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| Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by Sijo01(f): 2:59pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
U hav an issue in ur relationship, & u really wanna talk 2sombdy abut it. who sud dat person be? ur parents? - dey might nt like ur partner ur friends? - dey might b envious of ur relationship kept it 2 urself? - it wil nt help issues. now who sud dt be & why? |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by iyatrustee(f): 3:30pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
if the chips are down and i need to talk to someone, it would be my parents(depending on my relationship with them). most times, your so called friends are worse than your enenies when it is all about a guy. |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by Sijo01(f): 3:39pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
wat happens if ur parents dnt approve of d guy, dnt u fink it will b an opportunity 4dem to advise u to live him? |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by bekay911(f): 3:43pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
meet a counselor dat is married dey ,ust av gome tru ur situation frnds might give u biased advise and might turn u to an object od mockery bt sum+ frm outside d box will b in a very gud position 2 advise u. |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by slimyem: 3:44pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
older,responsible and experienced friends do it for me.i have quite a number of them around me. |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by Nobody: 3:44pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
Counselor is all urs |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by iice(f): 4:05pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
Myself mostly. I don't believe in a problem shared, a problem half solved. With humans, it tends to end up a problem multiplied. |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by freecocoa(f): 4:15pm On Oct 24, 2011 |
If I wanna talk to anyone,the best choice would be my parents,I'm sure they'll like the guy provided he is responsible. Another choice my besty,though most people say you shouldn't trust anyone,she has proven to be trustworthy countless times,except she changes tomorrow. The me I know does weird things a times,I could walk up to a stranger(but I weigh the person first o,)not just any type of person stranger,and politely ask for a listening ear. I've done it before. |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by Nobody: 6:14am On Oct 25, 2011 |
iice:  |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:12am On Oct 25, 2011 |
^^^What are u doing here? oya let's go back to ferex thread |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:46am On Oct 25, 2011 |
[size=14pt]People that truly care about you! Not necessarily your parents! Uncles, auntys, cousins. . . As long as the age gap is not too much! I wont confide in an uncle or aunty that's older than me by more than 7 years! Cousins are best though!  [/size] |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by stagger: 9:21am On Oct 25, 2011 |
Ideally, no one. But if you need to, then get a mentor who has been married for at least 15 to 20 years and who has a happy marriage. Even at that, you do not spill the beans directly. Ask him (for men) and her (for women) what they would do in a particular situation. You narrate the situation and get their response. |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by NuhuRibadu: 9:31am On Oct 25, 2011 |
find out those people your spouse respect a lot and won't really say "no" to their advice, and try and build a cordial relationship with those people (if you find them respectable too) before you even marriage. If there are no such people in your marriage, then, the marriage will most prolly hit the rock one day |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by maclatunji: 9:41am On Oct 25, 2011 |
Nairaland  |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by saintfrank(m): 9:41am On Oct 25, 2011 |
Humm I guess it’s will be of more help to approach a stranger , or meet some professional love Guru for advice |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by ChuckD2(m): 9:52am On Oct 25, 2011 |
the answers lie within you. why would anyone narrate themselves to third parties in relationship matters? cognitive analysis of your situation while factoring in your aspirations, feelings and excesses you can accomoodate will present the best solution to your challenges. tell me it's not that easy and i'll tell you: "grow up". |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by bbwlurv(m): 9:53am On Oct 25, 2011 |
I kip and talk to myself cos i am my own consultant. furthermore,i go to forums and sites and try to draw conclusions from d daily experience shared,dat way i kip my union secured cos rily,i no knw wu like me o, |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by ogbongzky(m): 10:00am On Oct 25, 2011 |
maclatunji: hahaha, if you try that option, you are on your own oo, lol |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by 1forall: 11:19am On Oct 25, 2011 |
Actually, I think the best person to talk confide in in a relationship is the partner. Really. I think it's easier and faster that way, and prevents the potential embarrassment of discussing private issues with a 3rd party. |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by chinnyonwu(m): 11:28am On Oct 25, 2011 |
Your pastor |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by Nobody: 12:22pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
stagger: so you sef dey come romance section odiaero:ah, even you my chairman, abeg , go back to fx thread , this section no get anything trade calls to offer |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by AmakaG29(f): 1:24pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
Your partner should be the first person you confide in, but if you need further advice look to someone who is happily in a relationship and can be objective. Many couples would benefit from having an older, established couple to serve as a mentor. Parents are inefficient because you and not your relationship are their priority. You need someone who won't overreact or use the information to harm you. |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by Ivbade: 1:29pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
Your Pastor! |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by Powerz: 1:41pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
when it comes to relationship,privacy is needed. not everybody is free with their parents when it comes to relationship,so i don't advise inviting parents on that. And for friends not all friend is happy with your relationship and beside you don't see their heart neither can you predict what they are up to, so friends are excluded. The best person to invite or confide on in a relationship is a counselor.[color=#000099][/color] |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by MMM2(m): 1:53pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
op u tell ur 2nd GF or BF |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by Nobody: 2:51pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
Bring it to niaraland and hide behind a new user id |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by ronkebp(f): 3:11pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
@ Poster, it depends on who you have a sincere relationship with, and what you are hoping to acheive by letting others or someone know about your problems, Most problems are solved by you just remaining calm and just letting that storm to pass, and before you know it, you can think clearer and the answers you seek are coming into your mind. Though most times we all need encouraging words that would help us in-times of intense pain and confusion. |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by ElmA1(f): 3:13pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
Talk to someone that truly cares about you.A friend,or family(sisters or cousins) |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by Nobody: 3:16pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
Ivbade: |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by Odunnu: 3:32pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
I've not had any serious challenge in my relationship but when few months ago I had a near serious one, I couldnt talk to my parents because I figured out they'l re-drum the 'be calm, be patient' advice. I talked my kid brother (who doubles as my pally) he didnt give me a settling advice and I was getting apprehensive, angry and confrontational. I resorted to talk online to a woman who cant pick me from the crowd so was very objective in her advice. I talked to NLnd's Chaircover and i've used her so often to quell my anxieties even when I knew what to do. |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by gbengene2009: 3:40pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
It's best not to trust anybody aside ur partner wen it comes to ur relationship matters nt even ur best fwend coz e might turn to stab u @ d back 2mao, Wot i do wen i wan discuss such matters is go to chatting rooms lyk Dating room on the 2go application whr no one knows or recognise u, and pour out ma mind to d fullest |
| Re: Who Should/will U Confide On, In A Relationship? by Creamish(f): 5:24pm On Oct 25, 2011 |
its either my mum or myself . . . |
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