guobe:

Ah that girl go get straight gonorrhoea lol

NoahHadNoArk:

You sick!!!

For you to make this comment means this is what you and pop practice at home, e no get Wetin u go tell me.


Keep it up.


Some people really need their heads checked for real

YoungDaNaval:
Dey play. I don carry girl for 25k for warri she still gimme gonorrhoea. Nowhere is safe my brother

YoungDaNaval:
lmfao I don tire for nairaland 😂

emmaodet:


Sup bro
Longest time.
How is your end?

blowjohn:
Better stick to the rugged gold circle condom that's still like 250 or so.


No let oyibo wine u with Durex O.

guobe:

Gold circle that will burst when you are about wearing it when action has not even started yet.

Geovanni412:


For a married man, he can still toast normal girls and take them to his house or office and do the same thing when his wife isn't around

Many married men do their house helps and work secretaries also

There is also the option of going to a hotel with a girl he is toasting that is not a runs girl

The first two options are still relatively cheap - op's economics does not align with the reality on ground.

You're making the assumption that many married men are classy, but that is not the case.

okudaniel:
Must you buy a pack

baralatie:
All of you guys shouting gold circle
You don't experience tear or failing?🤔

Billionairly:


The one thing I miss about being in nigeria is endless availability of High Value extremely cheap sex. Since i like to see what I am about to consume I dont go for girls online, neither do I go to LovePeddler houses where truck drivers go to and the girls are counting 30 plus men a day each. I dont use my drivers to go the club, I take taxi thats usually about 50 euros, entry fee to the club 25 euros, buy drink for myself 10 euros, drink for olosho 20 euros. They are usually big wasted south Americans, I negotiate their rate to down to 250 per night, or pay 400 to go with her and bestie. The cheapest hotel in my city at counter is about 170 euros, condoms drinks breakfast additional 70 euros, Taxi to go back home another 50, That is almost 700 euros for a simple night. The same scenario when Im in south Asia normally cost me about 170 euros.

The last babe I knacked when last I was in abuja, she asked for 60k , She wasnt even a prostitute sef, hotel was a very beautiful hotel for 27000. when the girl was leaving I gave her 30k additional as transport We couldnt finish the large size of bbq fish and potato saladand drinks i ordered for 12000. U guys in Nigeria are in cheap toto heaven.

My toto night out normally costs me over 1 million naira for the same thing I pay for 120k to get in Abuja.

Ny

YoungDaNaval:
Plus it doesn't have a good flavour like it's counterpart. Gold circle is wack abeg. Why would a guy be using gold circle in this era?

tochez24:


Women are not that hard to have sex with♂️

Once you shower a girl you like with care, attention and a little token here and there for food, body cream and the rest.

You will be amazed on how she will be relaxed and very comfortable with you!!!! Once a girl become comfortable with you as a guy, you can do nasty things with her you know without even dating or spending much on her.

It's only sugar daddies that don't have that time that are probably spending 50k to knack a girl🙄

guobe:

Totally Outdated but last last better than going raw

YoungDaNaval:
Oga a reasonable married man will never have anything to do with housemaid oh! It must cast. You even suggested a married man should bring babe to his matrimonial home when wife is away? Who does that? Both options are too risky abeg. The best bet is to have mistress outside and either do hotel with her or rent an apartment for her. Infact as a married man, cheating is just too expensive

BeverIyjean:
na guy man like you dey follow you chat.
I smell scam

Numerouno94:


U re hungry and frustration is written all over ur comments. Seems ur Ghana and Nigeria currency transfer as a middle man is not paying u well. Send me ur account details lemme send u something to buy gud food 2night.

tochez24:


Women are not that hard to have sex with♂️

Once you shower a girl you like with care, attention and a little token here and there for food, body cream and the rest.

You will be amazed on how she will be relaxed and very comfortable with you!!!! Once a girl become comfortable with you as a guy, you can do nasty things with her you know without even dating or spending much on her.

It's only sugar daddies that don't have that time that are probably spending 50k to knack a girl🙄

guobe:
As I went to buy paracetamol at the chemist which cost two hundred naira,my attention was caught by the price of condom and I could not hesitate but snap it.

Condoms are now being sold at 2500, 5000 and 7000 naira a pack.

I was like alot of guys will go raw if they are not able to afford it.

Having sex in Nigeria is now very expensive especially for promisquos men.
The breakdown of expenses include condom 3,000,hotel 20,000,olosho fee 50,000,food and drinks 10,000 naira.Total 93,000 naira .
Promisquos men will learn and they will learn the hard way.

Billionairly:


The one thing I miss about being in nigeria is endless availability of High Value extremely cheap sex. Since i like to see what I am about to consume I dont go for girls online, neither do I go to LovePeddler houses where truck drivers go to and the girls are counting 30 plus men a day each. I dont use my drivers to go the club, I take taxi thats usually about 50 euros, entry fee to the club 25 euros, buy drink for myself 10 euros, drink for olosho 20 euros. They are usually big wasted south Americans, I negotiate their rate to down to 250 per night, or pay 400 to go with her and bestie. The cheapest hotel in my city at counter is about 170 euros, condoms drinks breakfast additional 70 euros, Taxi to go back home another 50, That is almost 700 euros for a simple night. The same scenario when Im in south Asia normally cost me about 170 euros.

The last babe I knacked when last I was in abuja, she asked for 60k , She wasnt even a prostitute sef, hotel was a very beautiful hotel for 27000. when the girl was leaving I gave her 30k additional as transport We couldnt finish the large size of bbq fish and potato saladand drinks i ordered for 12000. U guys in Nigeria are in cheap toto heaven.

My toto night out normally costs me over 1 million naira for the same thing I pay for 120k to get in Abuja.

Ny

Okoroawusa:

Hahahaha! It doesn't work like that bro

YoungDaNaval:
Dey play. I don carry girl for 25k for warri she still gimme gonorrhoea. Nowhere is safe my brother

guobe:
As I went to buy paracetamol at the chemist which cost two hundred naira,my attention was caught by the price of condom and I could not hesitate but snap it.

Condoms are now being sold at 2500, 5000 and 7000 naira a pack.

I was like alot of guys will go raw if they are not able to afford it.

Having sex in Nigeria is now very expensive especially for promisquos men.
The breakdown of expenses include condom 3,000,hotel 20,000,olosho fee 50,000,food and drinks 10,000 naira.Total 93,000 naira .
Promisquos men will learn and they will learn the hard way.

Cromagnon:
Wey gold circle
You go dey do longer throat go dey buy imported designer condom come dey cry crocodile tears

tochez24:


Women are not that hard to have sex with♂️

Once you shower a girl you like with care, attention and a little token here and there for food, body cream and the rest.

You will be amazed on how she will be relaxed and very comfortable with you!!!! Once a girl become comfortable with you as a guy, you can do nasty things with her you know without even dating or spending much on her.

It's only sugar daddies that don't have that time that are probably spending 50k to knack a girl🙄

OvertheTop:


. That Deep Path Seems to be a Dangerous Terrain.

Gerrard59:


Baba is a Yoruba term to describe an elderly man. As I am not yet elderly, bros is preferable. Bros colloquially bro is used for young men in Nigeria. It also depends on how old you are (since you are referring to me).

Nevertheless, I appreciate the compliments.

In crude analysis, there are three layers of hotels/motels/guesthouses/inns in Nigeria. Location matters in how a hospitality outfit might be perceived. Using Lagos, a guesthouse in the heart of Akin Adesola, Victoria Island, would be considered classier than a hotel in Ojo/Okokomaiko. The patrons at that guesthouse would never want to find themselves at the hotel in Ojo, regardless of the nomenclature.

First layer: Standard hotel that relys on corporate guests, business travellers, tourists, diplomats visiting that area. Again, using Lagos for easy understanding: this includes the likes of Eko Hotel and Suites, LegendCurion, Marriot etc.

Second layer: the good hotels, which accept everyone provided the person can pay. These are scattered across every nook and cranny.

Third layer: the ones who serve midnight travellers. These are more of guesthouses and inns.

There are many classifications beneath what I have outlined. So, it is dependent on many factors.

Now, to your question: Hospitality outfits within the second and third layers can work with such ladies. But not the first. However, what escorts with voluptuous body sizes, beautiful faces, succulent breasts, yummy faces and legs coupled with charisma do is to lodge in hospitality outfits in the first layer to scout for customers. Obviously, because she lodges at LegendCurion, her patrons would be moneybags. This is called market positioning.

To compete in the sex market, one needs to be proactive, spend money to make more money and offer dazzling sexual services (cum-in-mouth, cum-on-body, cum-on-face, anal rimming etc). This model works across all, but does not make say a hospitality in the third layer to be termed a brothel. That term is specifically meant for a place where men go to seek women to fvck there. A brothel does not cater to travellers or students going into a city to write an exam.

Additionally, if I am to wager, I would say 50% of hospitality outfits (lounges, clubs, recreational areas, hotels, guesthouses etc) would shut down if Nigerian men become faithful or celibate. While 75% of restaurants would close shop if the same thing happened. The reality is that a lot of hotels (used here to describe a place where people lodge regardless of class) depend on the sexual relationship between the Nigerian man and his woman. Because Nigerian men term themselves to be polygamous, they have given themselves the right to fvck at will. It is why when people lampoon these sexual escorts, I am annoyed because I have come across MANY MEN who would do anything just to fvck. They cut across many industries: politics, academia, business, trading, corporate etc.

Yes. In reality, any hotel can thrive by not pandering to prostitutes. Literally any. My parent, especially my mom, never liked the aspect of girls lodging whereas our competitors cherished it. That decision, though, sieved our clientele base as more refined men preferred our outfits because they were quieter, cleaner and more private. So yes, a hotel can survive without such.

The snag is that as a hotel, you cannot know what a man and woman, and sometimes man and man, are doing in the hotel room. The ones who do so are religious hotels (largely owned by religious bodies and prudish people) - they explicitly state that they don't accept boyfriends and girlfriends regardless of their ages. However, they rarely receive lodgers. Still, when they do, their lodgers tend to be religious clerics or standard lodgers regardless of gender, provided the lodger agrees not to bring someone of the opposite sex into the premises. How they can fight the growing tide of homosexuals is yet to be seen.

The demand for sexual escorts is constant. It never will plummet, regardless of the economic situation in Nigeria. In fact, the prices escorts charge would further plunge as the economy bites harder in Nigeria especially outside those locations I mentioned in my first post. This makes sex cheaper. As I said, there is a new 18-year-old girl every day in the country. I already explained everything here: https://www.nairaland.com/7684230/how-reduce-hook-ups-nigeria

Man's urge for sex is biological and eternal. It is a given.

The price of condom would not hinder or reduce its demand. However, poorer men might want to take the risks, which is ill-advised as the STI risks outweigh the ephemeral joy derived. My fear about the price surge in condoms lies more with married couples who use it as a contraceptive. Just like STI, the costs involved in raising a child one did not plan is something I would not wish on my enemy. Raising children is expensive. To such couples, I strongly recommend vasectomy or a more medical option for the woman, which has fewer side effects. Another fear is with teens and growing adults who want to experiment with sex. Because it is more expensive, ignorance coupled with youthful exuberance might compel them to do Nigga Raw (a one-time popular Nigerian musician), but the risks of an unplanned pregnancy does more harm than good to both parties, especially the female.



Managing my parents' hotels exposed me to how Nigerians see sex. I mingled with many people strictly on the basis of sex. I have negotiated with escorts in the middle of the night. I have referred escorts to customers and vice versa. I have coached and even done a simple math analysis for customers who bemoan how much they have spent but derived minimal joy. I have also assisted escorts to hide from wild customers who want to inflict harm because they have spent a lot. I have worked with pastors who headed big churches, and laughed and joked with senior civil servants and business people. I recalled when I entered a taxi to the city centre and saw the poster of a customer on his dashboard. I asked the driver who the man was, and he replied, "He is my pastor. He is a strong man of God. He is very powerful." Meanwhile, that man checked out very early from one of our hotels. I smiled afterwards.

I do intend to write a detailed article on the A - Z of sex in Nigeria and publish it on my website. But first, I fund research to answer certain hard questions Nigerians from all walks have about sex.

Don't let anyone lie to you; Nigerian men love sex, and they love it so much.
 

planetx:
When I tell people here that 90% of Nigerian men married or single living abroad and flying into Lagos and Abuja on those British, Klm, Lufthansa, United and Delta flights are coming primarily for sex, and every other thing is secondary.

Kipaji:


Thank you very much. So, how would you say "bro", "man", or something like that in a local language?

Wow, never thought about this. I knew that many women go to luxury places in the hope of being targeted by rich men, but I never thought about this dynamic for prostitutes in hotels.

Yes, the sex market is becoming harsher for prostitutes with free porn, several online prostitution platforms (instagram, onlyfans, whatsapp, escort websites, ...), the increasing number of real-life prostitute alternatives (oloshos, students, "girlfriends", and the high levels of promiscuity.

Is there a significant amount of homosexuals in Nigeria? Is it more gays or lesbians?
How is the growing tide received by the population? What are some key reasons of this growing number of homosexuals?

Thank you Gerrard for your insights and perspective. What is your website?