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Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Draslo(m): 12:16am On Mar 24
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.

We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019.

Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?

Modified.
I'm sorry to say but many of you reason like kids. I have no intention of sleeping with her. I'm principled never to sleep with any of my exes. Do you have any idea how many women are on this planet? What is wrong with the lot of you? I just find it hard to turn her down because she's such a good person.

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by SmellingAnus(m): 12:25am On Mar 24
I think you already know that you will definitely fvck her itchy hornnny pussy like a pornstaaar... so why exactly do you need our advice...

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Burgerlomo: 12:28am On Mar 24
Never tell small pikin make im no play with fire cool

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Draslo(m): 12:29am On Mar 24
SmellingAnus:
I think you already know that you will definitely fvck her itchy hornnny pussy like a pornstaaar... so why exactly do you need our advice...
Mature responses only.

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Uprightness100(m): 12:32am On Mar 24
My son, attend unto my wisdom, and bow thine ear to my understanding.

Flee from a Strange woman!
For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil,
But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword.
Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell.

Hear me now therefore My Son,
Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house,
Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel,
Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth; and thy labours be in the house of a stranger,
And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed.

I Have Spoken my son! The Choice is yours to take.

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by CaptainPrice1: 12:34am On Mar 24
If her husband is on Nairaland, he can easily know you are referring to his wife with the little information from your story.

Make una dey try hide the real info.

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Draslo(m): 12:37am On Mar 24
SmellingAnus:
Nah... you are looking for folks that will support your plans to bang a married woman... you already said you have soft spot for her meaning you are most likely going to smash that pussy... I repeat...why exactly do you need our advice when you already know you will be spanking the ass of a married woman while giving her doggy style...
O ti fi ori gbale.

So if you have a soft spot for someone then you want to have sex with them. Take my advice and f*** off.

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Draslo(m): 12:39am On Mar 24
CaptainPrice1:
If her husband is on Nairaland, he can easily know you are referring to his wife with the little information from your story.

Make una dey try hide the real info.
Does it matter?

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by SmellingAnus(m): 12:39am On Mar 24
Draslo:

O ti fi ori gbale.

So if you have a soft spot for someone then you want to have sex with them. Take my advice and f*** off.
you can deceive many persons but you can't deceive your uncivilized dvck that it will not fvck a pussy of someone you have a soft spot for after giving you a Greek Gift...

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by AishaYesufu: 12:42am On Mar 24
Another fake story

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Yusufisraelj(m): 12:48am On Mar 24
My brother there's emotions involved, and it won't take long you may end up sleeping together. Since she's hiding the past from her hubby.

Take a bow and focus on your end, bkos you must think of attending to the business without interacting with her, which is not possible, one thing will lead to another, those old feeling will come back. Also think if you couldn't manage the business well, you may end up becoming real enemies.

Bkos at the end of the day business is about understanding the value chain, strategy, execution and ensuring profits are always made, can you concentrate on all of that without her bugging you?

My honest estimation - turn down the opportunity. I will never allow my wife's ex work for her. Put yourself in the husband's shoe.

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Aaaaarghmed(m): 12:52am On Mar 24
Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.
We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019. Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened up a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?
na bad idea o,but if you no wan work am,I get person for Abuja wey fit manage the spa

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Michelle55: 3:01am On Mar 24
This one is just seeking public support on how to bang a married ex, I'm glad you got served the minute you dropped the rooster and bull story.
SmellySperm, may you live long biko.
Give yourself brain and dey your lane before you go drink water wey you no go fit drop cup again, don't say you weren't warned.

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by smartty68(m): 3:39am On Mar 24
If I asked you to put your finger in fire would you?

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by DaddyRochie1642(f): 5:41am On Mar 24
I will only say this,

Oga don't go and destroy another man's marriage because of Kpekus.

A word is enough for the wise.

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Offpoint1: 6:12am On Mar 24
Too many nonsense in the write up.
If una wan make up fake stories, make una at least make am believe able.
Pay your flight tickets weekly, how much come be your salary? For a start up business not even up to a year, no same business incline human being would be wasting resources like that.


Try another make up story, I ain't buying this one.

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by femi4: 6:34am On Mar 24
Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.
We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019. Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened up a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?
Trouble sleep, yanga go wake am..... wetin you dey find?

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Nobody: 7:50am On Mar 24
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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by mosdii(m): 8:48am On Mar 24
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by MeekySmudger(m): 8:56am On Mar 24
Uprightness100:
My son, attend unto my wisdom, and bow thine ear to my understanding.

Flee from a Strange woman!
For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil,
But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword.
Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell.

Hear me now therefore My Son,
Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house,
Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel,
Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth; and thy labours be in the house of a stranger,
And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed.

I Have Spoken my son! The Choice is yours to take.
,...so his ex is a strange woman?,..says the one who believes he is righteous.

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by MeekySmudger(m): 8:57am On Mar 24
Draslo:
I'm not going to bore you with an epistle.
We dated between 2016-17. We had a mutual break-up cause I went to Ghana for a bit (5 months. I needed a change of scenery). We spoke and chatted at intervals before we both ghosted each other. I heard she got married to a big shot Abuja guy in 2019. Fast forward to Saturday evening this past weekend, I got a message on Instagram from her. Long story short, she opened up a beauty spa in Abuja in December. She wants me to help her manage it. She knows I have my commitments in Lagos but wants to take advantage of the fact that I visit Abuja once or twice a month. She proposes that I can come only on weekends since my weekdays are almost fully engaged, ensure her books are balanced and she'll pay for my return flight every Friday. I asked if her husband is aware of who I am. She stuttered and I just knew he doesn't. She will pay well but it's not about the money. It's more like granting a favour but I feel she's got an ulterior motive somewhere. And me, I have a soft spot for her and my flesh is very, very weak.

Do you think I'm right? Or maybe I'm just being paranoid?
,..Sorry to ask did she marry an old man?

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by BaeMercy(f): 9:06am On Mar 24
The lady in question is a b*tch and will always be a bitch
How can you be married and still want your ex?
Her intentions are not genuine
If it was, she would have informed her husband about you
Some women can never change
Like you said she married a big guy, if you have an affair with her and he later finds out
Don't you think he can harm you? Don't lose your life over an unrepentant cheat if her husband is not enough let her find someone else


Marriage don't change people, people change for marriage

Before you marry a big lady who wears designers investigate her source of income most of them are into sex business so you won't end up paying for DNA test up and down

Chase a chick, never chase a bitch
Don't take her offer

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Quality20(m): 9:15am On Mar 24
u can take d offer only if u as disciplined as nwamaikpe

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Draslo(m): 9:27am On Mar 24
Offpoint1:
Too many nonsense in the write up.
If una wan make up fake stories, make una at least make am believe able.
Pay your flight tickets weekly, how much come be your salary? For a start up business not even up to a year, no same business incline human being would be wasting resources like that.


Try another make up story, I ain't buying this one.
This is exactly why I am thinking she's got ulterior motives.

Judging from your signature, you obviously don't know real money and the people that have it. I don't blame you for that. You're a man, you should never jump into conclusions. That's why I ignored Michelle55.

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Draslo(m): 9:34am On Mar 24
BaeMercy:
The lady in question is a b*tch and will always be a bitch
How can you married and still want your ex?
Her intentions are not genuine
If it was, she would have informed her husband about you
Some women can never change
Like you said she married a big guy, if you have an affair with her and he later finds out
Don't you think he can harm you? Don't lose your life over an unrepentant cheat if her husband is not enough let her find someone else


Marriage don't change people, people change for marriage

Before you marry a big lady who wears designers investigate her source of income most of them are into sex business so you won't end up paying for DNA test up and down

Chase a chick, never chase a bitch
Don't take her offer
This is why I'm turning her down. If I can work remotely from Lagos, then I'll take up her offer. I want to believe she just wants my professional help because she witnessed some part of my success in my own businesses. Nigeria don spoil. Everybody's got trust issues nowadays. How do we know she doesn't love her husband enough not to ever cheat on him. *Sigh*

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by solomon36670: 10:08am On Mar 24
:If her husband is on Nairaland, he can easily know you are referring to his wife with the little information from your story. Make una dey try hide the real info. Does it matter?
Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Bola146(f): 10:43am On Mar 24
If you have the money, please give her with no motive. Let her know she is your past please, don't play with fire if she comes near you
Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by SmellySperm(m): 12:04pm On Mar 24
we ain't buying this make up story player..

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by providencia(m): 12:23pm On Mar 24
Bola146:
If you have the money, please give her with no motive. Let her know she is your past please, don't play with fire if she comes near you
Which money are you talking about biko.?

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by brainmax2000: 12:57pm On Mar 24
Draslo:

O ti fi ori gbale.

So if you have a soft spot for someone then you want to have sex with them. Take my advice and f*** off.
pls stop being arrogant he told you the blunt truth

your only looking for validation to sleep with her, aside that no advice to give you

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Re: Married Ex Wants Me To Manage Her New Business by Draslo(m): 1:09pm On Mar 24
brainmax2000:
stop being arrogant he gave you the blunt truth

unless your looking for validation to sleep with her, aside that no advice to give you
I don tire for you people. How many times do I need to say it? I don't have any intention of sleeping with her. Even if she does, I'm man enough to handle the situation. Shallow thinkers and men made from precum, the lot of you!

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