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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Cheeky007: 1:06pm On Nov 26, 2023
Matinox:
This evening I took a reflection on what my wife has gone through in our small marital journey, my heart swirled up with gratitude, I felt like to call my mum and tell her thank you again.

Women are built different!

I just had a baby, I was in the labour room and boy o boy!
The female body is a work of art!

I considered the pains they go through...
My wife for instance, after marriage, sex was a huge desert to cross, it was her first time, she would cry countless times, by the time we crossed that hurdle, she took in, pregnancy came with its own shenanigans!

This thread isn't about my wife, but to all honest women out there, God bless your efforts.

First sex - Pain
Pregnant - Pain
Delivery - Pain
First Breast feeding - Intense pain
Resume sex after child birth - Pain
Wean your baby - Pain

Life for you all is like an art gallery, you all fit into many descriptions. God bless you all.

My mum & wife inclusive!



You forgot to add 'to menstruate - pain and intense pain for some.
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by occfx: 1:07pm On Nov 26, 2023
BlackhatMentor:
But they'll never accept to be a man for a day.


Being a woman comes with its on pros and cons same as being a man.


The daily entitlements they get should compensate them.... And Yes females do enjoy sex a lot and big dickk giving them pains is a myth


They'd say they're in pains but will never ever settle for small dickkk



Have you seen those women on porn sites literally going to sex stores, looking for biggest dildos possibly to insert in the puzzzy



What a gender

It's called PAINFUN
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by mariahAngel(f): 1:08pm On Nov 26, 2023
tollyboy5:

God bless you brother.
AS if taking responsibility as a man was an easy thing to do also. That's a female responsibility, we shouldn't be over celebrating that.

Why does celebrating women make you uncomfortable/insecure?
Are you afraid women will know what they already know, but just don't say?

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by preciousMI1(f): 1:10pm On Nov 26, 2023
Development of breast-pain
Menopause pain
When we were eating apple, we didn't know
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Matinox: 1:10pm On Nov 26, 2023
mariahAngel:


Why does celebrating women make you uncomfortable/insecure?
Are you afraid women will know what they already know, but just don't say?

People who talk like him mostly grow up in dysfunctional homes

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by mariahAngel(f): 1:11pm On Nov 26, 2023
femi4:
Same here
Erection : pain

Then what?
Do you bear it 5-7 days straight, every month? 🙄

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by tollyboy5(m): 1:15pm On Nov 26, 2023
mariahAngel:


Why does celebrating women make you uncomfortable/insecure?
Are you afraid women will know what they already know, but just don't say?
The OP in love is just massaging unnecessary Ego. Some ladies give birth to 10 children.
Women generally tend to have more body count than men so whats the pain?
Oh! you mean the pain they love to enjoy? undecided

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by mariahAngel(f): 1:16pm On Nov 26, 2023
Matinox:


People who talk like him mostly grow up in dysfunctional homes

The truth is most of them (on this forum) hate to see a man who loves and appreciates his wife.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Matinox: 1:17pm On Nov 26, 2023
preciousMI1:
Development of breast-pain
Menopause pain
When we were eating apple, we didn't know

Walahi I did not know this!
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Matinox: 1:18pm On Nov 26, 2023
tollyboy5:

The OP in love is just massaging unnecessary Ego. Some ladies give birth to 10 children.
Women generally tend to have more body count than men so whats the pain?
Oh! you mean the pain they love to enjoy? undecided

Women Does that include your mum and sister?

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by tollyboy5(m): 1:20pm On Nov 26, 2023
Matinox:


Women Does that include your mum and sister?
I don't get what you're insinuating on?
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Maj196(m): 1:20pm On Nov 26, 2023
Yes, I respect women alot. How can someone multitask so well in most facets of life.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Offpoint1: 1:20pm On Nov 26, 2023
Matinox:


My wife was so sad when she saw her monthly visitor just one month after delivery.

Friends had told her she's likely not to see it till she's done breastfeeding
Just after a month? That's like 1 in 500 million.
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Matinox: 1:26pm On Nov 26, 2023
Offpoint1:

Just after a month? That's like 1 in 500 million.

Omoh! shocked
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Berankis: 1:26pm On Nov 26, 2023
Matinox:
This evening I took a reflection on what my wife has gone through in our small marital journey, my heart swirled up with gratitude, I felt like to call my mum and tell her thank you again.

Women are built different!

I just had a baby, I was in the labour room and boy o boy!
The female body is a work of art!

I considered the pains they go through...
My wife for instance, after marriage, sex was a huge desert to cross, it was her first time, she would cry countless times, by the time we crossed that hurdle, she took in, pregnancy came with its own shenanigans!

This thread isn't about my wife, but to all honest women out there, God bless your efforts.

First sex - Pain
Pregnant - Pain
Delivery - Pain
First Breast feeding - Intense pain
Resume sex after child birth - Pain
Wean your baby - Pain

Life for you all is like an art gallery, you all fit into many descriptions. God bless you all.

My mum & wife inclusive!
Yeah! We give it to them. A lot of them make life worth living. But with the exception of few ones that make life the opposite.
Life of a man too is never painless! Mentally, physically and otherwise.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Matinox: 1:28pm On Nov 26, 2023
tollyboy5:

I don't get what you're insinuating on?

Dey play
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Matinox: 1:31pm On Nov 26, 2023
Berankis:

Yeah! We give it to them. A lot of them make life worth living. But with the exception of few ones that make life the opposite.
Life of a man too is never painless! Mentally, physically and otherwise.

May we never cross paths with those in the 'exception'

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Offpoint1: 1:32pm On Nov 26, 2023
Matinox:


Omoh! shocked
It's rare, unless she's not doing exclusive breastfeeding, then it's normal.
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by flokii: 1:40pm On Nov 26, 2023
Men still go through a lot.. appreciate your gender likewise.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Lovelydaisies: 1:48pm On Nov 26, 2023
Matinox:


I can relate.
At some point blood was dripping from mine's nipples

Chai! Thank God she's better. You might try using the breast pump method if the issue resurfaces in your incoming kids. That's unless you are done anyway.
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by GentuLion: 1:49pm On Nov 26, 2023
Matinox:
This evening I took a reflection on what my wife has gone through in our small marital journey, my heart swirled up with gratitude, I felt like to call my mum and tell her thank you again.

Women are built different!

I just had a baby, I was in the labour room and boy o boy!
The female body is a work of art!

I considered the pains they go through...
My wife for instance, after marriage, sex was a huge desert to cross, it was her first time, she would cry countless times, by the time we crossed that hurdle, she took in, pregnancy came with its own shenanigans!

This thread isn't about my wife, but to all honest women out there, God bless your efforts.

First sex - Pain
Pregnant - Pain
Delivery - Pain
First Breast feeding - Intense pain
Resume sex after child birth - Pain
Wean your baby - Pain

Life for you all is like an art gallery, you all fit into many descriptions. God bless you all.

My mum & wife inclusive!

I can relate a thousand and one percent!!

My wife took in eighteen months after we had our first baby through C.S. even though we did family planning plus withdrawal method all through the period!

We managed the situation till 7 months into the pregnancy she had a premature labor because she had a fall with the pregnancy!

Long story short, she had another C S. in less than 2 years after the first one!
My brother I shed tears tire as I almost lost my wife.

Fast forward, about a week later we had to leave the hospital because bills were pilling up (P.S. I had no job at the time because I lost my job 3 months ago). My wife insisted that we go home to avoid incurring more that as we already have a bill of over million hanger on our necks bacause the baby needed to be incubated and no money to pay!!

When we left the hospital, my wife had to resume her food business (remember this is just a week after CS ooh) so we can pay the hospital bills while I was at home doing omugwo!!! No Mother, no mother in law no relative, just me, my wife and kids!!!

My brother all these and many more trials in less than 3 years of marriage and my wife never made me feel less of man! I am forever indebted to this woman, if I ever leave or cheat on her make I die like fowl!!....Iseeh...She is the reason why we are still married today because I would have given up on the marriage if not for her strength!!

P.S.: All these happened between January and April this year!!!!

To God be the glory because I just got a job less than a month ago since January.

Wanted to open a thread just as you did but couldn't.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by We4all: 1:50pm On Nov 26, 2023
Child bearing for ungrateful men should be abolished. I have seen women give birth today and their stupid husbands wanted them to resume their bedroom and home chores almost immediately.

When some men say marriages benefit women more than men, I just shake my head. To my greatest knowledge, a pregnant woman is at risk of losing her life and should be worshiped.

This is why even if DNA proves you ain't your children's biological dad, just manage it like that because the woman risked her stupid life to bear you kids.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Matinox: 1:51pm On Nov 26, 2023
GentuLion:


I can relate a thousand and one percent!!

My wife took in eighteen months after we had our first baby through C.S. even though we did family planning plus withdrawal method all through the period!

We managed the situation till 7 months into the pregnancy she had a premature labor because she had a fall with the pregnancy!

Long story short, she had another C S. in less than 2 years after the first one!
My brother I shed tears tire as I almost lost my wife.

Fats forward, about a week later we had to leave the hospital because bills were pilling up (P.S. I had no job at the time because I lost my job 3 months ago). My wife insistee that we go home.
Meanwhile, baby was already in the incubator and no money to pay!!

When we left the hospital, my wife had to resume ger food business (remember this is just a week after CS ooh) so we can pay the hospital bills while I was at home doing omugwo!!! No Mother, no mother in law no relative, just me, my wife and kids!!!

My brother I am forever indebted to this woman, if I ever leave or cheat on her make I die like fowl!!....Iseeh

P.S.: All these happened between January and April this year!!!!

To God be the glory because I just got a job less than a month ago since January.

Wanted to open a thread just as you did but couldn't.

God bless your heart sir. May life continue to turn out better for you both.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Matinox: 1:53pm On Nov 26, 2023
We4all:
Child bearing for ungrateful men should be abolished. I have seen women give birth today and their stupid husbands wanted them to resume their bedroom and home chores almost immediately.

When some men say marriages benefit women more than men, I just shake my head. To my greatest knowledge, a pregnant woman is at risk of losing her life and should be worshiped.

This is why even if DNA proves you ain't your children's biological dad, just manage it like that because the woman risked her stupid life to bear you kids.

This your talk no follow at all.

Thrash

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by ayodeji84: 1:56pm On Nov 26, 2023
Upon the whole thing, some of these guys will still end up beating thier wives. Animals in human skin.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Atolu01: 1:58pm On Nov 26, 2023
Including having to continually deal with the insensitive, callous, incredibly self-centered, egotistic, destructive, psychopathic gender.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Ladymillion(f): 2:00pm On Nov 26, 2023
Matinox:


My wife was so sad when she saw her monthly visitor just one month after delivery.

Friends had told her she's likely not to see it till she's done breastfeeding
wow, varies, mine resumed after 2years, I actually breast feed for 2years which serves as natural contraceptive,

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by We4all: 2:02pm On Nov 26, 2023
Matinox:


This your talk no follow at all.

Thrash

Ha...ha...ha...I said what I said! Some one's trash is another man's treasure. I hope you ain't one of those that demand for sex from their wives just after one week of child birth?
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by GentuLion: 2:03pm On Nov 26, 2023
Matinox:


God bless your heart sir. May life continue to turn out better for you both.

Amen and you too....thanks Bro
Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by 4KNGOATS(m): 2:07pm On Nov 26, 2023
Matinox:


No sir. Don't single out your sister now. Be honourable and own your words. You generalized it in your earlier statement, so it includes your mother and your sister.

Degenerated fool under the guise of a red piller.

Ozwo!
Spits lipsrsealed
This useless ignorant and very rude boy deserves to be wipe in the ass

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by Chiuzk: 2:12pm On Nov 26, 2023
My monthly flow restored also a month after having my children. God will help her, thank you for appreciating reasonable women.

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Re: My Wife: Why Is The Life of Women So Complicated? by SweetDipBenny(m): 2:15pm On Nov 26, 2023
Una wahala too much smiley

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