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Deleted. by eepeepook: 1:28pm On Sep 08, 2023
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Re: Deleted. by TemplarLandry: 1:31pm On Sep 08, 2023
Broski, can't you see you're just an option? She's using you.
Explain your financial situation to her, if she's ready to sponsor your relocation, you can go ahead with the japa plan.

In advance, I dedicate “Cry Me A River” by Justin Timberlake to you two in case you later break up when you get back together in the UK.
Great jam!

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Re: Deleted. by Pidginwhisper: 1:31pm On Sep 08, 2023
Have you read a Novel by Ugo C Shege?

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Re: Deleted. by Wodu89: 1:31pm On Sep 08, 2023
LoL. You can't see you're about to become a intimacy gadget abi. Continue allowing poverty supply you with endless delusions.

She's unfaithful and capable of anything. Let this slide. It's not a good opening

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Re: Deleted. by Aonkuuse(m): 1:37pm On Sep 08, 2023
Bro focus on your life, don't take steps backwards because you want to go and Bleep pussy.

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Re: Deleted. by proff010: 1:41pm On Sep 08, 2023
You better follow the advise from this book.
Pidginwhisper:
Have you read a Novel by Ugo C Shege?

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Re: Deleted. by izonborn098(m): 1:41pm On Sep 08, 2023
She blocked u after relocating, she block u from all platform, she dated somebody for more than three years....
When she become lonely, SHE remember you EXIST and u said u are CORNfused...

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Re: Deleted. by Ballzproblem2: 1:44pm On Sep 08, 2023
probably wants you to come over because she is finding it hard to find companion there ..


Why are you in communication with someone who dumped you?

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Re: Deleted. by eniolorunfe: 1:45pm On Sep 08, 2023
Na wa! people go see red flags but still wan chook head… they go come dey ask questions that they already know the answers to.

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Re: Deleted. by Alchemy528: 1:50pm On Sep 08, 2023
Rubbish
Re: Deleted. by eepeepook: 1:54pm On Sep 08, 2023
Ballzproblem2:
probably wants you to come over because she is finding it hard to find companion there ..


Why are you in communication with someone who dumped you?
That’s the problem. She never said it was over.
Re: Deleted. by lifenajeje(m): 2:00pm On Sep 08, 2023
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Re: Deleted. by Kobicove(m): 2:03pm On Sep 08, 2023
Since you know she can't host a man for more than a few months why do you still want to go using her as your sponsor?

If you go there in your present condition you will likely make your life a living hell cos you will be completely at her mercy undecided

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Re: Deleted. by fikayormi(m): 2:06pm On Sep 08, 2023
Babe don look around don realized that she is aging and seriously lonely , you are never her first choice boss , you’re just a back up incase things goes south which is currently happening .

If you are ready to be the wife make she be the husband no problem follow her plan .

So you self never get better plan for ur life na person wey don forget you wey no send ur papa you want

With your good job and hustling spirit ,who tell you say you won’t get a beautiful wife , come later japa in the nearest future?

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Re: Deleted. by StarRiderr: 2:07pm On Sep 08, 2023
TemplarLandry:
Broski, can't you see you're just an option? She's using you.
Explain your financial situation to her, if she's ready to sponsor your relocation, you can go ahead with the japa plan.

In advance, I dedicate “Cry Me A River” by Justin Timberlake to you two in case you later break up when you get back together in the UK.
Great jam!
bros no vex oo are u one of the moderators abeg e get why I dey ask

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Re: Deleted. by Nobody: 2:10pm On Sep 08, 2023
eepeepook:
That’s the problem. She never said it was over.
She ghosted you yet you interpreted this as "not over". So it is until she erect a billboard with "Eepeepook it is over" before it is really over?

If you know what's best for you ehn, you will focus on your life in Nigeria.

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Re: Deleted. by SIMPonPatrol(m): 2:17pm On Sep 08, 2023
eepeepook:
That’s the problem. She never said it was over.

She has an itch in her puscy so she needs a guy who will be helping her scratch it grin

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Re: Deleted. by Ladyclara002(f): 2:20pm On Sep 08, 2023
Advice: Communication is key in any relationship. Try talking to your ex and see if there's a way to work things out, or if it's best for both of you to move on separately.

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Re: Deleted. by eepeepook: 2:21pm On Sep 08, 2023
SIMPonPatrol:


She has an itch in her puscy so she needs a guy who will be helping her scratch it grin
She should find someone else. Distance, prospective employment and funds are big issues.
Re: Deleted. by izonborn098(m): 2:31pm On Sep 08, 2023
Oga is not all breakup they will open mouth to tell u...
eepeepook:
That’s the problem. She never said it was over.

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Re: Deleted. by Karlifate: 4:23pm On Sep 08, 2023
eepeepook:
She complains of loneliness all the time and wants me to come over.

She simply wants to use you to father her kids, then she'll show you shege afterwards, which will lead to divorce.


Relocate on your own timeline, not because you're coerced.


Better wise up.

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Re: Deleted. by Karlifate: 4:27pm On Sep 08, 2023
fikayormi:
Babe don look around don realized that she is aging and seriously lonely , you are never her first choice boss , you’re just a back up incase things goes south which is currently happening .

If you are ready to be the wife make she be the husband no problem follow her plan .

So you self never get better plan for ur life na person wey don forget you wey no send ur papa you want

With your good job and hustling spirit ,who tell you say you won’t get a beautiful wife , come later japa in the nearest future?

Dude just wants to bring a self-inflicted problem upon himself.

Later, he'll blame village people.

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Re: Deleted. by Karlifate: 4:28pm On Sep 08, 2023
Kobicove:
Since you know she can't host a man for more than a few months why do you still want to go using her as your sponsor?

If you go there in your present condition you will likely make your life a living hell cos you will be completely at her mercy undecided

He's motivated by the "lonely" pvssy. grin

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Re: Deleted. by MrCuteking(m): 4:33pm On Sep 08, 2023
Anytime a lady tells you to do something, you need to seriously think about it. Think from her perspective in a biased way. If there’s nothing there, go for it. But most likely, you will see that there’s more to it. Women don’t love for no reason.

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Re: Deleted. by Yugoslavia247(m): 4:35pm On Sep 08, 2023
eepeepook:
This woman relocated five years ago to the UK. Immediately she did so, she blocked all forms of communication we maintained. I took it as a soft breakup and dated randomly.

Luckily, I was able to view her life through mutual friends’ Facebook accounts. She dated an akata for three years and lived off him. They broke up eventually, however she was able to secure a good job beforehand.

Fast forward two years later, she sent me birthday wishes last year and we reconnected. Life continued like nothing happened and we gist regularly. She complains of loneliness all the time and wants me to come over. I’ve told her to date around and she tells me things of the sort are too hard. She wants to focus on her career for the meantime.

Her plan now is to write an invitation letter for me to come over. I’m yet to find my footing in Nigeria as I just got a good job some months back. The pay is good, but I don’t have the funds to travel out yet. She’s not ready to pay for flight tickets and is still encouraging me to relocate and live with her.

Where will I start from? I know very well she can’t host a man for more than a few months. Is it marriage she has in mind?

I’m confused.

It is better to be housed by a male who will use you than a woman.

She will broke shame you and treat you as trash.

Can't you think?
If you must japa then it has to be your own terms and conviction. Not someone's sexual starvation.

Abroad women don't see men to Bleep like that because no time. And feminist culture. Men prefer being alone than mingle.

If she needs a fuckmate then she should find one.
Don't dream of marrying her.
Na trap.
At first she felt she has arrived until the whole thing clear for her eyes.

Focus on your hustle and infact block her.
Atleast let her feel bad about blocking you.

Do you know that if you live comfortably in naija, you be king 👑.e no easy.

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Re: Deleted. by Karlifate: 4:35pm On Sep 08, 2023
eepeepook:
She’s not ready to pay for flight tickets and is still encouraging me to relocate and live with her.

I’m confused.

@ bolded:

This should've been an eye-opener for you.

Someone that truly wants your progress would make sacrifices for you.


You're only confused because you're already fantasizing about the "lonely" pvssy.

If you're sex-starved, find a nearby pvssy or better still, practice sexual transmutation, you'll forget about her in a couple of days.

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Re: Deleted. by talented321: 5:22pm On Sep 08, 2023
What if she abandon u again when u cross border...

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Re: Deleted. by chigoziri2403(m): 5:25pm On Sep 08, 2023
Bros
Maybe it's your destiny to be used and dumped

Expect to be dumped in two years
Maybe three if you can give her two kids
Cheers

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Re: Deleted. by eepeepook: 6:26pm On Sep 08, 2023
talented321:
What if she abandon u again when u cross border...
My greatest fear. I want a situation where I travel out to a better situation than I left in Nigeria.
Re: Deleted. by eepeepook: 6:26pm On Sep 08, 2023
Karlifate:


@ bolded:

This should've been an eye-opener for you.

Someone that truly wants your progress would make sacrifices for you.


You're only confused because you're already fantasizing about the "lonely" pvssy.

If you're sex-starved, find a nearby pvssy or better still, practice sexual transmutation, you'll forget about her in a couple of days.

Thank you. This is good advice.
Re: Deleted. by AbleBouncer: 6:29pm On Sep 08, 2023
Ladyclara002:
Advice: Communication is key in any relationship. Try talking to your ex and see if there's a way to work things out, or if it's best for both of you to move on separately.
Are you Ok?

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Re: Deleted. by AntiTerrorist: 7:04pm On Sep 08, 2023
Where will I start from?
You should wait and start saving till you are financially ready to finance your travel.

I know very well she can’t host a man for more than a few months.
When you get there, you should have plan B. Getting your own accommodation should be your first priority.

Is it marriage she has in mind?

I’m confused.
You don't need to be confused. Ask her this same question and her answer will clear your confusion.

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