jameschibuike:



It will only take God to give the husband the ability, grace and power to forgive that woman.
Do you know what it is to bring another man to your matrimonial bed and sleep with him.
She deliberately brought the man, slept with him, might have been slept with the man many time, broke marriage vow.
Like I said. It will only take the help of God for the husband to completely forgive her.

I will agree with you that it can only take the grace of God to forgive that and every other offence, and that's exactly what I mean when I said that that law is not meant for everyone, it's only meant for those that have that grace to forgive, but another reality is that those that forgive and THOSE that don't are not heading in the same direction

Dybala11:

Please which verse of the Bible states that people that got divorced due to the infidelity of their partners should not remarry??
Matthew 19 v 9 says otherwise o.

Matthew 19:9;says exactly that.
That verse says you can put away your wife on the ground of fornication but you have to remain unmarried because if you do Mary again you are fornication and that anyone who marries a divorced person is commiting adultery too, it didn't say that if you take back your spouse that you are commiting adultery, so you are encouraged to stay with your wife or stay unmarried, this is difficult and that is why Jesus said it's not for everyone.
You may read 1 cor. 7:10-15, see if you can make something out of that

Autobot05:


You made it seem like divorce was condemned in the Bible
There is nothing like forgiveness abeg when she give you HIV na him your eye go clear

Had an aunt who got married to a promiscuous husband
The man got hiv , infected his wife and 2 kids
They all died off … the last remaining child was a boy luckily he didn’t get the disease . He’s an orphan now simply because of this kain FORGIVENESS .

Yes, the bible condemned divorce when it said that ""God hates divorce""
I can understand if you are among THOSE who Jesus said that the law is not for them. God doesn't make mistakes, it's your choice to forgive or not, but the bible was talking to CHRISTIANS when he said you can divorce on ground of fornication if you want but that if you do, remain single, He wasn't talking to non Christians there

vikstandon:


If you divorce except on the ground of sexual immorality and marries another, you commit adultery.

Let's extrapolate;

If you divorce and remarry you commit adultery.

There is a hypothetical case in which you are excluded... That is on the ground of sexual immorality.

So if on the ground of sexual immorality, you remarry (as th one wronged)... You have not committed adultery.
Whosoever married the one who wronged the other, commits adultery with her.

The "ONLY" ground for divorce is fornication, you were trying to expatiate but you didn't expatiate fornication, you can't change this,
Fornication is fornication

mbaise1000:


The "ONLY" ground for divorce is fornication, you were trying to expatiate but you didn't expatiate fornication, you can't change this,
Fornication is fornication

Hmmm, please is fornication not sexual immorality?

Please don't argue for argument sake.
I don't understand what we are debating about.

vikstandon:



Hmmm, please is fornication not sexual immorality?

Please don't argue for argument sake.
I don't understand what we are debating about.

The statement I responded to said it's only "sexual immorality" he said he is expatiating, I was trying to ask him to expatiate completely and explain the other type of fornication

Jewessgratitud3:
This is one of the disadvantages of not practicing celibacy as a young girl or lady. It weakens your ability to exercise self-control in the future.
Sleeping around just looks normal until it lands you into an irredeemable situation.

Why would anyone want to still keep contacts with an ex or a male bestie after marriage? Especially when you know you lack self control...

You should just leave that home because you don't deserve a home but to be out there in the gutters where you can freely live your useless life as you wish.

Glorified married Hoe.

You are the only reasonable female I have seen so far on this forum. Always saying the truth unbiased at all times irrespective of your gender.

Your intrigue fascinates me.

Thumbs Up!! 👍👍👍

Kobojunkie:
Stop writing rubbish Abeg!

How did he say rubbish?

Eyinju112:


This post of yours sound all fake. I went to your profile to see if the poster is a joker then I saw your last post of how men dumped your motherfvcking ass. Piling everything up with this post left me wondering like how the FVCK was she single last week and married with kids this week possible. That was why I use the word you’re a joke. No offense meant.

You won’t understand what ego and pride is doing to you until you get to the age when you’ll be full of regrets. Tunde ednut posted a woman 4 days ago on IG who was begging to be married. Loneliness na your mate 🤣🤣🤣. Another post of yours said you can’t marry a broke man😂😂😂😂 at this point it takes only the grace of God to even see a broke man who’s gonna marry you.

At this point I’m done talking with you. I no fit advise old mama like you. Time go tell you😂😂😂😂

Chai u wicked 😄

You did this in his house? Some women are heartless.

I can never forgive her.

SAMBARRY:
yes but if the woman prays God can touch the hearts of the kids.as for the man she should just forget him because he can never love her again talkless of having sex with her and if she forces herself on him he can get violent with her so she should just focus her prayer on her kids

Or an alternative decision,go into a relationship with an entirely different man but file for a divorce first, after the divorce then she should go to another relationship (like live in lover) have kids with him and forget the kids she has with her former husband if all pleas fall on deaf ears.she should build another different FAMILY again,case closed

she no pray before she commit adultery abi?

Caseless:
she no pray before she commit adultery abi?

God is a God of 2nd chances.she fell and needs to get back up and move on and not condemn her to the ground forever

SAMBARRY:
God is a God of 2nd chances.she fell and needs to get back up and move on and not condemn her to the ground forever

forgiveness is good, but you can't forget this.

Caseless:
forgiveness is good, but you can't forget this.

true that's why I said if her husband and kids are not ready to accept her apology because really infidelity is a justifiable ground for divorce,she should divorce the husband and forget the kids and go and start a new family elsewhere

SAMBARRY:
true that's why I said if her husband and kids are not ready to accept her apology because really infidelity is a justifiable ground for divorce,she should divorce the husband and forget the kids and go and start a new family elsewhere

Forget the kids? Wow

Caseless:
Forget the kids? Wow

but her kids are not ready to accept, forgive and love her so what does she do? Become a doormat forever till shy dies of depression and her kids spit on her grave or cry crocodile tears of regret?


She needs to move on by starting a new family and have kids.im sure if the kids caught their dad fucking another woman, the rejection won't be this much.infact it's the mother that will be begging the kids to love and forgive their dad