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I am 36years old. Many years ago after NYSC, I have no Juicy paying Job that can enable me to marry. I was in a relationship with Ugochi from when she was 20 until 28.
Age was not on her side so I being a nobleman advised her to go ahead and marry one wealthy middle-aged man 41, that was asking for her hand in marriage.

The pressure to marry him was too much from her friends and family. I had no juicy Job, could barely eat, pay bills and have a chance to even drink and buy clothing.

I had to make sacrifices for her, so 5 days to her wedding, we agreed in unison to meet for farewell and farewell F@@k.With frustration and Heavy heart I ca..me deep inside her Four times. Gave her money for drugs (White quinine or postinor 2), she rejected it and promised to take care of it herself. I went to her wedding, eat, wished her well and left. Cried all night and moved on.

Her hubby took her to Abuja.

Now I have a good job. I am building my house and I have a car. I am extremely comfortable now.

I got a call earlier this year and it was Ugochi. She was desperate to see me.
she travelled down to Lagos to see me.
I wasn't comfortable so I talked her out of coming to my house. We met at an eatery and she came with one handsome little boy.
I ordered Food for them and then my biggest fear came.
She said her husband found out the baby is not his and sent her packing.
She informed me the baby is mine.

I was shocked and I had to tell her I am squatting with someone, She and xxxxxxxx left for Imo State but before then, I denied and I argued, I went defensive.

The problem I have now is that I am planning my traditional wedding in August 2022 I have a presentable fiancee I love way too much.

Now, I can lie to the world but I can't lie to myself. That Little boy looks like me and has my pointed nose. Facially, it is glaring He is mine but I don't love Ugochi again, I have moved on. I love my fiancee so much.

How can I handle this situation?

Make I chill wait for elders advice

Take responsibility for your child ,period.

The boy is innocent of you guys idiocy.

The biggest looser here is Ugochi

OGBEREIJEBU:
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I am 36years old. Many years ago after NYSC, I have no Juicy paying Job that can enable me to marry. I was in a relationship with Ugochi from when she was 20 until 28.
Age was not on her side so I being a nobleman advised her to go ahead and marry one wealthy middle-aged man 41, that was asking for her hand in marriage.

The pressure to marry him was too much from her friends and family. I had no juicy Job, could barely eat, pay bills and have a chance to even drink and buy clothing.

I had to make sacrifices for her, so 5 days to her wedding, we agreed in unison to meet for farewell and farewell F@@k.With frustration and Heavy heart I ca..me deep inside her Four times. Gave her money for drugs (White quinine or postinor 2), she rejected it and promised to take care of it herself. I went to her wedding, eat, wished her well and left. Cried all night and moved on.

Her hubby took her to Abuja.

Now I have a good job. I am building my house and I have a car. I am extremely comfortable now.

I got a call earlier this year and it was Ugochi. She was desperate to see me.
she travelled down to Lagos to see me.
I wasn't comfortable so I talked her out of coming to my house. We met at an eatery and she came with one handsome little boy.
I ordered Food for them and then my biggest fear came.
She said her husband found out the baby is not his and sent her packing.
She informed me the baby is mine.

I was shocked and I had to tell her I am squatting with someone, She and xxxxxxxx left for Imo State but before then, I denied and I argued, I went defensive.

The problem I have now is that I am planning my traditional wedding in August 2022 I have a presentable fiancee I love way too much.

Now, I can lie to the world but I can't lie to myself. That Little boy looks like me and has my pointed nose. Facially, it is glaring He is mine but I don't love Ugochi again, I have moved on. I love my fiancee so much.

How can I handle this situation?

Do a DNA test to confirm it is your child. E get why

If this story is truth y are my the first to comment?

Super story

Hmmm...

OGBEREIJEBU:
Now, I can lie to the world but I can't lie to myself. That Little boy looks like me and has my pointed nose. Facially, it is glaring He is mine but I don't love Ugochi again, I have moved on. I love my fiancee so much.

How can I handle this situation?

Unless your plan is to kill the Ugochi and the child, all you can do is take responsibility for the child..

Anyways, in the meantime, ask Ugochi to log on to Nairaland so we can hear her side of the story as your story seems a lot made up.

I don't why people think they can eat their cake and have it?
If the child is yours,pls take care of the child. But to be sincere with you, you did something terrible by having an affair with someone whose wedding was 5 days away. If someone did that to that lady u are about to marry now, would u be happy? Treat others the way you want to be treated. Konji can not kill anybody. I have never seen or heard someone that konji killed.
Go to church,ask for forgiveness from God and amend your ways.

This is serious. Very serious.

You shouldn’t have left caution to the wind while doing your farewell sh*t. See the result now.

Well, the best you could do now is explain exactly as you have explained here to your fiancée.

Ugochi will remain as baby mama.
You settle the little boy’s bills and that’s all.

And if your fiancée decides to go berserk, sorry is all I have to say.

Una two de craze for head

Take your boy only and move on. Explain to your fiancee, if she can handle you and the boy Fine for her but if can't handle you both, you manage ugochi

I see no issues here at all.

I even thought you were already married and your ex is coming on strong at you in your marital (ship).

Another reason Why we marry VIRGINS and VIRGINS only.
Imagine how SIMPle you have to be, to be rich and ended up with someone else's semen in your supposed wife ?!

At least he wasn't stupid forever.

1.She was STUPID enough to spread legs without ring, now she deal with the outcome.

2. Your fiancée is not gonna leave you because you have son duh, unless you're bum and she's just managing you before.

Explain to your fiancee don't hide it from she don't start your home with a lie ... As for the son take care of him ogochi is the greatest loser here

Tell your future wife exactly as you write give us like this, then take care of your child, its better than hiding it.
You're not the first, the mistaken has already been made, if your woman love you, she will support you and stand by you.
If you hide it and went ahead to marry, then you're in for a long thing

Francisanointed:
. Go to church,ask for forgiveness from God and amend your ways.

Why una dey like drag God in to most everything as if say for aftereffects..... does the Op sound to you like someone seeking God's forgiveness in any of what he has claimed so far?

Take care of your son

Avoid being alone with her, so as not to enter her again

She is desperate, especially now she knows u are wealthy and can take good care of her

Focus on your new woman and marry her

The breakup between u and ugochi was not your fault

So Op, pick up your life and move on

Op , conduct DNA test first before taking any chance.
If the boy is yours then take the boy under your custody ,and then throw that ugochi back to her husband. Simple.

Una mumu never do
Imagine farewell fvck few days to wedding, that girl na hoe she be

Fake blogger. Try again next time!!

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With frustration in your heart you came deep in her pussy 4 times. Now you don't want the child that the cumming produced. Your head is not alright.

If your story is true, you don't have to marry her, just take responsibility for the kid and move on

Francisanointed:
I don't why people think they can eat their cake and have it?
If the child is yours,pls take care of the child. But to be sincere with you, you did something terrible by having an affair with someone whose wedding was 5 days away. If someone did that to that lady u are about to marry now, would u be happy? Treat others the way you want to be treated. Konji can not kill anybody. I have never seen or heard someone that konji killed.
Go to church,ask for forgiveness from God and amend your ways.

The whole advice was making sense until you added go go church for forgiveness. Wait must we always run to church for everything?

It's better u talk to ur fiancee Abt the matter cus it ex might use it to blackmail u later
But if u let ur fiancee know,it would be easier to handle the matter and she'll even appreciate it more that u are honest with her rada Dan if she finds out from the mouth of anoda person

You came deep indeed.
Goodbye things

Congratulations papa xxxxxxxxxxx

That's your problem and wahala, you knew she was getting married in 5 days time and you invited her for goodbye intimacy, see you will have to marry her, if you respected your self and manhood you wouldn't have being in this mess. Though I don't believe it.

What goes around comes around.

When u been dey do farewell fxck u no ask for help, na now way everywhere burst u dey come fr help abi? You've made ur bed & u must lie on it