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Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by EniHolar(f): 4:35pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Quebec91: I don't really understand why you're angry o. Is it my fault that YOUR MOTHER has more than 50 body count as you said? Òpònu aláìnírònú Ọmọ àlè játijàti |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by Enemyofpeace: 4:40pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Yes o. I can't allow any bitch to break my earth |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by Aklee4994(m): 4:40pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Kelechi009:Na 2 negative energy coming together Na only importunate demands go Dey sup |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by Pins(m): 4:43pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
What exactly is the use of a backup relationship? What if me as the main guy senses you are cheating on me and in my mind i downgrade you from main girlfriend to backup girlfriend and at this point am no longer thinking of marrying you due to your unfaithfulness. What happens then? because me i believe if you can not be faithful in a relationship, you can never be faithful in marriage , so as such you are not a wife material. Instead back up plan i prefer you walk away if you can't continue not justify a cheating lifestyle and call it backup. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by RPG2020(m): 4:53pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
EniHolar: Na this your comment make you single since 2010 till now |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by Exceed15: 5:19pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Capital YES. Trust yourself only. My mother always tell me this. |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by Shikena(m): 5:25pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Stop fooling yourself. Most so-called backups are already aware without confronting you, and you are just mere fringe benefit to them. So technically your backup plan is empty. There are some things you do unconsciously when you have a backup and your partner will eventually figure it out. The most dangerous ones won't even tell you that you've been found out. They will allow you to keep fooling yourself. 1 Like |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by HRMK: 5:34pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
its the most sensible thing to do!have you ever asked yourself why most ladies with multiple dates have not been jilted but end up getting married?it is obvious enough! |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by Greenfusion: 5:42pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Stevenbright: Nice analysis 3 Likes |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by phemmyfour: 5:44pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Kelechi009:That's cheating, you can lose both ways 1 Like |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by Kobojunkie: 5:53pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
HRMK:A plan made as a result of fear of rejection or loneliness is sensible? 1 Like |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by femmoy(m): 5:56pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
If you ever agree with or you have a backup plan in a RELATIONSHIP, then you're in the wrong relationship. It's better to quit than keep fooling yourselves. I'm surprised at Men supporting this so called backup plan, you're stylishly encourage unfaithfulness and trust me it will go round and back to you. 2 Likes |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by Acidosis(m): 6:13pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
descarado: No, as long as I'm not involved. |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by lomprico(m): 6:31pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Yes! When you start suspecting foul play. |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by loswhite(m): 7:00pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
EniHolar:Lol even you when dey cheat on your boyfriend will back up plan still somehow put the blame on guys....lol |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by loswhite(m): 7:03pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
MasterJayJay:What kind of question is this? Are ppl tied to your sexual beliefs? If you want to wait till you are married before sex that is your business |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by Legendneverdies(m): 7:19pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Stevenbright:You're a Wise Man. 2 Likes |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by Yuneehk(f): 7:55pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Acidosis:You didn't mention that you are a researcher. What percentage of men in relationships have a back up plan, though, based on your research? |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by Kelechi009: 8:09pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
EndRape2: A backup plan is never aware he or she is a backup plan, so therefore they would never initiate to leave the union. |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by naijapikin2(m): 8:12pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
The backup may be a MAJOR for another person Some have up to 20 backups.. So they have backups and other backups to back thier backup, up. |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by Goalnaldo(m): 8:19pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Stevenbright:Are you a relationship/marriage counselor? You nailed this brother |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by AfDapone: 8:20pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Even your boo get a boo... 2 Likes |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by mywells: 8:23pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
You can not chase to rat at the same time ,you'll loose both this I see. |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by Acidosis(m): 8:26pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Yuneehk: Majority (men) do not necessarily have or need a backup plan. Do men cheat with their side chicks? Yes, majority cheat (or will cheat). If you need statistics, I'll say 98%, unfortunately A side chick is not a backup plan. No one has a plan for her. But most single women will keep their options open until their wedding/engagement - that is the backup plan. A backup plan is why a single lady in a relationship will give her number to a guy. 2 Likes |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by CrownedPhoenix: 8:27pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
EniHolar: But you are actually unfaithful. |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by Stevenbright(m): 8:28pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Goalnaldo: An average Nigerian is multidisciplinary in nature because the street equips us beyond measure! |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by nedekid: 9:48pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Make I digress small, never let your woman or wife know your finances. If not, na wahala you de find. Na em I de face as I write. Because of that one, madam go gree scratch my back. |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by Omalicious1: 9:56pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
Kelechi009: Once there's a back up, it's no longer a relationship but a contract |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by fuck419: 10:08pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
I don't buy into the idea of having a backup plan in a relationship. Though I have been nursing the feeling to open up to another relationship as I feel a bit uncomfortable with the present relationship. If I eventually open up another relationship, I would have to officially terminate the former one. I can't keep both running concurrently, that is being unfaithful. 1 Like |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by ADBA3005(m): 11:26pm On Oct 23, 2023 |
EniHolar: You're going to be adulterous! |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by thomasjoe(m): 2:32am On Oct 24, 2023 |
Kobicove:But when it's a Man that has spare tyre(s). You start seeing reasons to complain...atink? |
Re: Should People Have A Backup Plan For Relationships? by Yuneehk(f): 6:49am On Oct 24, 2023 |
Acidosis:Are you sure it is planet earth that you are in? Men don't have a back up indeed Men keep their options open too just so you know for the same reasons that a woman keeps hers open. Even while in a relationship, men still ask/give numbers so it goes both ways. I was expecting a figure, though, just like you did with the women. Good morning. How you dey? 2 Likes |
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