Can u  marry a girl that has  a child?

maybe when she was in  secondary school or higher institution, as for me
hmn, i, think , let me hear views sha ;D

Is there any thing bad about it?

so u cannot do it,

anyway, its left up to you,

but if i find myself in guy like thats' shoe, and i really love her, then i will need to hear why she did that

Yes, I could marry a single mother.

@ Poster: Why don't you try using the "search" option, before posting? This very question has been done to death, just leads to a very cluttered section.

Maybe you you have asked "can you marry a girl who cannot have a child?"

we are strange people really. How could you people encourage someone in difficult marriage to quit only to reject her if she had had a baby?

I am just asking.

To the narrow minded men, I'm a single mum & it was the LAST thing on this planet that I ever imagined. The baby's father left me 8 weeks before I was due to give birth!!! Must I be condemned to a life of lonliness because my ex partner wasn't grown up enough to be a father Thank God I met a wonderful man who loves me & my daughter

obane, i am still waiting for your own reply, but it seems you cannot do it, bt anyway, still waiting

Do you have a special attachment to him?

@ Olanajim

am starting to think so too

@topic

as for me I won't marry a man with a kid(s) simply because its my choice to make. i dont like the idea of a crowded marriage.

Getting involved with a single parent is more complicated than you think.

Most families won’t accept a bastard into the family; and there's also the possibility that the father might come one day asking for his child; are you going to fight him? Or prevent him from seeing his own child? It would only lead to an unnecessary fight.

If a girl gets pregnant before marriage and ends up not marrying the guy who impregnated her, believe me it would be difficult for her to find a husband.

for a guy, i wont
gets too complicated afterwards really,

wont be fallin for no guywith a kid,

Everybody has spoken well, its actually a freedom of

choice but there are smtimes u find urself in a situation you can't

control like, hmn being in love with such a person, well

never pray to get into such a situation sha. Because in such situations

u won't be mindful of choice.

if you love her, Y not

@obane

lust is instant, love is gradual. one should have found out these things before letting things escalate. Is it not?

Agreed, but i still believe anybody can find

him/herself in such situations maybe if your partner

din't tell you when you people started.

well then if that's the case then there will be another problem. why did he not tell me about such an important part of his life when we were trying to get to know each other?

that alone is enough for me to froget about the budding relationship.

He either lied to me by not telling me or he's ashamed of the fact that he has a child hence no telling me.

either way i will be wary of the guy. He is not proud of his child!

Get my drift?

@ haja

If he's afraid to tell you knowin fully well that it ill break

off most precious relationship he has. that is the kind of

situation i was talkin about

then i think you know full well what the answer to that situation will be

if you are afraid to tell me then you are not man enough to face up to awkward situations. _{this is not directed at you I am just speaking generally}

Guys who waste time or dilly dally with important have no place in my life.

she has a child, so what?
its no barrier n really shouldn't be