Does she needs to say it? That If she is disturbing me with calls and messages?


I have so many things going on right now and couple with the fact i am not feeling fine. Just yesterday another girl messaged me that she will be coming to my house that yesterday but I didn’t reply. She later called me in the afternoon but I didn’t pick. It was in the night when she called again that i pick, she told me she is busy lately and only had chance on weekends. And the reasons she wanted to come to my place that yesterday. But I told her i wasn’t feeling fine and she even vex or too reason am.

I am just weary of alot of girls in my dm as xmas in approaching so i’m just avoiding billings this period. Majority of them will have one problem from the other with bills this period. Xmas in around the corners as them say “don’t date Nigerian girls during xmas”

Now back to the girl in the topic. This girl always messages me morning and night. And sometimes do called me. It’s not that I don’t like her but I don’t prioritize girls in my life as i face what i want in life as my style of life. I’m not a lover boy. So sometimes i take longer to respond to her not because I choose to but maybe i was busy at the time. She is good in initiating a chat and very few girls will do that. But she sent me a message that I should tell her the truth if she is disturbing me with chats and calls.

I was like why she ask that kind of question? She said she need to know the truth.

What kind of response would she expect from me because the question is irrelevant.

She like me more than i like her
She wanted a relationship with me more than i do. So there is a price to pay for it. If you know what you want you have go for it and avoid negativity.

So what should we do with this information, you already know the answer so why disturb us by creating this useless thread

Judging from what you wrote here op that girl Is still a kid experiencing the feeling of love for the first time, it's not her fault.

Weather xmas is tommorrow or next week, person wey I go give money na him I go still give. If I ain't gonna give you money, no juju can make me give uou.

Better be careful with that girl, I smell bills everywhere because girls have almost same mindset and that's milking a man of his money in pretence of relationship. Just 5% genuine ones in Nigeria and it reduces to 2% in Nairaland. Don't let any love shit deceive u at all and if u must spend, make sure u don't lose guard the coochie x10

She's securing her position for Xmas billing.

Know this and know peace.

Gboy101:
Does she needs to say it? That If she is disturbing me with calls and messages?


I have so many things going on right now and couple with the fact i am not feeling fine. Just yesterday another girl messaged me that she will be coming to my house that yesterday but I didn’t reply. She later called me in the afternoon but I didn’t pick. It was in the night when she called again that i pick, she told me she is busy lately and only had chance on weekends. And the reasons she wanted to come to my place that yesterday. But I told her i wasn’t feeling fine and she even vex or too reason am.

I am just weary of alot of girls in my dm as xmas in approaching so i’m just avoiding billings this period. Majority of them will have one problem from the other with bills this period. Xmas in around the corners as them say “don’t date Nigerian girls during xmas”

Now back to the girl in the topic. This girl always messages me morning and night. And sometimes do called me. It’s not that I don’t like her but I don’t prioritize girls in my life as i face what i want in life as my style of life. I’m not a lover boy. So sometimes i take longer to respond to her not because I choose to but maybe i was busy at the time. She is good in initiating a chat and very few girls will do that. But she sent me a message that I should tell her the truth if she is disturbing me with chats and calls.

I was like why she ask that kind of question? She said she need to know the truth.

What kind of response would she expect from me because the question is irrelevant.

She like me more than i like her
She wanted a relationship with me more than i do. So there is a price to pay for it. If you know what you want you have go for it and avoid negativity.

She feels rejected. The fact you don't reciprocate really hurts her. My advice to you is to try to be nice to her too cos girls like that are hard to find now.

Don't take her too serious because she'll soon leave you, i was been asked such few months ago

Soon she will start asking for help. Tell her that reverse psychology can't work on you.