Fountainofyouth:



What stops men from caring for the kids as much as their wives so that they will not feel left out or less loved?

Fountainofyouth:



It's the daftness for me, in your mind, you think you have made sense

So caring for the kids is a woman's job, later you below par boys will be yapping spittle about complaining that there are countless mothers day in a year, asking why children prefer their mothers, when the results of your negligence becomes glaring, you'd go on and conclude that women manipulate kids against fathers, your comment just proves the senselessness and thoughtlessness of most of you, no logic at all.

donbenie:
There's nothing like paternal instinct?
The vast majority of men that work their butts off, to put food on the table of that maternal instinct and her brood..
The vast majority of men that would die protecting their families from dangers..
Are doing it because you had a gun to their head?

Tayorshd87:


If a pretty woman asked you same question on Facebook will you say YES 😂😆😆

Marriage is overrated bro ..

theInfinity:
Why actually are the reasons why men change towards their wives after having kids. Could it be that the unwritten contract between them and their wives has come to an end after she has put to birth or what exactly. At that moment, no more sweet name calling, no more petting. They now see their wives as rivals at home. What is the cause?

Nazgul:

Exactly!

Most people in this category the op is referring to get married because they feel they're of age and therefore should be married, and not because they have found true love.

A vast number of them have zero romantic connection with their spouses. The marriage is just for having sex breeding kids. This is why they cheat without any form of conscience cos they see their marriage as a prison, and want some breathing space.

I'll say this and say it again and again. No spouse would get fed up and cheat on a partner he/she geninuely loves and respects.

Tayorshd87:


My brother it rains everywhere it's.really happening to me now 🤔
Marry marry marry na overrated statement

theInfinity:
Why actually are the reasons why men change towards their wives after having kids. Could it be that the unwritten contract between them and their wives has come to an end after she has put to birth or what exactly. At that moment, no more sweet name calling, no more petting. They now see their wives as rivals at home. What is the cause?

Authoreety:
Lol

Una too dey rush... Wait till u get married, then you will understand better..

Do you even know that women are highest subscribers of denying their husbands their coochies... Single girls have sex with their boyfriends far more than married women and their husbands... Guess you all know what this could cause... Imagine denying ur husband sex on a steady basis..

Oh... U don't even know...

Who no go no know

NastiLord:
I only stopped caring for my wife after i found a conversation she had with a male friend on Facebook. The guy asked her if she's married and she said no

DonroxyII:
... She was just trying to Enjoy the Groove from the FB dude She doesn't want her "Marriage" to hinder the dude from vibing further ... Maybe she wanna be talk to like a girl again instead of "Woman" !

If she said "Yes" That one might not chat with her again ...

You could have used the Intel Report You Get to rewire your wife Never-Ever to wish a chat with another Man talkless of denying her marriage. ...

Something is in the guy she wanna enjoy & that is not in the marriage .... Find it & fix it .... That's what we men do.

We are the fixer, women are most times the trouble, Our Job is to Fix Us & Fix Them......... Just like you fix your kids, That's how to fix the leakages in your marriage.

It is Never-Ever a perfect game from either couple but the Maturities to Manage the Imperfections is the most important.

skuribeebo:
Animals must act like animal.
It is natural.

We want random sex.

NastiLord:
I can't be fixing every gaddamm holes burst opened by an adventure seeking partner. If she thinks there's something i don't give and the other guys can give, then it's ok but i won't be waiting for her to come back.

Blitzking:
It's not easy living in the same house with another person all the rest of your lives before marriage u come and go..u fight and u go home while at home u heal and then u come again u cook we eat watch movies go for outing and then u go home..but now your home is my home..except I vex you and you pick the duvet and move to another room..if you like no give me food...I go just rent/buy 2 bed apartment find one banny wey sabi..but I try give u small benefit of doubt.

InvertedHammer:

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Those still mixing love and marriage are delusional. Find someone you like and respect, then approach him/her with some sense of responsibility. Both parties work together to build a lasting marriage. Love is a feeling and feelings do change. If you marry because of love, the outcome is divorce because the older you get, your priorities and life choices change. Then you realize that love is a fantasy good in movies. Oyibo people have tried love and it is not working.

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ekpaben:
Most times is not kid. My marriage is three months and I'm fed up already. Her character is completely opposite of her before we got married.

Jewessgratitud3:
Everyone is just beating about the bush even though the reason is obvious.

Once a woman starts having kids, she loses her attractiveness as a result of all the body changes that come with child birth. This puts the man off or gradually makes him lose interest in her especially when he still sees young girls with perky breasts, plumper and firmer bodies out there. This is the whole truth.

A married man used to disturb me some time ago and I'll always shun him. One day he saw one small fine girl that came around and told me to help him talk to the girl and I asked him what of your wife and he said " that one na condemn property now" .. chai!!! Laugh wan finish me that day. This is a man with 5 kids o.

9JAFULLBREED:
I don’t think that’s true! Some women are really beautiful after birth, and everywhere go FULL
I’ll just say some men are not mentally ready before going or rushing into marriage and they got bored with the marriage immediately after their wife got pregnant.


You think so.

talented321:
Some people value their prick and don't share it anyhow..

Fountainofyouth:



Women dont work and care for the kids? Are you living in a cave?

Cromagnon:

Value or den no get opportunity or opportunity boku pass the prick?