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| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by omoharry(f): 10:01pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Myer:Oo my God!! š¤£  . Thank you1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by countryman13: 10:02pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
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| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by RandomFellow: 10:03pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Just relax. This is the best time to become her playmate. Help as much as you can, support her even when she hasn't asked for your assistance. Playfully tell her you love how she looks when she's mad, and jokingly tell her to get ready for another pregnancy. Try to smile often, make her laugh too. Buy her small small stuffs when you're going back home often (apples, bottled nuts, shortbread cookies, etc), get fresh veggies like carrots, green beans, cucumber, etc and make veg sauce for her to add to her food once in a while, etc. Make your woman rest sometimes, and take over some of her job, she'll appreciate you Get her machines to reduce her labour... Washing machine, electric or gas oven for baking and grilling, good blender, different manual vegetable cutters, vacuum cleaner (if your house is big), deep freezer, etc... Make life easy for her 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Smokedetector: 10:08pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Omo. Do you even love your wife? Using tame for another being! The money you are so pained about , is it not for your wife and child. You need to take a step back and appreciate love your family properly oh. Your wife is most likely still in pain and under severe stress, this is not the way bro. She doesn't deserve this 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by TheGift: 10:10pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
thesilentman: If you were a little more sensitive to the needs of Women or your wife, you may have educated yourself on something called Post Partum Depression. it has the capacity to bring drastic changes to a Woman's personality. But you are more caught up in you false sense of Manhood, which is tied to your ability to tame a Woman into submission, as if She is a wild animal from the Bush, or a Pet dog. Rather than a fellow Human Being ,a partner, friend and companion. Now, the child birth experience has broken the hold of your forced dominance , and She is showing you shege. And you the Man, who was able to tame Her, cannot tame Himself, or His emotions, cannot realize that right now what His Wife and the mother of His children need, are not is frustration fuelled angers, but His care, patience and understanding. Drink, to forget your sorrows, for the night, you will still wake up to it tommorow. I dont think you should drink and brainstorm with your alcoholically enhanced furstration and anger though, so you wont go home and make things worse. The first battle you need to Win , is the battle with yourself. Put your ego aside, and take responsibilty for building and keeping your family. Be a Man, your Children need you, your Wife needs you, and you, need you. All the best. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by TheGift: 10:12pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
If you were a little more sensitive to the needs of Women or your wife, you may have educated yourself on something called Post Partum Depression. it has the capacity to bring drastic changes to a Woman's personality. But you are more caught up in you false sense of Manhood, which is tied to your ability to tame a Woman into submission, as if She is a wild animal from the Bush, or a Pet dog. Rather than a fellow Human Being ,a partner, friend and companion. Now, the child birth experience has broken the hold of your forced dominance , and She is showing you shege. And you the Man, who was able to tame Her, cannot tame Himself, or His emotions, cannot realize that right now what His Wife and the mother of His children need, are not is frustration fuelled angers, but His care, patience and understanding. Drink, to forget your sorrows, for the night, you will still wake up to it tommorow. I dont think you should drink and brainstorm with your alcoholically enhanced furstration and anger though, so you wont go home and make things worse. The first battle you need to Win , is the battle with yourself. Put your ego aside, and take responsibilty for building and keeping your family. Be a Man, your Children need you, your Wife needs you, and you, need you. All the best. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Taiwo20(m): 10:13pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
thesilentman: Post natal wahalaā¦. Please just let her be for the now. Itās the stress associated with child birth especially C.S If you can, let her mother come to the houseā¦to assist her daughter and also relate and guide her 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by profodbaba: 10:14pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
She's going through PTSD, calmly talk to her about the change or hire a therapist. Learn programming/coding faster with our simplified classes. Contact 09026403456 |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by BellaLuce: 10:16pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
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| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by omoharry(f): 10:18pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Houseontherock1:I believe they never went for marriage counselling b4 marriage.. He is still thinking like a bachelor that did his girl a favour and expect gratitude from her 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by drololaaof: 10:19pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
cutecommend:Thank you for this advice, What you need to know is that on wedding day you are called groom, you must groom her to be wife and friend . You should know that post operative psychological problems can occur ,she might need rehabilitation. |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Coolgent(m): 10:21pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
thesilentman:Please be patient with her, It is hormonal changes she will surely return to her former self o. I have experienced exactly the same thing after she had 2 CS's 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Quenncee: 10:23pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
thesilentman:be man enough. Dike, go for second wife and later add the third wife. Come back here and thank me later. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Luckysbab: 10:25pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Persephone1: Youāre a kid. You also failed to see same Nigerian men soothing him and offering wise words and the OP gradually calming down to rethink things. Just cos a man has a moment, like every rational person will at some point or the other in their lives, you have to seize the opportunity to pursue this crap narrative. Are you in SS2? Anyways, itās your cup of tea; I just thought to school you a bit. |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Taiwo20(m): 10:26pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Ballzproblem2: You will loose hair, plait hair, cook even bathe for your baby when the time comes. You would also be a father to a girl and all your hard guy will dissolve 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by TheRealOwner(m): 10:29pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
thesilentman: It's called Post Partum Depression. You sound like a typical Nigerian man who only cares about the money he is dropping and gives no damn about anything else. Your wife just gave birth and started behaving strangely and your first reaction is to talk about the money you paid for your baby to be born safely. Really?? Go and talk to an experienced doctor and get her the help she needs before things get worse for everyone in your family and do it fast!! 2 Likes
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| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by CONCEPT360: 10:30pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
thesilentman:To have thought in your heart that the 300k you spent for the delivery of your child is a favour to your wife is totally wrong. To put it in the right perspective, that money is part of your responsibility as a man in a marriage. Your wife is never expected to pay that money herself even if she has the money. Pregnancy and child birth alters every woman body system and hormone. Your woman need support right now no matter how childish you think her behaviour is. From your write up I can infer that you are failing in your responsibility as the head of the family. Finally before i drop my pen. I want to remind you a very important role God has designed for every man in marriage. He said 'husband love your wife'. This is statement that has no condition attached to it. To further break it down, it means loving your wife is now an obligation, not a choice. That woman is the one making sacrifices. Make her happy and you will have a happy home. If there is no peace at home you will not have peace anywhere, not even in the bar where you are drinking your ass away. 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Kemadealadire(f): 10:30pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Persephone1:Lol, I tell you, just look at the comments here and most of their comments on the online space, a lot of women married rubbish. |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by TenQ: 10:31pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
thesilentman:Here hormones have gone haywire : try to understand this and be a man o! She doesn't even know why she's cranky! 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Silentgroper(m): 10:33pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Persephone1:reverse the case and the man is big trouble... |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Luckysbab: 10:36pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
DARLINGTON869: Why not also advertise your products here too, rather than only ask people to go to TikTok |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Silentgroper(m): 10:38pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
ItisWell22: are the hormones on beserk mode because she conceived through c.s or does it just normally do like that after conceiving ?? |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by OyinO: 10:42pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Second wife is the best solution |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by NewDea4: 10:43pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
thesilentman: Just calm down and google "post natal depression" It is well bro 1 Like |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by CoolAmbience(m): 10:44pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
cutecommend: Mtchewww. See as e sweet you to type... Anyways, you are obviously not in the frontline. |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Silentgroper(m): 10:49pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
cutesharon:they both decided to have a baby .. it takes two to tango ... which one be he give am belle .. shey na him force her to spread leg š¤š¤š¤š¤ 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by perdollar(m): 10:54pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
How do I explain to my wife that the erotic msgs she sneaked in to read in my DM are just me being me and having fun and has nothing to do wt infidelity? Pls can sbdy help me on what to do? |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Nobody: 10:55pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Luckysbab:"It is better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and to remove all doubt." Dear ancestor shouldn't you be wise enough to keep your unsolicited "schooling" to yourself till it is asked for? 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by 1Sharon(f): 10:58pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
You're insane!! For her CS  Is it not your baby too?? |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Nobody: 10:58pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
folake4u:Likeee How can a man cry so much for respect when his wife is going through a lot. Imagine. Heaven knows what the lady had gone through for her to tell him to do his worse. Toxic and verbally abusive men are dangerous to mental health. 2 Likes |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Dshocker(m): 10:59pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
thesilentman: In all you narrated, you still didn't say anything |
| Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by Nobody: 11:02pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
Kemadealadire:Infact some women are really trying. May God help |
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