All of the above

I'm not making money enough yet, even though I'm just growing in my career.

Do other girls consider this, or am I weird.

jeromestarks:
Which of the following is stoping you from getting married?

1. Lack of finance?

2. No serious suitor?

3. You're simply not interested in marriage?

4. Your parents want your elder sister to marry first? ( some tribes do this).

5. Your pastor/imam said this is not your year?

6. The person you love doesn't love you?

7. You are scared of the troubles that come with marriage?

8. You lover is in abroad and s/he wants you to wait?

9. You're passed marriageable age?

10. You think you're too young to get married?

Add yours

Seriously broke.
Coupled with the fact that I am a student.

Oya post evidence

Bmaster:
too handsome.
They don't believe I won't cheat

jeromestarks:

Again?
It's like the first question now will be "what's your genotype?"

After hello or hi the next talk should be what's your genotype lol 😂

Marynwachukwu21:
No serious suitor and they're looking for fairy use

come make we marry

magnoliaa lets get married

Who knows any short let hotel in Gwarimpa for quick bleep

Ballzproblem2:
magno liaa lets get married

Whatever happened to your fantasies about your mom's lips and what it could do?

Magnoliaa:


Whatever happened to your fantasies about your mom's lips and what it could do?

you are my mom that's why I call you Mami 😚

Ballzproblem2:
you are my mom that's why I call you Mami 😚

Ok

1 and 2

Magnoliaa:


Do have a nightmarish night too.

The next time you fornicate you will get HIV and Herpes.



This I have seen.

jeromestarks:


That thing serious

My brother that thing over serious oo, my girl no gree make i touch her say until we do the genotype test

dalass:


Have babies and live like a bachelor?

Kindly spare innocent babies your selfish self. Like where would you keep those babies? They are humans that deserve both parents.

If you don't want the hassles kuku hold off having babies.too many fatherless and motherless babies out there

Ok I feel your point, but my kids won't be fatherless, I'm there , their mother is there with them too, so there's nobody becoming fatherless or motherless. This whole idea of getting married is a scam, people no longer do that with genuine feelings, so what's the point of you venturing into a torment disguised as marriage? Everybody trying to deceive everybody they come across to. Come to ig or snap and you will shed tears, look at how our females are devaluing themselves all cus of Barbie girl trips bullshit, that's not what I want to put in my home as a wife and let my kids call her mother, nah I have standards, you can have fun doing rubbish and later want me to lower my standards for you, nah they won't do the same for me, so why will I do the same for them?
The love pool is bleeped

If men will be honest, it is because they don't have money, or just scared, due to the kind of society and women we have now.

If women will be honest, it is because the kind of men they think they deserve hasn't showed up yet, since women nowadays have a false sense of their value.

marlow1962:
I'm not interested cus I'm not ready for the bullshits that comes with it. And beside you hardly see a marriageable woman now, prostitution has taken over, even married women are not left out.
I just want to have babies and live my bachelor's life wholesomely.

Finding the marriageable woman is harder this days. I agree!

Nicepoker:
My 2 married friends complains about their wives too much. I don't want to end up like them.

Hahah this fear too. 90% of them complain about how miserable life has been for both, this applies to the men and women.

jeromestarks:

Hmmmm. You're the man! If you truly want to marry a lady, she will eventually bow to your request.
Forget the usual shakara, you can win any woman's heart. ANY WOMAN!

You just make up your mind and target a woman. Go for her. Be consistent. Be committed. She can't resist you. No woman can stand a determined man.

Oga give me thw tips.
I wan win my NYSC crush.
My whatsapp digit 07065039057.
Me and this girl have been chatting since july and i like her alot but i havent been able to tell her that.

godgrace777:
With all the things i dey see and hear from social media i no even sure i go marry in the next 10 to 15yrs coming self

jeromestarks:

You won't marry a jobless girl naaa.
Once she's jobless or possesses entitlement mentality, avoid her.

However, many girls are not jobless anymore. The serious ones have something doing too.

Again, you don't have excuse my child. You can marry. Do it!

Unfortunately a large percentage of ladies these days have these mentalities, they are bringing their body to the table and they are the table.

jeromestarks:

You can see that you're not ready to love.

Love looks st.upid but it is the greatest.

Imagine the sin we have committed in the sight of God but He still sent His son to die for us.

Even if you're not a Christian, you know that God loves you even with all the sins you have committed. Even when you go against His will, He still loves you.
You fornication, but He did not strike you down with thunder nor did he abandon you.
That is LOVE.

What has love got to do with a cheating spouse ? If it’s not working with one’s sanity na to comot na

Tranquility2345:


So what if she dies before you, before old age

bond is broken..u get another if u desire. Or u continue that phase alone.

Calitoscassius:
I have being married twice and divorced twice, all my fault apparently, because i kept sleeping around with other women while married, clearly marriage is not for me, now i am still single. I have 6 kids from 6 different women, i am fine and happy with that.

You playing right ?

Blitzking:

Marriage is not for everyone but its good to get married to the right person the benefits outweighs the risk if u av the right person.marriage I not for your youth the benefit is during old age..so u can have someone to spend that critical phase with..just that u can't marry when u are frail.

"The right person"... I've heard people make this statement a lot, but really who's the 'right person', we are all floored humans, time and situation changes people, the person who seems like the 'right person' today might become a torn in ur flesh tomorrow, there are a million and one reason that can make ur 'right person' become wrong, poverty alone can unleash the black side of a partner making u feel played in the end, the man I talked about (my neighbor) must've seen his wife as the 'right person' before marrying her, it's a thin line between love and resentment. That statement "the right person" just doesn't sit right with me.

Only number 1😭

Tranquility2345:
You must be a poor man for her to talk that kind thing…

Abi?

Well sha, you might be right o

I am very very poor in spirit.

And like Christ said, na we go inherit the kingdom of God !

iammolise:


"The right person"... I've heard people make this statement a lot, but really who's the 'right person', we are all floored humans, time and situation changes people, the person who seems like the 'right person' today might become a torn in ur flesh tomorrow, there are a million and one reason that can make ur 'right person' become wrong, poverty alone can unleash the black side of a partner making u feel played in the end, the man I talked about (my neighbor) must've seen his wife as the 'right person' before marrying her, it's a thin line between love and resentment. That statement "the right person" just doesn't sit right with me.

so many wrong conception ppl have before getting married ...I can't marry so so and so...he must have this or that.. never promise a bright future that u are not certain will even materialise.. tease your spouse with the worst case scenario and hear what comes out of their mouth study them deeply and not just wat they say see if they can adapt to the life changes.

godgrace777:
God created both of us right? If she expects me to keep up with all her bullsh*t just because i want her to love me,that would be so foolish of me to do cause i no be god,the suffer wey he suffer for both of us don do so why will i take such things from a lady in the name of love?? Boss na god get strength to take such not me..... I believe in true love but no be like this haba.....

Sense no go kill you

They are saying my Gbola is too big

Bmaster:
too handsome.
They don't believe I won't cheat

This cheating thing is a conundrum. The ugliest man can cheat if he has the wherewithal.

1. Lack of finance

jeromestarks:
Which of the following is stoping you from getting married?

1. Lack of finance?

2. No serious suitor?

3. You're simply not interested in marriage?

4. Your parents want your elder sister to marry first? ( some tribes do this).

5. Your pastor/imam said this is not your year?

6. The person you love doesn't love you?

7. You are scared of the troubles that come with marriage?

8. You lover is in abroad and s/he wants you to wait?

9. You're passed marriageable age?

10. You think you're too young to get married?

Add yours