A lot of married men feel too comfortable after marriage.

They believe it is only women who should put in effort to make the marriage work. This is why many marriages are dead.

Tips I use to keep my wife happy:

- I always make sure I look good for her.

- I tell her I love you at least 3 times a day.

- I buy her small gifts eg kunu, roast corn 🌽 every day.

- I always compliment her beauty.

See how I dress, you won’t know I’m a father of 5.
Married men take note and stay blessed

You're doing well.

But in the second picture, the surrounding is too dirty. Yuck.
Don't tell me that's where you live?

Also, Father of 5 in this economy?
Do you know about family planning?
I'm not married but I know marriage with even just two children comes with a lot of responsibilities especially financially.

Mr. Father of 5, how do you cope with such financial responsibilities. What do you do for a living?

It's well

In all you do in this life, FEAR POVERTY.

So much stress with little pay to feed the family with the man himself ......

Why post your own picture on a public faceless forum?
Why must you as a be the one to satisfy your partner all the when it's not even reciprocal or is it?
Why is your environment so dirty,especially the second picture yuck!

If the pictures you uploaded are yours then i bet to stop engaging with so many people who quote or mention me on Nairaland. As in. You environment sometimes determine your level of thought and mindset.

A dirty environment will make your mindset dirty. In your case the ideal of looking good after marriage can be related to mean dirty looking environment.

Bros, people wey marry the look good except you go marry who no be your own.

see who dey talk

Obavoh the Nairaland content creator

Using someone else's pix to mk joke is bad.

Responsibility

See where person stand take picture bikonu, probably the place he is living...

Op is that a gold mining site or what

This is the first time I’m seeing this. Actually, married men always look better in marriage especially because there’s a woman in the house who is his resident fashion police.

Solofresh2:
Why post your own picture on a public faceless forum?
Why must you as a be the one to satisfy your partner all the when it's not even reciprocal or is it?
Why is your environment so dirty,especially the second picture yuck!

I can tell you that 99.9% of people who come across him by chance after seeing this picture won't even know it's him.

They only care about making money and chasing small girls.

Disgracing their wives up and down with their big bellies

Some of these married men become so dirty and have no care about hygiene anymore, they start to have pot belly, their teeth start to smell after 5 hours that when they talk spittle will be flying everywhere, i work with FG so I know what I'm talking about, by their mode of dressing you will know the dirty ones from the neat ones, they will come back from work all sweaty and smelly, they won't bath at night, yet expect their wives to open legs for a stinky man with a smelly mouth.

I know of a single medical doctor that is as dirty as a stinky gutter, I went to his house for the first time and his toilet and bathroom is an eyesore, have you ever seen a white toilet turn to black, I saw it in his house for the first time in my life, cockroaches lives in his kitchen, he doesn't bath on his off days, he would stay for days without bathing, that day I spoke the honest and blunt truth to him to the extent that he doesn't talk to me anymore, so imagine how disgusting he will be when he gets married, I pity whoever will marry him.

Because they have carried heavy load.

AfroKnight:
This is the first time I’m seeing this. Actually, married men always look better in marriage especially because there’s a woman in the house who is his resident fashion police.

Here’s a man that knows 😂.

No wonder you still live in that kind of environment, no offense. If truly you are a father of five and you have no plans to see your children end up where you ended up, you wouldn't have more than two trousers in your house by now. I'm not against married men looking presentable but looking good should never be a priority especially among struggling men. The money you spent in buying those nonsense you call clothes could've better been channeled into something more useful to your family. If you had invested all the money you've spent on looking good so far in enrolling one of your children in an extra lesson or a skill class, that one may end up tomorrow delivering the entire generation from poverty. Take my advice or leave it, I done talk my own finish.

Jovialjune1:
Some of these married become so dirty and have no care about hygiene anymore, they start pot belly, their teeth start to smell after 5 hours that when they talk spittle will be flying everywhere, i work with FG so I know what I'm talking about, by their mode of dressing you will know the dirty ones from the neat ones, they will come back from work all sweaty and smelly, they won't bath at night, yet expect their wives to open legs for a stinky man with a smelly mouth.

I know of a single medical doctor that is as dirty as a stinky gutter, I went to his house for the first time and his toilet and bathroom is an eyesore, have you ever seen a white toilet turn to black, I saw it in his house for the first time in my life, cockroaches lives in his kitchen, he doesn't bath on his off days, he would stay for days without bathing, that day I spoke the honest and blunt truth to the extent that he doesn't talk to me anymore, so imagine how disgusting he will be when he gets married, I pity whoever will marry him.

How was that same man before he got married and had children? You people open mouth waaa and talk rubbish about people with heavy loads of responsibilities when you haven't fed only yourself well. Many single people are on top bridges trying to kill themselves over hardship yet no one bothers to know what married people see today. Naturally I'm a very stingy person but I was forced to give 40k to a man today. I gave him lift and this man was stinking to high heavens. After we had small talk, I discovered that this man treks many kilometers every day to and fro work just to feed his family. He said that his transport money makes up their feeding money everyday. Someone that treks that long, why won't he smell? Mind you, he wasn't trekking the distance when he was single so chances are that he was cleaner, fresher and smelt nice at that time. Life changes affect humans and wise people adapt to the changes and don't give a fucck about what others say.

5 kids in this economy and you think you are not insane? You are not even looking well fed. So how the hell are you talking care of those kids?

Obavoh:
A lot of married men feel too comfortable after marriage.

They believe it is only women who should put in effort to make the marriage work. This is why many marriages are dead.

Tips I use to keep my wife happy:

- I always make sure I look good for her.

- I tell her I love you at least 3 times a day.

- I buy her small gifts eg kunu, roast corn 🌽 every day.

- I always compliment her beauty.

See how I dress, you won’t know I’m a father of 5.
Married men take note and stay blessed

Even women

Did he ever ask assistance from you? Everybody have reason for their actions.. People who born many kids also have their reasons. It's their life, it's their choice. Even single men find it hard to survive..

Dogalmighty17:
5 kids in this economy and you think you are not insane? You are not even looking well fed. So how the hell are you talking care of those kids?

Tru tru you don't know?

Jovialjune1:
Some of these married become so dirty and have no care about hygiene anymore, they start pot belly, their teeth start to smell after 5 hours that when they talk spittle will be flying everywhere, i work with FG so I know what I'm talking about, by their mode of dressing you will know the dirty ones from the neat ones, they will come back from work all sweaty and smelly, they won't bath at night, yet expect their wives to open legs for a stinky man with a smelly mouth.

I know of a single medical doctor that is as dirty as a stinky gutter, I went to his house for the first time and his toilet and bathroom is an eyesore, have you ever seen a white toilet turn to black, I saw it in his house for the first time in my life, cockroaches lives in his kitchen, he doesn't bath on his off days, he would stay for days without bathing, that day I spoke the honest and blunt truth to the extent that he doesn't talk to me anymore, so imagine how disgusting he will be when he gets married, I pity whoever will marry him.

Na lie

dododawa1:
Na lie

Next time, if you lack sense to reply with a counter response, do not quote me.

Nonexisting1:
How was that same man before he got married and had children? You people open mouth waaa and talk rubbish about people with heavy loads of responsibilities when you haven't fed only yourself well. Many single people are on top bridges trying to kill themselves over hardship yet no one bothers to know what married people see today. Naturally I'm a very stingy person but I was forced to give 40k to a man today. I gave him lift and this man was stinking to high heavens. After we had small talk, I discovered that this man treks many kilometers every day to and fro work just to feed his family. He said that his transport money makes up their feeding money everyday. Someone that treks that long, why won't he smell? Mind you, he wasn't trekking the distance when he was single so chances are that he was cleaner, fresher and smelt nice at that time. Life changes affect humans and wise people adapt to the changes and don't give a fucck about what others say.

And your point is?

So because men toil day and night means they are justified for being dirty? We are glorifying dirtiness now? So we should appreciate men that work and leave them to continue to be dirty? How can these married men guide their children on neatness when they themselves are dirty? You people like to disgrace yourselves, women don't work too? Na only men dey toil day and night?

Devonelle:
They only care about making money and chasing small girls.

Disgracing their wives up and down with their big bellies

you and that ur stretch mark breast,I wan suck breast

Marriage na unnecessary stress for men.

MrPOTUS:


Marriage na unnecessary stress for men.

Are you from a single mother home?