Why has dating become such a game?

You can’t show feelings, can’t act too excited, can’t respond to texts early, always let them chase you, act like you don’t care even if you do, can’t double text.

A lot has really change nowadays unlike in the past when we can genuinely express ourselves without being seen as desperate.

It’s so weird!

Because it is now what it is.

Wake up to reality and smell the coffee☕

Chingyyy878:
Why has dating become such a game?

You can’t show feelings, can’t act too excited, can’t respond to texts early, always let them chase you, act like you don’t care even if you do, can’t double text.

A lot has really change nowadays unlike in the past when we can genuinely express ourselves without being seen as desperate.

It’s so weird!

Because we allowed MEDIA and TECH to raise the children, thinking it was helping us... NOT KNOWING IT WAS WIRING THEM TO SEE EVERYTHING AS AN ALGORITHM.

The nice, good and faithful ones finished last.

because it has always been a game... but it wasn't pronounced like this in the past... back then, the game of love was played subconsciously, now it's being played consciously or let me say intentionally, making people self aware of the moves they make, and what they do... because the game is being revealed, this is why it's becoming increasingly difficult to love someone genuinely because you now understand what it's all about, and also thanks to the media, people can freely talk about the game... it's said that the game is to be sold and not told... for you to win now, you have to play the game without letting others know you're playing it... you might not understand it yet, but every human relationship has been a game, the predator and the prey, the user and the used, the giver and the receiver, the manipulator and the manipulated, the superior and the inferior, the master and the slave, you just have to sharpen your senses in order not to be swept away by the waves of these illusions...

in summary, love is war...

1) People are selfish.
And it's very hard for a selfish person not to think that others are being selfish towards them also. Things we do.

2) The love of many has waxed cold because of the many evil we all have experienced around us at one time or the other.

Op on point

because our Naija Ladies always Try to have Options.

They are Dating you but have 5,6 Men as Substitutes or Reserves! 🤨😒

So Guys too, Try to have other Babes too, inorder not to carry Last!🙂🙂

It isn't supposed to be a game. Someone started it, people followed, now almost everyone is doing it. Trying to form sharp when they are not. Trying to justify nonsense.
Love is not war.
Just pretenders and poseurs outside.

It will only get more difficult. I don't like seeing/experiencing insane society, wish I was born in our forefathers' era.

Nothing has changed. Dating had always been a game of deception and unlawful sex/money spending n money making.
However, don't confuse dating for courtship. Courtship is not only lawful, but very lawful and is a legitimate way to marriage

Relationship is not a game,,the raw truth here is women is the controller of relationship ,80% of relationshipz they determines if it happens or not ,if she loves you more ,the rest is history

Dating life has really become so difficult..

I can't even remember the last time I chatted with any girl,cuz their replies alone can make a man to lose appetite.

Intentiöns are no longer pure.