BolaAThubv:
She will be paid for taking care of her own children God of Abraham Isaac and Jacob!!!

Who got her pregnant in the first place?

Handsomejok:
I had done everything for the marriage to work but all my effort were in vain because my wife refused to amend which she had made it clear to me that after our first separation she did came back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children and I keep having reccuring dreams of her wanting me dead since she is not ready to work on the marriage and I had decided to put an end to the marriage for the sake of our children I will not send her packing neither will I take custody of the children I will let her and the children to stay in the rented house and I will move out of the house and I will be sending upkeep money 15k every month I hope I had made a good decision for my own sanity ?

All your actions were right but the 15k is for what exactly? Data, DSTV subscription or what

judatech:
You never talk why you dey run 😊

did you not read where he said he keeps having a recurrent dream of the wife wanting him dead??

Handsomejok:
I had done everything for the marriage to work but all my effort were in vain because my wife refused to amend which she had made it clear to me that after our first separation she did came back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children and I keep having reccuring dreams of her wanting me dead since she is not ready to work on the marriage and I had decided to put an end to the marriage for the sake of our children I will not send her packing neither will I take custody of the children I will let her and the children to stay in the rented house and I will move out of the house and I will be sending upkeep money 15k every month I hope I had made a good decision for my own sanity ?

15k is too small...Is it for garri or ewa

Zooposki:


Ok, give me a solution so the children don’t starve to death, cos 15k is nothing.

Truthfully, the options are to either help the man or woman get a good job or do a good business. The country is really tough, that's why I advise couples to have the number of children they can comfortably cater for. I wish the family well.

slimjohn2k5:
15k monthly?
For children, not child?
In this economy?
You are the problem in the marriage not ur wife.
You either increase the money or hustle more

A carton of Noodles, 120g is 8100. Should we talk of Milk and Milo for more than one child for a month?

And he says he drops 15k. For what exactly?
This is so funny eh...

slimjohn2k5:
15k monthly?
For children, not child?
In this economy?
You are the problem in the marriage not ur wife.
You either increase the money or hustle more

The woman dey forbid to work?

Skyview01:
15k monthly, for what!

do u knw how much he makes?
Let his wife hustle and add more money to d 15k

Small is understatement in this economy even if join one bag of rice every month is still very small, I would advise you up it to at least 50K

Handsomejok:



Yes for 3 children aside from the 15k I will also be paying their rent, school fees for 2 children one is my stepdaughter plus Nepa bills I don't think that 15k is small

Handsomejok:
I had done everything for the marriage to work but all my effort were in vain because my wife refused to amend which she had made it clear to me that after our first separation she did came back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children and I keep having reccuring dreams of her wanting me dead since she is not ready to work on the marriage and I had decided to put an end to the marriage for the sake of our children I will not send her packing neither will I take custody of the children I will let her and the children to stay in the rented house and I will move out of the house and I will be sending upkeep money 15k every month I hope I had made a good decision for my own sanity ?

15k monthly for buying the pure water they will be drinking every month or for what exactly?



Na wa oh, your wife really passed through a lot

stigman:


Did we hold lamp for him when he was mounting her, ask you yourself how much do I eat in a day then use that to calculate if 15k is enough for the kids, as a man you don't do it because of the mother but for the sake of the kids

Baba 15k is enough provided he'll pay every other bills, don't be an hypocrite here, the mother also has a responsibility to provide for her kids too, for the sake of her kids

Your choice, your decision but then you need to increase the monthly allowance.... The monthly allowance is for your children not her, and it includes feeding, schooling and clothing and general welfare. 15k can't be enough...

Again, never be far from your kids because women dey quick lose their brains when they fall in love o. If she sees another man she may get carried away and start neglecting your kids.... Your kids are yours.... same applies to you, men may forget their kids when they fall for another woman, and the woman diverts your attention away from your kids...

May God help you....

15k for buying of only gari for the Month abi?

wizod:
do u knw how much he makes?
Let his wife hustle and add more money to d 15k

Why would he marry and have kids with no good income?

Can you help me explain?

OSDD:


Baba 15k is enough provided he'll pay every other bills, don't be an hypocrite here, the mother also has a responsibility to provide for her kids too, for the sake of her kids

You are the hypocrite here who have failed to see that 15k is nothing presently

Handsomejok:



Yes for 3 children aside from the 15k I will also be paying their rent, school fees for 2 children one is my stepdaughter plus Nepa bills I don't think that 15k is small

ehen, nice one. E dey okay like that. I been think say na only that 15k, make I shout

Handsomejok:



For my children upkeep

How man children? Let's be frank, 15k won't be enough, not even for a single child let alone children.

judatech:
You never talk why you dey run 😊

LadyRosa:


You don't trust your own mom or siblings to take care of your kids?

Which kind family you grow up from?

Wahala

easzypeaszy:
If I fit see woman to gv belle n be givin her 70k monthly for upkeep.. I for like am.

Those kind of arrangements don't favor anyone

stigman:


You are the hypocrite here who have failed to see that 15k is nothing presently

If I'm to add the whole bills he's to pay, it's more than 15k, but that's the only amount you're seeing and keep shouting.

Whereas you didn't made any mention on what the mother should contribute.

If you don't see the health and welfare of those kids as a shared responsibility, there's no need to keep this conversation. It's like talking to a brick wall

Explained how God showed the dream?

Handsomejok:
I had done everything for the marriage to work but all my effort were in vain because my wife refused to amend which she had made it clear to me that after our first separation she did came back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children and I keep having reccuring dreams of her wanting me dead since she is not ready to work on the marriage and I had decided to put an end to the marriage for the sake of our children I will not send her packing neither will I take custody of the children I will let her and the children to stay in the rented house and I will move out of the house and I will be sending upkeep money 15k every month I hope I had made a good decision for my own sanity ?

So are you ending the marriage because of the dream, or are you having such dreams because you want to end the marriage?

Whatever you decide, 15k a month is damn too small for upkeep of children and their mother. Try and Do better.

Handsomejok:
I had done everything for the marriage to work but all my effort were in vain because my wife refused to amend which she had made it clear to me that after our first separation she did came back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children and I keep having reccuring dreams of her wanting me dead since she is not ready to work on the marriage and I had decided to put an end to the marriage for the sake of our children I will not send her packing neither will I take custody of the children I will let her and the children to stay in the rented house and I will move out of the house and I will be sending upkeep money 15k every month I hope I had made a good decision for my own sanity ?

15k a month? For how many people ? You must be joking

deltateam:


What did you do to her to resort to that level?

She wasn't like that in the beginning if not, you for no marry am.

women don't show all their characters wen u are dating them.

Offpointng:


How did you pull this without a fight

in my family our children don't sleep outside without their father's knowledge , dey will get sick.

15k in this regime? Not enough

15k a month. What a simpleton

Why does it feel like I've seen this kind of story before on here?

Stevenbright:


You would have clarify it in your main post. But still, if you have more, you can make it bigger than the 15K because things are expensive now.

Although, I know you are trying to make it tight to ensure she doesn't have extra to spend on herself.

can't the woman work again, if the kids becomes something tomorrow, isn't the mother their first choice of benevolence? Nonsense busybodi🙄

Handsomejok:
I had done everything for the marriage to work but all my effort were in vain because my wife refused to amend which she had made it clear to me that after our first separation she did came back to me because she had nowhere to stay with the children and I keep having reccuring dreams of her wanting me dead since she is not ready to work on the marriage and I had decided to put an end to the marriage for the sake of our children I will not send her packing neither will I take custody of the children I will let her and the children to stay in the rented house and I will move out of the house and I will be sending upkeep money 15k every month I hope I had made a good decision for my own sanity ?

Oga breathe in.....................and breathe out..............Then start from the beginning.Tell us the things she does to you but you dont like

slimjohn2k5:
15k monthly?
For children, not child?
In this economy?
You are the problem in the marriage not ur wife.
You either increase the money or hustle more

%100 wetin 15k fit do now. Please for the sake of the children do normal