Thundafireseun:
Very simple question

Yes I’m a virgin…. No I’m not a virgin

You didn’t tell us how you were trying to make him feel comfortable… buh you rushed to social media to tell us the part where he asked about your sexuality

Fear daughter’s of EVE …. They are always playing the victim card

Modified… reminds me of the song 🎵 No woman No cry

Amotolongbo:

The guy is a he-goat who thinks every gesture from a lady is seductive and an inviting sign for sexual activity.

In case you don’t know, most ladies in UK give you some smiles, chat and activities to make you feel very comfortable, that is the courtesy they have been trained to have since childhood, though fake and not sincere. If any lady does that in Nigeria, it will definitely be seen as a romantic invitation from a girl. That is the natural British way, unlike the American girls.

The foolish guy thought the lady was “falling” for him, hence the audacity to ask her that question.
The guy is even lucky that the lady didn’t report the case to the authority, then he will understand how to comport in a strange land

Many of you in Nigeria wouldn’t learn until you leave your country to go and disgrace and embarrass yourself and your generation in the western world

SSpeter:
I think you are the one that is naive, British girls that will tell you who they slept with last night and the number of kids they have from different fathers without thinking twice? Same British girls that will meet you in a club and shag in the toilet? Same British babes that will tell a stranger they fantasize about a 3some? The babe was feeling the guy and she was just too ashamed to answer hence the reaction

purples25:


Okay...if you've been on nairaland alone and yet, you can't see anything men need to unlearn or relearn...then there's nothing I can tell you. If a person can't see anything wrong with their actions, who can convince them? It's something that takes inner reflection, to admit being wrong.

Then again, men would need to be considerate, and place themselves in the shoes of women, which is something many guys hardly do.

Take for instance, men's role in the act of abortion. Many men simply expect women to go through it, without thinking of the pain or the life and death danger the women are facing. The nonchalant attitude shows how little they respect women or care.

There are so many angles to point out, but it's my opinion. If my opinion offends you, I am sorry. It's not my intention to be rude or 'condescending'. Yet I can't change it to please anyone.

Puss360:

In the course of which discussion?? Were they discussing?

Amotolongbo:
Can you hear yourself out?

I said British girls will have a very open chat with you and tell you what they feel like telling you to make you comfortable with them. You don’t need asking them about their life before they tell you what they want you to know.
There is a boundary you dare not cross with them, if you try it, you are a goner. Their sexual life isn’t something they keep secret if you ask them questions on it in a rightful, chatable, respectful and courteous way like “would you mind/like sharing your body count with anyone?”, not silly, rude and shocking questions Nigerian guys ask eg “are you a virgin?”.How did you know the guy asked the question in a silly and rude way? I am not trying to justify that the lady is lying, I am only stating that you and I do not have have enough premises to reach a conclusion. The British are tricker than any sapiens on our planet

Rickmann:


That guy is a disgrace. Dude forgot he is in a country and society where the law allows women to wield more power than men. she can easily accuse him of harassment or even rape and he ll rot in prison for something he didn't even do.
He is a complete idiot.

greenermodels:
you weren't there so you can't conclude, you can't know what transpired, the lady might have talked or behaved in a way that gave rise to that question, you would be surprised by the number of British ladies that would ask a black man if he has a big dick or even ask to see it, family and friends would even ask your white girlfriend if she's with you because of your big dick. We can only know what transpired by hearing the guy's side of the story, you can't judge from only the ladies account.

Puss360:

Even if you asked him of his status, that's okay... okay.. Ask a female doctor if she is a virgin?
As a man you have to be Very conscious of your actions and words in the presence of women to avoid issues of sexual molestation...

Happy Sunday

SSpeter:
How did you know the guy asked the question in a silly and rude way? I am not trying to justify that the lady is lying, I am only stating that you and I do not have have enough premises to reach a conclusion. The British are tricker than any sapiens on our planet

Hassanmaye:

Another man will ask her the same question and she will not feel offended. Stupid gender

Amotolongbo:
We all know that the British are the trickiest on the planet, the very reason I said “they are fake and not sincere in attitude”. But the major point here is comport yourself in a strange land and with strange people before your case leads to touching stories like this.

Thundafireseun:


Very manipulative gender

Always paying the victim card

AllenSpencer:
Someone she could have just poisoned. Why chase him out!

GOFRONT:
Dem go japa finish com begin fantasize about white girls punna over there.......The only idea wen dey ring for their head na how to straff white punna.

If you check very well, you would see that the guy was already lusting on that UK lady.

If the lady had told him politely that she hasnt got a dick in her pvssy, next thing the Nigerian guyman from Ojuelegba would start to devise a means to get his own deeq in there first.

Basicend:


Their laws are rubbish . . And that is why their system is crashing in the UK and gradually in US too. .

Anything built around women is built upon an unstable base / foundation that is geared by emotions which can easily be manipulated and most often twisted in dirtiness of mind and evil. .

1Sharon:


That is the culture. Women and men can live together and nothing happens. I've lived with 3 men before.

raskymonojendor:




Always acting like they are sex starved. One was just jailed today for raping an 18 years old girl 6 weeks after arriving UK.

Biglittlelois:



That's because they don't have the stupid mentality most of you have here, over there male and female sharing a flat is not seen as a big deal, they respect boundaries, unlike you Nigerian men that only think with your diick if a lady stays overnight.

Thundafireseun:


Happy Sunday to you too

You are just avoiding my point deliberately

How was she trying to make him feel comfortable??

What were they discussing??

olakraft:


Nigerians and oversabi! Please let's stop this herd mentality and ask valid questions: what were they discussing before the guy asked her if she was a virgin? Is it possible for a guy to suddenly ask a woman if she was a virgin without them talking about sex or relationship? Think, think!!!

I don't know ur gender but before taking sides against your fellow Nigerian/African, try to ask if the girl in question was having a sexual discussion with this guy before he could ask.

Seems y'all don't know some of these foreign babes, they can switch up on a man once they don't like something you said even when they initiated the convo or action.

eeetuk:
Why do Nigerian men always describe a light skin black girl or white woman as beautiful?
What is the difference?
I think Nigerian men have low self-esteem.
Dark skin black girls are more beautiful than light skin people. I have spent the past few years searching to find out if Dark skin girls have different pussy in contrast to light skin black girls or write women, I found no evidence.
And you guys want to know something ? All pussy smells ¡

Puss360:

So when a girl offers a guy accomodation and says she will try and make him comfortable so automatically that translates to sex on a silver platter? Hey God....
So to you, if a girl says "Feel comfortable in my house", you'll remove clothes ready for sex...
This is serious oo...

Happy Sunday oo

Thundafireseun:


Are you a virgin can be harmless or harmful depending on the trajectory of conversation.

That’s my point madam

Happy Sunday young lady

Thundafireseun:


Ewu lemme give you a perfect example…

Few years ago I went to the hospital and I met a doctor who discussed and explained asthma like never before…..

I was forced to ask him if he (doctor) was asthmatic

Was I been intrusive with my question??

Puss360:

That you point is very derogatory... very very...
Sex is a private matter..
It shouldn't be up for discussion unless you both are intimate...
If you are not intimate, the response to "Are u a virgin" cannot add anything positive to your life... so it's unnecessary to ask it...
Next time, if u aren't intimate with a lady, then don't ask about her sexual life... e no concern you oooo

Happy Sunday Dear

KingOKON:
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You be real Serious Ewu !
You de compare conversation between Doctor and a patient to two unknown international students, you be international he-goat

Thundafireseun:


Really … so you didn’t read where she said she was trying to make him feel comfortable??

Have you asked your self “HOW”

Bharekta:
A 21-year-old student has sent her Flatmate [male Nigerian student ] packing for asking her an intrusive question whilst she was only trying to make him comfortable.

Thundafireseun:


Yawns and cat walks away

I won’t stoop low to chat with a kid like you