Even if he had not had sex physically, no young man should be termed a virgin.
Reason:
Once a boy attains puberty age, he starts producing sperm and he could be overwhelmed in erotic dreams where nature could expel the over-saturated sperm from his body. This is an evidence that he has indulged himself sexually.
For a lady, virginity is when the hymen in her virgina is not yet broken. But some virgins engage in anal sex though.
Now tell me why any young man can be termed a virgin.

So am no more a virgin without being dig my rod into the well

Define virginity.

Do it to confirm your childishness.

No need to argue with you. Just do us this favor, go to all these dictionaries and make formal amendment on the word "virgin".