I have some1 in a serious relationship who wants to know if her response is okay or not.her man with whom she is in a very serious relationship which is likely Alter bound,was told by her Man that he will be taking her to the hospital for some Tests.he then asked if she has had Arbortion in time past?thou she had done dat in the past she wasn't sure if she should open up on this to him.after insisting and her Man telling her he needs to know to avoid any embarrasment at the hospital and for his information.she is now Confused if she shud tell him the truth or just lie.either way she does not want to loose Him, Please what is your Candid Opinion on this.

y does she nid tell a lie?

she needs to tell him

tell him

just follow your instincts,but be careful about what you tell him so as not to loose him

Poster u f up , y u go do abortion nah?

Will the tests show if she's done an abortion?

has she been told by the doctors that her womb is damaged or she cannot give birth?

If the answer to both questions are no, then you dont have to say Jack.

If you tell him, HE WILL RUN. _{even though there is nothing wrong with you.}

A lot of mothers today have done abortion before, although they will not admit it.

I think you should tell him cos you are getting married and why start your home with lies?the test would detect anyway,so lying isn't an option.
Someone said he'd run if you told him the truth(maybe he will)but what if he wants to use that avenue to find out if you are fertile(sounds weird right?)Its possible.
The only lie you are allowed to tell is that you've only aborted once,I hope this won't have to be a lie though.

this is a guy you are spending the REST OF YOUr LIFE with and you wanna start with lies?
C'mon,tell him the truth and if he leaves,someone else who will appreciate your honesty will come along pretty soon(as long as you are medically alright).

Ha ha ha ha ha, kai Nigerian girls and their lie lie where ex ashawo fit claim virgin.
@Poster: I have a feeling that you are the one in this situation and not a friend.
Anyway, I doubt very much if there is any test in our ordinary 9ja hospitals capable of detecting previous abortion(s), so you can go ahead and lie to him if you wish (its second nature anyway); but my advice is to tell the truth and not be burdened with guilt forever.

i met my wife 6 yrs ago and while we were dating she told me she had an abortion at 19 when she had sex for the first time and did not know better,her relative who told her that its like she was pregnant told the doctor to do it when it was confirmed.This story was also told to me by her mother who insisted that she wanted me to know incase i had not been told.
3 years ago i was caleld from the office that my wife was rushed to the hospital and needed to be opereted for ectopic pregnancy.Because of the nature of the operation they needed to know how many times she had been pregnant,how many deliveries and abortions if any.
all these information i supplied without cracking my brain.
And i was told after her operation that the abortion she had then was properly done because there were little signs of scaring from the procedure.
Imagine if she had not told me? not that i would have divorced her but it would have wounded our relationship.
please tell him

@ poster, ur friend should go ahead and tell him the truth,though she should hope for the best,but she should expect the worst.
let her tell him the truth but she shouldnt be expecting the guy to continue with the relationship.

So that if he decide to walk away,she wont be devastated,if on the other hand, he decides to stay,then she will be better off.this is my personal opinion.

Hllo folks,i'm a nw mmba in d family.Well concernin dis issue i tink she shld tll him d trt as he wl gt 2 find out sooner or later.

sexkillz:

[size=14pt]Make she lie, so that wen the katakata burst, i for fit read im story for NL! [/size]

u be fool

Why would she even think of lieing?

@poster, i know you are the gal, plsss tell him o, if he loves you, he will stay,

op:
It is better you tell him now before marriage. Cos if you eventually marry and he finds out? It gonna b worse!
but know how u will break the news o.

DONT TELL HIM, the reult wont dictate,

he will run>>>>>