How important is a backup plan.

What is a backup plan? [A human being who is just used for backup who acts like a Boyfriend or Girlfriend but is not aware that they are a backup plan]

A recent conversation.

Woman A: Always have a back up person, plan B and options. Because people will disappoint you when you least expect it.

Woman B: Most women always have a backup plan. it's not planned in most cases. it just happens to be a scenario their nature [think, war brides] supports.

Woman C: After my 2nd heartbreak, I got this a lot. That my problem was that I always put all my eggs in one basket. That I never had a back up plan.

So 50 percent agree to have a backup plan, 50 percent disagree.

It is called "partner insurance".

But what happens to the actual human being that was used as a Backup Plan

Kelechi009:
It is called "partner insurance".

But what happens to the actual human being that was used as a Backup Plan

Kelechi009:
It is called "partner insurance".

But what happens to the actual human being that was used as a Backup Plan

that person may have his or her own back up plans too.

misreal:
that person may have his or her own back up plans too.

True.

95% of ladies in relationships have a backup plan.

misreal:
that person may have his or her own back up plans too.

Imagine the back-up plan of the main back-up plan having their own back-up plan as well.

It becomes a 360-degree angle relationship & is also called a complete angle or full-circle.

Kelechi009:
How important is a backup plan.

What is a backup plan? [A human being who is just used for backup who acts like a Boyfriend or Girlfriend but is not aware that they are a backup plan]

A recent conversation.

Woman A: Always have a back up person, plan B and options. Because people will disappoint you when you least expect it.

Woman B: Most women always have a backup plan. it's not planned in most cases. it just happens to be a scenario their nature [think, war brides] supports.

Woman C: After my 2nd heartbreak, I got this a lot. That my problem was that I always put all my eggs in one basket. That I never had a back up plan.

So 50 percent agree to have a backup plan, 50 percent disagree.

Backup plan is one of the reasons marriages fail early.

How? A backup plan is the same as double dating or triple dating as the case maybe. The main person in most cases does not know about the others. But it's possible for the others to know about the main person. This is because the girl prefers the main guy but he is either yet to pop the question or she is still not sure on somethings about him. He is probably a cheat, a woman beater etc but she loves him dearly but because she has another shoulder to cry on, she doesn't feel the pain that much.

As for the other guy(s), he is the type that will accept her anytime she agrees to fully become committed to the relationship and also ok with his role at the moment as the second fiddle as long as he gets his benefits (companionship and nacking).

If the girl finally got married to the main guy, the rest guy(s) cut her off completely. This is where the schock comes in. No more additional shoulder to cry on, no more outside desired companionship and all the things she doesn't like about her husband but didn't complain about because of the option of the other guys helping to distract her from being worried about those things are no more. So, she starts complaining, fighting back etc. This will be like a change of attitude from the perspective of her husband but really not so.

Eventually, if care is not taking the marriage might collapse early.

Yes,na backup plan save me till today.i always have a backup

Relationship insurance

There should be a backup plan for everything. I can't allow any breakup to give me breakdown.

You show me red light like this, I move to the one with green light.

You think I'm unfaithful abi... Dey play... You go see shege for guys hand

Even in English, there is main clause and subordinate clause.

Not a good idea

There is no format you can use to justify cheating

Don't have na.
Dey there dey play

There is a pool of potential partners for anyone that wants to marry.
It is not really a backup plan. It is there already. Only the naive ones that won't notice it.

2mch:
You don’t sleep with every suitor or every woman. Handle one relationship at a time or you lose all because you cannot focus. You may end up with the wrong one too because women will pretend just to win.

You can have friends who you have nothing to do with, but in this day and age of rampant STD, stick to one person for your own good and use protection if you insist you are now grown enough to do what married people do.

Why have sex at all with one you are not married to?

All single ladies have backup plans, don't be deceived.
Some guys are even backup plans unknown to them.

This is our problem exactly as guys. Women always think it's right to have back up at the end the end up being used by all both boyfriend and back up.
As for guys any guy with back up base no get babe at all na cruise him dey catch.

You don’t sleep with every suitor or every woman. Handle one relationship at a time or you lose all because you cannot focus. You may end up with the wrong one too because women will pretend just to win.

You can have friends who you have nothing to do with, but in this day and age of rampant STD, stick to one person for your own good and use protection if you insist you are now grown enough to do what married people do.

Always have back up plan, this na bitter truth

Don't just mess up any lady no matter whatever but have a strong back up

Kelechi009:
It is called "partner insurance".

But what happens to the actual human being that was used as a Backup Plan

the backup plan should also have a backup plan

If there's ever a need for a backup plan in a relationship then know that you're in the wrong relationship. End the relationship and follow your so-called backup plan to avoid sharing diseases or giving one man's child to another man to train.

A man can afford to have backup plans cos he is traditionally saddled with the responsibility of taking care of the so-called backup plans but you see women? Don't ever think of backup plan. Just quit and move on. And stop being greedy and trying to throw yourself at a guy who only loves your body and isn't ready to wife you

Assistant boy friend!!!

Even the back up plan can still Bleep u up. It might be worse than the initial plan especially if the person later find out he was playing second fiddle before

For a lady maybe it’s cool but for a man that has no honor at all. ..I have you and then keep another for what?? No you (she) has to be the only plan if there is a plan at all.

Always have your Plan B

Yes especially if the current relationship gives u concerns are reasons to. A back up plan means other options it doesn't mean they are all at a serious level bt have that potential.

If you carry a spare tyre in your car while driving I see nothing wrong with having a backup relationship plan

jetwonder:

Assistant boy friend!!!

I can never be that… poor or rich

You better have a power bank to keep your relationship going.

Stevenbright:


Backup plan is one of the reasons marriages fail early.

How? A backup plan is the same as double dating or triple dating as the case maybe. The main person in most cases does not know about the others. But it's possible for the others to know about the main person. This is because the girl prefers the main guy but he is either yet to pop the question or she is still not sure on somethings about him. He is probably a cheat, a woman beater etc but she loves him dearly but because she has another shoulder to cry on, she doesn't feel the pain that much.

As for the other guy(s), he is the type that will accept her anytime she agrees to fully become committed to the relationship and also ok with his role at the moment as the second fiddle as long as he gets his benefits (companionship and nacking).

If the girl finally got married to the main guy, the rest guy(s) cut her off completely. This is where the schock comes in. No more additional shoulder to cry on, no more outside desired companionship and all the things she doesn't like about her husband but didn't complain about because of the option of the other guys helping to distract her from being worried about those things are no more. So, she starts complaining, fighting back etc. This will be like a change of attitude from the perspective of her husband but really not so.

Eventually, if care is not taking the marriage might collapse early.

Wisdom comment

Yes Ooo
Women are Just Necessary Evil

Coolsat:
All single ladies have backup plans, don't be deceived.
Some guys are even backup plans unknown to them.

she was my only plan all along idc