With the way hearts are been stolen and broken, don't you think it will be ok to have a spare tyre?
give it a thought.

spell it out
spare gurl

Back ups would complicate the problem and lead you to trouble twice fast!

olanajim:

Back ups would complicate the problem and lead you to trouble twice fast!

the thought of a slippery slope comes to mind!

@olanajim
u have to go to school to learn it. Its not for crybabies

@ poster
I feel u, a backup is really needed with the way hearts are been grounded, destroyed and scattered. I can confidently say that because i have tried the two approaches.

When i was in school, (Final year) i used to to have one smallie (my backup) in 100L. That girl actually saved my relationship with my LOLO1 . Anytime the my Lolo starts her nagging, wahala or problem, instead of confroting her, i'ld just keep quiet and find my way to the loving and welcoming hands of my "smallie". She would give me all the loving and pampering that will make me happy and smiling all through the day and the next.When i go back to Lolo smiling, she will never know her rival was the reason behind the smiles. She will be deceiving herself, saying "u can't do without me,u'ld always come back"

After we left skool, and "smallie" was not within reach, the whole thing packed up in three months.

it complicate issues and leads to comparison of two totally different people.
i do not think it is fair but people do it.

@ poster,

did you mean a backup babe incase the main babe f**kup?

^{dem neva ring bell on your head b4 be that}

exigences

If everyone start having backup, the system would crumble completely.

On a serious note. I know the kind of relationship ill go into and ill need a backup.
Reasons- I just wanted to have a feel cos of ojukokoro
The gurl has got award winning records

On the other hand,If i am into a sound relationship and i know my gurl in and out, backups will be extra load and pure distractions. A good babe is always a handful, you will always be longing to be with her every second. Hence, backups will kill it.

nhhhh, this is , speechless.

there is a quote which state" strangers could stab u at the back, friends could stab u in the front, ur girl love or boy friend could stab u in the heart but true friends poke ur heart with a straw.

i guess u pick up ur broken heart if ur lover as ever hurt u, and move on wit life,

people do complain about breaking of heart, nhhhhhhhh u should be happy they didn't pierce the heart into two.

this is not a good idea

i repeat not a good idea ,

i concore! Hw u no go get backup?
Especially 4 d really vibrant relatnships, d backup actually keeps things going and makes u apprec8 ur lover even more!

But b careful nt 2 fall 2 deep 4 d backup oo!!

Ds lyf, u gota apply wisdom in evrythng!

nhhhhhhhh, Life is too short, use it in a positive way. dont think i support this back up of a thing.