he is lamenting

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by madjune(m): 7:45pm On Sep 05, 2023

It's called Post Partum depression.

It manifests itself in many forms.

To be a man is not easy. In times like this, you'd often wonder if you didn't marry a witch.

Men and women ain't the same.
Don't worry, though. Keep being the gentleman, she will come around.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by bekpo(m): 7:45pm On Sep 05, 2023

thesilentman:

You no read wetin i write ni,abi you dey wain me ni?

Wetin u write? U write nothing. What's her offense? What type of behavior is she putting up? Be specific of her offense.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by valentineuwakwe(m): 7:45pm On Sep 05, 2023

Just don't feel bad about anything she throws or act towards you....woman tend to enter certain moods after child birth and besides she did a cs recently ..give her time to heal and have a heart to heart talk with her.
She will be ok with time....

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by UDUJ(m): 7:45pm On Sep 05, 2023

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

Lol at the bold faced cheesy

I thought it's only animals that need to be tamed? undecided

Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by puremaker7(m): 7:45pm On Sep 05, 2023

thesilentman:

ok i get you-i just mentioned the money aspect as latest in the sacrifices i make for her.I had believed it would make her respect me more.Reason with me.

300k for CS is what is making you mad compared to the pain she just went through.
How old are you?

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Kobojunkie: 7:46pm On Sep 05, 2023

Bfly:
You are probably typing this from a bar.
When you become sober, you can come back.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Romanoff(f): 7:46pm On Sep 05, 2023

ComptonGee:
You said you thought you had tamed for life. That alone shows you're the problem here. She probably have been tolerating your inhumane treatment. You treat your wife like an animal all on the name of being a red piller

Wife done turn Bingo wey them dey tame.

If you're still single, dey go through the social media account of the guy wey you dey date. Dey read him comments, they look the comments of people wey him dey like, dey read him posts judiciously. That is the true character of the man.

God abeg o.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Ladymillion(f): 7:46pm On Sep 05, 2023

oz4real83:
how I go mock you? What you emphasized so much on was the 300k you paid for the CS and you also used the word "tamed" about your wife, such word is used for wild animals. there is bound to be chaos at home if you do these things , that was why I wanted more details

Thanks a lot for this observation, he should thank his God the woman didn't die in the process otherwise he would have spent more than the 300k he is lamenting about

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by isabi2lof: 7:46pm On Sep 05, 2023

You don't have any human feelings at all undecided

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by royalfly(m): 7:46pm On Sep 05, 2023

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

I know someone who is in the same shoes now, seriously what is the reason for these things. The disrespect and insult is the worst. They would not listen yo anything u say, once u react they start to cry and change the narrative and play victim. Seriously what do one really do? Divorce is not something I really want for anyone. All because of the children. It's very difficult.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Cutehector(m): 7:46pm On Sep 05, 2023

Relax man. She"ll get back to being normal

Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by tofepass: 7:46pm On Sep 05, 2023

nato20ng:

Calm down bro, she's dealing with post patum stress

Exactly what's going through at the moment. Try and understand with her and be more patient. She will get over it with your support

Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by bonnyhope: 7:47pm On Sep 05, 2023

thesilentman:
My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.

An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!

She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.

I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?

I need candid advice,folks.

How would you say you spent what you didn't plan for ?
Remember she was pregnant for 9 months.

As for her attitude, just calm down, everything will be fine with time but you sef no sound serious.
Like you just form the story for attention

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by steveodo(m): 7:47pm On Sep 05, 2023

The sacrifice isn't for her, you are only performing your duty as a man

thesilentman:

ok i get you-i just mentioned the money aspect as latest in the sacrifices i make for her.I had believed it would make her respect me more.Reason with me.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by cindicandy(f): 7:47pm On Sep 05, 2023

Enugupikin:

Sounds like Kobojunkie D

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by ChengHun(m): 7:47pm On Sep 05, 2023

Your wife has gotten what she wants from you (children).She has nothing to lose if you send her packing, that's why she has changed.Just tolerate her and move on with life.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Kobojunkie: 7:47pm On Sep 05, 2023

oz4real83:
how I go mock you? What you emphasized so much on was the 300k you paid for the CS and you also used the word "tamed" about your wife, such word is used for wild animals. there is bound to be chaos at home if you do these things , that was why I wanted more details

LOL.... Imagine the riffraff! grin

Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Babastrong(m): 7:47pm On Sep 05, 2023

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by DrAda(f): 7:47pm On Sep 05, 2023

Postpartum depression is real. This happens to a lot of women post childbirth. I experienced it as well.
Read up on it and stay strong for your family. If it gets too bad, get her to see a specialist.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Jeezuzpick(m): 7:47pm On Sep 05, 2023

nato20ng:

Calm down bro, she's dealing with post patum stress

Mature person spotted.

Den no dey buy am for market.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by iReddington: 7:47pm On Sep 05, 2023

Leggodeals:
Fake story

Fake or not, these things do happen in marriages, the advice you see here might seem like you don't need it now, till you sef fit experience am. Always open your mind to dey learn always especially matured conversation and advices you might get here.

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by tonididdy(m): 7:48pm On Sep 05, 2023

thesilentman:

I have same mindset like you,but when i look at the innocent cute boy,i get madly confused.I don't want to believe my woman really got me this time around.

What's your anger exactly?
The money spent
Or
Her character changed?

In all honesty, it's ok to be mad but 2 wrong don't make a right.
Your attitude towards her is the reaction you getting from her.
Try a different approach!

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Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by deltaF0SS: 7:48pm On Sep 05, 2023

Go for... is it a 3rd or 4th wife
😐

Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by EmekaMD(m): 7:48pm On Sep 05, 2023

You sound so ridiculous and entitled.
Tamed her? Did you think she was a dog?

You spent 300k for CS and needed to be respected for that? Well she did more by bearing all those pain for 9 months without getting any respect from you.

Nigerians should begin to learn to treat their wives with equal rights and exactly how they want theirs mothers and daughters treated.

This is exactly why Nigerian marriages fail abroad because immediately the wife starts earning enough she'd automatically learn to stop tolerating nonsense from entitled men like this one.

I hope you drink some senses into you too and not just alcohol and foolishness

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