Emekaphilip360:
I still don’t get it. Imagine a girl that just suck and bang another man just few hours ago that’s the kind of girl some men want to hook up with.

Women too are trying. Banging almost 7 to 10 guys a day on the name of hookup. That kpekus will be on fire. This is why sex don’t mean shit to a woman. It’s just fun to them.

Emekaphilip360:
Sex is free only if the girl likes u and not the other way round. If a girl likes u, she will spend her own money on u and still give u her body for free.

SCOOPERJEF:
bro leave that Manny to be chatting shit.. I can say this with a huge fact that not every body who hook up with a hooker is lacking confidence majority of men who patronize hookers just see the normal process of toasting or chyking and find it to be more time consuming and waste of resources and most times won't even see the pant of the lady and that will be loosing both time and money...so why not cut the chase and go get what you want. the only down side about these hookers is just the dangers of std and sti and even the so called normal babe aren't left out from dangers of diseases too so you just need to pick your poison...

weslay:


Do you live like a pig because your large intestine is filthy?

zed7:
Interesting debate going on here. Patronising prostitutes or hook up is not guided by basic principles like IQ, wealth, religion, or other such parameters. It's personal principles that guide such decisions.

Jimmy Swaggart the preacher has been caught with prostitutes, athletes and politicians have been caught with prostitutes. Talking about prostitutes, there are classes to these things. Some are very premium, high above the grade of many regular men whilst some are trashy and most 'decent' men wouldn't touch for free.

Patronising prostitutes is just a matter of personal principles. The same way some men wouldn't touch a married woman and some would. It has nothing to do with status or anything.

As for the issue of body count, some 'regular and decent' women with a high libido have very high body count even though they don't have sex for money. Some high class prostitutes have fixed number of clients and the issue of body count doesn't apply here.

Bottom line is that patronage of prostitutes is a personal thing and nobody should be shamed for their choices. Many people who even claim not to patronise prostitutes would sell their inheritance just to be inbetween the thighs of some class of these prostitutes. There are levels to these things. Not everyone is a 1k brothel hoe.

Gerrard59:




I can relate. Not everyone has that time to chase women when we know the reason most men chase women na because of sex. Take woman go expensive restaurant, buy her gifts and be attentive all because man wants to fvck? Which busy man, student, worker or business person, has time for such? The thing the opponents of patronising hookers don't know is that testosterone is a hormone, not a slowpoke, and needs to be satisfied periodically. Does Dangote lack confidence? Otedola nko? What about men wey no fine for face, but have small change to pay just to put the head inside? Make dem too no fvck?

Then, the belief that sex is free, that one na lie. The same men who advocate for chkying know too well that without showing the intent to spend one way or the other, they won't see sex. So, how is it wrong to cut that middleman aspect and go straight to the point? While I understand the emotional side of sex (having it someone who likes you), I also consider other men who don't have the time, features and resources to make that possible.

Obviously, there are risks associated with such a lifestyle and patrons should protect themselves adequately. In an era where understanding girlfriends and even wives dey cheat, it can go anyway.

Emekaphilip360:
Try it out bro. Don’t be scared. I heard its fun

Smartguyboy:

More men patronize LovePeddler than normal relationship. That why it’s a billion dollar business world wide

Smartguyboy:


De Wallen, Amsterdam's red-light district, is internationally known and one of the main tourist attractions of the city. It offers legal prostitution and a number of coffee shops that sell marijuana. The term "red-light district" originates from the red lights that were used as signs for brothels. It’s everywhere

JoshTim:


IQ and promiscuity dont relate....please.

Geovanni412:



Link;
https://www.salon.com/2022/01/29/why-serial-killers-are-drawn-to/
https://www.complex.com/sports/a/gavin-evans/crazy-nba-sex-scandals
https://newrepublic.com/article/112480/rip-jerry-buss-playboy

Jasonjay101:


Lol, some years back a girl came out to show Dangote's ass on the net to show he was with her for some randy things and I'm sure such a girl is in no class of a virgin. Now the question is is your life better than that of Aliko Dangote or a low lifer as you describe men that patronize hook up girl

Ojagun:
Iceland is a country with a highly educated population and yet the STI rates are very high

pansophist:


I am writing generally, you are writing specifically. Of course, there are lots of extremely intelligent men who are promiscuous, but as a rule, generally speaking, you will find reckless sexual behavior within the lower IQ/class of people.

Promiscuity is a result of low self-control, lack of fulfilling sexual life from a desired partner, low awareness of consequences, lack of responsibility, lack of bird' s-eye view of the long-term implications of fleeting actions, etc.

It is the same reason why there are more brothels, liquor shops, and lots of homeless children in poor neighborhoods. Lagos mainland and Island for example is a good example.

See, I am not saying an intelligent man cant be, but generally, higher IQ men are less promiscuous since they are highly valued, have a lot to lose, and won't just fork anything.

Gerrard59:


Apples to oranges. Prostitution is not a crime, at least in southern Nigeria. It is a service which is consensual. Kidnapping is adopting someone WITHOUT the person's permission and blackmailing to receive money. Armed robbery is stealing someone's money. Theft is a crime. Ritualism is killing another person with the belief that money can be made from body parts. Which is a false notion as it does not work (https://www.nairaland.com/6856398/cannot-make-money-via-rituals)

If you perform the trio in almost every country, you will get life imprisonment or the death penalty. But prostitution does not have such a punishment, assuming it does in the first place (https://www.nairaland.com/7684230/how-reduce-hook-ups-nigeria).

Apples to oranges. Please try harder next time.

stunnert:

That's why there are so many damaged men out there

Gerrard59:


You pay via commitment. Commitment entails loyalty, time, care and fidelity. It is not free. Only handsome men enjoy free sex, but the majority of Nigerian men are not handsome.

Aloof:


Nobody said prostitution is a crime, Op said they lack shame.
Do they lack it? Yes.

Aloof:


Person like you would decriminalize Ritualists, armed robbers and Kidnappers just because they do it for Money.

Oga is prostitution the only means to make Money?

Emekaphilip360:
. This is why sex don’t mean shit to a woman. It’s just fun to them.

Emekaphilip360:
So you mean all the girls doing hookup, olosho and acting porn are all damaged? You forget some do it because of money?? Even if they don’t want to it .

SCOOPERJEF:
we just leave in dangerous times my bro and one way or the other you must pay for sex either direct or indirect payment and paying indirect

and loosing my precious time to be monitoring if you are cheating or arguing over unnecessary things is out of my books...I just want to have sex and move on without having to worry about who will hit it before or after me I leave that to men with high confident men or long sighted men.

Emekaphilip360:
I disagree with you.

Reminderz:

@bolded, only when a woman is damaged, sex would mean nothing to her anymore... because she's mentally damaged, she now sees the act as a type of charity work... this is why they migrate to hookup sites, roadside prostitution and onlyfans... when she has gotten to this stage, words like shame, immorality, consequences, accountability and responsibility will be no where to be found in her dictionary...

on the other hand, men who intentionally fvck and patronize these type of women you mentioned are low lifers and someone without standards... men who lack the balls, men who entice women with their money to get them laid, men who would fvck anything on skirt, men with shortsightedness, short term goals, men who are blinded by lust, men who are suffering from addictions, men who are sexually indisciplined and men who are of low IQs... real men don't eat nonsense...

BigYash:
He is right. Any woman who can have sex with multiple partners is damaged. Because naturally women are very secretive and emotional when it comes to sex. Now,you see hookup girls doing 3some,even ga*g .When she now sees her body as a money making venture, or see having sex with multiple men to be fun,just know say na express you don enter.. She don go,and you can't even change her..

Emekaphilip360:
Do you know the number of percentage of body count an average Nigeria girls have? Then we can say over 90% of nigeria girls are damaged. Girls engaged in sex for so many reasons

pansophist:


I am writing generally, you are writing specifically. Of course, there are lots of extremely intelligent men who are promiscuous, but as a rule, generally speaking, you will find reckless sexual behavior within the lower IQ/class of people.

Promiscuity is a result of low self-control, lack of fulfilling sexual life from a desired partner, low awareness of consequences, lack of responsibility, lack of bird' s-eye view of the long-term implications of fleeting actions, etc.

It is the same reason why there are more brothels, liquor shops, and lots of homeless children in poor neighborhoods. Lagos mainland and Island for example is a good example.

See, I am not saying an intelligent man cant be, but generally, higher IQ men are less promiscuous since they are highly valued, have a lot to lose, and won't just fork anything.

Emekaphilip360:
So you mean all the girls doing hookup, olosho and acting porn are all damaged? You forget some do it because of money?? Even if they don’t want to it .