Kobojunkie:
You people lie a lot and you somehow think it is Ok to name Jesus Christ in your lies. Yes, Miracles happen but God and hence Jesus Christ does not go back on His Word. He washed His hands off your marriages and even proclaimed that your marriages are not of the Kingdom of God so you lot would not go around blaming Him for your failures. Yet you go around roping Him in on exactly that, why?

Primusinterpares:
■ I have experienced miracles many times in my life. And am grateful to God through Jesus Christ.

Jewessgratitud3:


How about I take my nude picture and post it here for you to see as well since all the story no reach you. Uch.u

You dey ask me that kind question, as your mate now?

Jewessgratitud3:



It's ok if you see or feel less of yourself and unworthy of certain privileges of life because of your past but you have no right whatsoever to dictate what privileges and rights others are entitled to.

Please, if you'll excuse me. I don't have time for dumb and illogical reasoning.

LalastiklaIa:


Hardmirror and in which church abi na shrine Una do the wedding.

weslay:
■ Humans were not designed to be alone. Through marriages we achieve both companionship and procreation. Personally, I feel you are not matured enough for marriage. Because your idea about it is warped.
■ Marriage and Raising a family is not self servicing. It's a duty you owe to humanity. It's living for something greater than you... Yes, it has its ups and downs. But that is not enough reason to relinquish your responsibility.
■ It's funny how you always reference the negative aspects of marriage as a valid reason to remain in your situation.

Jewessgratitud3:


Your daughters will have babies outside marriage.

Kobojunkie:
How many of those guys who you speak of are happy today?

Jman06:
How do you know that they're not happy

Kobojunkie:
1. That is a lie that is from your programming. Marriage does absolutely nothing of what you were told it does. It does not bring anyone lasting happiness, fulfillment, joy, companionship, etc. Why? Because those very same things can be obtained by several other means out there outside of marriage.

2. Humanity? Cut the bull! Marriage as practiced in your culture is primarily about servicing self and ego. Most married people see it as their duty to protect only their own children and blood, no one else's matters or counts. Can anything get more self-serving than that?

3. Maybe because the culture we live in tends to wrap lies as if positives.

PoliteActivist:
■ Let's conclude the thread with this meme:

Puss360:

...."making a family with me"...

I'm speechless

Jewessgratitud3:


Hmm... You seem to understand my personality.

The thing is, they come anytime I talk to God about it but my fear is I keep getting what I don't really want. Like no feelings for them. Like now, as I was typing , one just called me. He's everything but the attraction is not there. I'm scared I don't want to enter and now regret. No feelings for him.

Everbomb:


In this situation, what you've to do is to use something know as filtration which is pointing to and declaring that particular figure of the type of husband you really want in the presence of your maker and tell God why you want it that way.

More also, you know that what you really need is your lost bone that you need to complete you. Sometimes what we assume might not be what God really want for us. But, by creating
and pointing out that figure you want for a husband will accomplish your marital purpose.

Wakeup every 3 am to ask God for your real lost bone that will complete you, and create out everything you want out of him in order to accompany him as he comes to you.

Remember, you've the power in you. If you'll follow my guide, you'll definitely laugh last.

But, why following this guide, you've to apply patient too in order to get the true signal and not the false one.

Jewessgratitud3:


My dear, I really appreciate your concern and I'm quite aware of their unruly behavior on this forum so its not a new thing to me neither does it affect me. However, I don't have a problem sharing my family issues here cos no body knows me and it doesn't erase the fact that every one has issues bin their lives and families. Whether they say it out or not, it's there.

At least among the nonsense and senseless comments, there are good ones that ive been able to gain one or two things from.

They can only rant, they can't beat me.

Jewessgratitud3:


Hmm... You seem to understand my personality.

The thing is, they come anytime I talk to God about it but my fear is I keep getting what I don't really want. Like no feelings for them. Like now, as I was typing , one just called me. He's everything but the attraction is not there. I'm scared I don't want to enter and now regret. No feelings for him.

Weepnow:


Let undertake a little mental exercise.

A human being is made of spirit and flesh.

Human judgement is based on emotions and/or logic.

Love is sited on emotions.

Now the thing about smart people like you is this, they want to logically define emotions
More like trying to look for the spirit in a human being, impossible.

Love covers a multitude of wrongdoings

Since a smart person can hardly fall in love based on my analysis above, then you only need to ask yourself a few questions to pull through with any suitor.

Can I live with the suitor.
Can i accept and tolerate the character, behavior, lifestyle, principles, etc of the suitor.
Is there anything about the suitor that i dislike.

As i end my submission let us remember this verse from the Holy Bible

Matthew 19:12
For there are eunuchs who were born that way from their mother’s womb, and there are eunuchs who were made eunuchs by men; and there are eunuchs who made themselves eunuchs for the Kingdom of Heaven’s sake. He who is able to receive it, let him receive it.”


Some are made by nature not to marry.
Some are made by witches and wizards not to marry.
Some have decided that because of the work of God, they will not marry, example Apostle Paul.

Jewessgratitud3:
■ You don't understand. A eunuch doesn't want/wish to get married, which is not the case with me.
■ Now I don't have feelings for this person but I've had feelings in the past for some of them that I ever dated but thier promiscuous lifestyle made me quit. So it's not like I don't know what it is to "love" or have feelings for someone. The attraction is not there.

Kobojunkie:
I am not trying to hold brief for the other one you responded to at all so do not mistake this attempt at a response as any such.

That is not true. Eunuchs have feelings and yearnings much like everyone else. Some of them even love, get married, and even have kids in some cases — adoption in other cases. Only others choose maybe to prioritize their peace of mind or happiness above having a partner or getting married and all this may not even be from the start.

2. Interesting! Have you considered completely resting from it all? According to that verse in Matthew, some are created Eunuchs from birth while others are made Eunuchs in this life.

Jewessgratitud3:
Are you weepnow?

Kobojunkie:
I am not trying to hold brief for the other one you responded to at all so do not mistake this attempt at a response as any such.

Kobojunkie:

Jewessgratitud3:
I don't understand

Jewessgratitud3:


Speak for yourself. I have young guys disturbing me for marriage and they are not public dogs like majority who just want to sleep with a woman. These ones are born again Christians doing well for themselves.

Please not every man is a randy goat. Stop thinking every guy is like you.

LalastiklaIa:


Hardmirror and in which church abi na shrine Una do the wedding.

weslay:
Humans were not designed to be alone. Through marriages we achieve both companionship and procreation.

Personally, I feel you are not matured enough for marriage. Because your idea about it is warped. Marriage and Raising a family is not self servicing. It's a duty you owe to humanity. It's living for something greater than you... Yes, it has its ups and downs. But that is not enough reason to relinquish your responsibility.

It's funny how you always reference the negative aspects of marriage as a valid reason to remain in your situation.

HardMirror:
since you are an idiot that thinks you need church to be married, I wonder how you are able to operate a smart phone. 3

LalastiklaIa:



E pain am. will you keep quiet. Any small thing body go don dey pepper am

All these atheist sef. I hope you married your type sha

HardMirror:
None of your excuses makes sense. sorry your life is this way. I am married anyway. none of the things you say applies to me or many men I know. I am not very rich but we lack nothing. I am not even feeling the heat of Nigeria. I cherish my wife. I believe a lot of men are like me and a lot of them are single. so sad this is how you see life