VeeVeeMyLuv:

This is a security threat to OP life & property and the idiots here are telling him to mind his business! ?🙀😡

Foolish boy, I'm waiting for you to jointly contribute with OP to assist criminal girl pls.


If u don't contact op to assist u re nothing but rag.

Foolish people that write without smell gutter they wrote.

stuffs4me:



SHAARRAP DIA!!!

You think say na only you wise. You dey use corner eye look the girl and the thing dey pepper you say na those low lives she dey roll with.

Foodqueen don tell you the truth. Mind your business before dem naked you for that compound.

some of una no just get s**ce.

Poverty have reduced parental responsibilities to zero.
I have seen a mother's encouraging herldaughters to dress skimpy in order to catch yahoo boys.
Na hunger dey worry her brain, if u can help her please do.
Most parents now depend on their children for food regardless of how they provide those things

Fiscus105:




Foolish boy, I'm waiting for you to jointly contribute with OP to assist criminal girl pls.


If u don't contact op to assist u re nothing but rag.

Foolish people that write without smell gutter they wrote.

Pay wetin?

Op should and will not pay a dime.

If it's me even 1k dem no go see. I will not pay a dime. Then enter ghost mode.

Rich4god:
Continued....

One Saturday, me and another neighbour just came out from our compound, only to be hearing shout from those boys that "we can't do them anything, that we don't have the right to tell them not to stand at the front of our gate, that if we do anyhow, we go see anyhow". We just neglected them and went away.
Later on, I learnt that our caretaker warned the mother to tell her daughter not to be standing at the front of the compound with those guys. So obviously, the girl went and told the guys about it that's why they were raking.

On the on Friday, 22 Dec, I came back home to hear the news that the girl have been arrested in connection to a stolen item and even though the item have been found, it was found in a bad state and the owner is insisting that they pay him for damages before he can withdraw his case. Police are saying that they can only release the girl if we pay the owner the money his requesting for,as the boys claimed the item spoilt at the girls hand, but for the boys, they will be charged for breaking into someone's residence to steal an item.

Now the mother have been begging us to help her raise money to pay the owner of the item as she doesn't have enough. But our caretaker is saying that none of us should donate a penny to her.

I just feel as though we should help her, but all the other neighbours are buying the idea of the caretaker that we should stay out of the case.

it seems you have penchant for the girl in question

Rich4god:
Continued....

One Saturday, me and another neighbour just came out from our compound, only to be hearing shout from those boys that "we can't do them anything, that we don't have the right to tell them not to stand at the front of our gate, that if we do anyhow, we go see anyhow". We just neglected them and went away.
Later on, I learnt that our caretaker warned the mother to tell her daughter not to be standing at the front of the compound with those guys. So obviously, the girl went and told the guys about it that's why they were raking.

On the on Friday, 22 Dec, I came back home to hear the news that the girl have been arrested in connection to a stolen item and even though the item have been found, it was found in a bad state and the owner is insisting that they pay him for damages before he can withdraw his case. Police are saying that they can only release the girl if we pay the owner the money his requesting for,as the boys claimed the item spoilt at the girls hand, but for the boys, they will be charged for breaking into someone's residence to steal an item.

Now the mother have been begging us to help her raise money to pay the owner of the item as she doesn't have enough. But our caretaker is saying that none of us should donate a penny to her.

I just feel as though we should help her, but all the other neighbours are buying the idea of the caretaker that we should stay out of the case.

Just commot your eye from the matter, because the mother has stylishly told you to always mind your business, so I think this case too is not supposed to be your business too, as you tried to advise the mom before now, instead she cast wetin you dey try tell her, so now let the husband's that her daughter is looking for, and hanging out with raise the money to bail her and also pay for the item, period. Learn how to mind your business, if not, those kind boys fit do you wetin you no go like.

Dadatao1998:

Wrong advice.
Op, please don't take this advice, it's for your own safety

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How old are you?

Rich4god:
Continued....

One Saturday, me and another neighbour just came out from our compound, only to be hearing shout from those boys that "we can't do them anything, that we don't have the right to tell them not to stand at the front of our gate, that if we do anyhow, we go see anyhow". We just neglected them and went away.
Later on, I learnt that our caretaker warned the mother to tell her daughter not to be standing at the front of the compound with those guys. So obviously, the girl went and told the guys about it that's why they were raking.

On the on Friday, 22 Dec, I came back home to hear the news that the girl have been arrested in connection to a stolen item and even though the item have been found, it was found in a bad state and the owner is insisting that they pay him for damages before he can withdraw his case. Police are saying that they can only release the girl if we pay the owner the money his requesting for,as the boys claimed the item spoilt at the girls hand, but for the boys, they will be charged for breaking into someone's residence to steal an item.

Now the mother have been begging us to help her raise money to pay the owner of the item as she doesn't have enough. But our caretaker is saying that none of us should donate a penny to her.

I just feel as though we should help her, but all the other neighbours are buying the idea of the caretaker that we should stay out of the case.

She told you to mind your business Abi you still wouldn’t listen ?

Lolz, just mind your business.

U did well bro,and would have loved if you can go further in assisting but let it be in conjuc with every tenant in d house ,that will accord the desired respect u guys need from the lady's FAM.Ans it will also remove the disgrace those boys wish to splash on you all.Do t give them money alone , let it be collective else some day the fam would start beefin the other tenants as if they are wicked.Even if you have all the money to give ,let them know it's coming on be half of every tenant in that compound.This will brew more honor and unity amongst you all and u guys would be able to fight away intruders next time.May we not enter bad territories.I once was in those kind of shoes as a tenant but God saw me through ,my family now lives in well advanced location.If you are not married ,work smarter and leave that territory,..not a good place to raise a family bro.

Rich4god:


Thank you my brother.... See everyone saying mind your business... mind your business when the result of their action is going to affect everyone.

Mind your business, don't you want the girl to enjoy the cell?

Please, don't make yourself an enemy in your compound just because of some ignorant women. Let them learn their lesson! Mind your business like the mother once said.

Na so one idiot beggar girl come meet me as I commot for Keke one day, come dey beg me make I give am money. Me wey be say money way dey my hand that day get calculation. I tell am say I no get money. She just dey insistent dey follow me up and down. As I wan cross road like this, this mumu girl tell me say "As I dey beg you since morning, so you no come get money wey you go give me abi?" Omo I shock!

Rich4god:


I want to believe that you didn't read my post well before you typed this your reply. I have important things to do than to even think of following a lady. This is one of the problem with you ladies, when a guy shows a geniu concern towards your wellbeing, you automatically think that he's trying to "get you".

So if your neighbour sees a family member of yours following criminals, he should just allow her be because correcting her means he want her to be chilling with him. Uwa mmebi.

Lady, not all men follow things under skirt.

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You are replying a female. They don't get sense. I take exemption from those from my family and other family that raised their female well. You can see what her brain can process from your write-up. I don't reply female comment

phemy36:
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You are replying a female. They don't get sense. I take exemption from those from my family and other family that raised their female well. You can see what her brain can process from your write-up. I don't reply female comment

UnfairLife7:
you should have ignore that lady you mentioned, she no get sense.

Not one drop


Today I finally understand why some women are termed ‘Fish brained’

Don't mind your business we live in, communal society so speak up, because these mother that wanted you to mind her business is the one soliciting for funds from all of you now, what does that tell you

The way you are if you live in some certain neighborhoods you will quickly enter problem.
You don't seems to know how to mind your business and some people has died carelessly like that.

Those boys will not stay long in the prison and when they come out no matter how supportive you are to the girl they will still look at you and your neighbors as enemies.

Please, stop interfering in that issue. If your neighbors later make up their mind to help, give them your own share and stop involving directly in any of their discussion. Always be aloof toward their issue and respect yourself by not speaking with those youngsters directly, unless you are also their age group

Three tortoises and 2 small coffins 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hope you will mind your business and stay out of people's lives.

Rich4god:
Continued....

One Saturday, me and another neighbour just came out from our compound, only to be hearing shout from those boys that "we can't do them anything, that we don't have the right to tell them not to stand at the front of our gate, that if we do anyhow, we go see anyhow". We just neglected them and went away.
Later on, I learnt that our caretaker warned the mother to tell her daughter not to be standing at the front of the compound with those guys. So obviously, the girl went and told the guys about it that's why they were raking.

On the on Friday, 22 Dec, I came back home to hear the news that the girl have been arrested in connection to a stolen item and even though the item have been found, it was found in a bad state and the owner is insisting that they pay him for damages before he can withdraw his case. Police are saying that they can only release the girl if we pay the owner the money his requesting for,as the boys claimed the item spoilt at the girls hand, but for the boys, they will be charged for breaking into someone's residence to steal an item.

Now the mother have been begging us to help her raise money to pay the owner of the item as she doesn't have enough. But our caretaker is saying that none of us should donate a penny to her.

I just feel as though we should help her, but all the other neighbours are buying the idea of the caretaker that we should stay out of the case.

I think you should ignore them with their pleading for kind of help

The worst is yet to come up as far as they are still leaving and will steal stay there

The reply her mother gave you means that you should leave her daughter to sort her life

So leave them to deal with it

UnfairLife7:
Jesus


I don't believe a mother can say that...

seems this world is truly coming to an end o

My guess is, with no helper in sight she's counting on the daughter to bring a helper as a husband weather by crook or hook.

Last last e don back fire.

Rich4god:
Continued....

One Saturday, me and another neighbour just came out from our compound, only to be hearing shout from those boys that "we can't do them anything, that we don't have the right to tell them not to stand at the front of our gate, that if we do anyhow, we go see anyhow". We just neglected them and went away.
Later on, I learnt that our caretaker warned the mother to tell her daughter not to be standing at the front of the compound with those guys. So obviously, the girl went and told the guys about it that's why they were raking.

On the on Friday, 22 Dec, I came back home to hear the news that the girl have been arrested in connection to a stolen item and even though the item have been found, it was found in a bad state and the owner is insisting that they pay him for damages before he can withdraw his case. Police are saying that they can only release the girl if we pay the owner the money his requesting for,as the boys claimed the item spoilt at the girls hand, but for the boys, they will be charged for breaking into someone's residence to steal an item.

Now the mother have been begging us to help her raise money to pay the owner of the item as she doesn't have enough. But our caretaker is saying that none of us should donate a penny to her.

I just feel as though we should help her, but all the other neighbours are buying the idea of the caretaker that we should stay out of the case.

Help her only on the condition her daughter stops moving with those boys because they are the cause of her problems

2ndly what is the older daughter saying about the matter?

Infact I don't think u should help them maybe they are all irresponsible. when they suffer to get her out they would naturally learn the hard way.

Tallesty1:
I ain't joking Ishi.


Happy new year.

It's obvious the woman is a wayward person and she is raising her child in the say way...

Happy new year to you too, dear

Rich4god:
Greetings to you all...
Pardon me, my write up will be long.

A little intro.
About 3 months ago, we got a new tenant who packed into our compound. A family of 5, three daughters and the parent. One of the daughter is married and the father blind and stays in the village. So we have just the mother and two daughters staying in the compound.
The elder daughter is around 24years and has a job that takes her out of the house, but the junior one doesn't have, she stays at hine 247 and shes about 20-22 years.

There is a guy just opposite our compound and he's group of friends. By just looking at them, you will know that they are upcoming yahoo boys but they never blow. So for me, even though as I see them everyday, I do my best to avoid them.

The main issue.
Not up to 3 weeks after our neighbour packed into our compound, the younger daughter start hanging out with the guys. Almost every minute of the day, the girl and the guys will be seated right in front of the compound for hours even late into the night.

At time, they will stand right in front of our gate, of someone wants to come out of the compound, the won't shift for you. You will have to be telling them to move or you just pass by "dodging" them.

I was actually concerned about their relationship, because me I see to those boys as criminals and that girl isn't supposed to be relating with them. If say them done blow, I for understand, maybe the girl is getting some money from them, but those guys have nothing to offer. Not even meaningful advice.

One day I came back from work, they were at the front of our gate. I have to wriggle my way in as I don't want to start having any form of conversation with them. Then as I entered, I saw her mum seated in the compound and I jokingly said to her "Aren't you worried that your daughter is always standing outside with these boys"... and she said to me, "when you married your wife, was she always inside house, abi you no wan make I pikin see husband".... I just laughed it off, but I began to mind my business from that day.

How can you mind your business when you are still living in the house with your family. Even if you never marry, your properties and documents will be in the house with you.

Those ones that said mind your business are the reason the world is rotten especially among youths. Imagine the audacity saying it loudly that no one can stop them from coming to the gate after being warned by the caretaker.

Let me teach you a style. I call it silent or passive threat.

One day, find a way to connect with a Policeman or Soldier (Red beret preferrably). Then come to the house together with the uniformed personnel , gisting o. Just enter your own flat and don't say anything to those boys when you see them at the gate.

But make sure they are all around when the person comes visiting. Let them also see you escorting the personnel when he is leaving.

Those boys will vanish like vapour after that.

I promise you.

Foodqueen:


Ur mom right?

his mom got married as a virgin. How many dozen is your body count?

fred04:
Poverty have reduced parental responsibilities to zero.
I have seen a mother's encouraging herldaughters to dress skimpy in order to catch yahoo boys.
Na hunger dey worry her brain, if u can help her please do.
Most parents now depend on their children for food regardless of how they provide those things

Aptly said

Most parents now depends on their children for survival
these parents support their children in anything be it Yahoo Yahoo, prostitution, armed robbery, pick pocket, street urshins etc


Poverty is the major cause of it

ikeno:
Just contribute your own potion of the money and help the mother. Children of this generation no dey hear word. Am sure when she comes out she go don get small sense for that her kolo head.

My nephew use to hang out with some upcoming yahoo boys, wey their mama still dey give chop money and he followed them to only godd know where he was stabbed and they left him if not for some good Samaritan that told me and i took him to the hospital where he was treated for his injury. Ever since he was discharged he has totally changed, more focus on his studies and always indoor cause i gave him a stern warning that if i see him with those boys again i will break his two leg and still treat him.

Na this same mindset make una go begin raise money for Jay boogie abi wetin. Nigerians and sentiments!

Tallesty1:
You know, I used to wonder if people who post certain things online have parents or people they respect, but then it occurred to me that some of them are already mothers with grown-up children. So yeah, mothers say worse things.

One day, a lady came home with long braids, and the mother's concern was how her boyfriend would cope during doggy. She voiced this concern out loud, and I overheard it because I was outside.

Jesus!

Rich4god:


You just said the truth ... And that's one of the best way to keep ones compound safe.

Lots of parents are really failing in their responsibility, especially if it's just the mother. Am very sure, if the dad was to be fit and around, he won't condone such.
Imagine sometimes I come back home around 9:30 10 then I will see the young girl still outside with the boys and the mother is comfortable with that.

the mother's even lucky that the boys hadn't used her for ritual sacrifice as yahoo boys are known to do

Na police station she dey na
They got off easy

Biglittlelois:


What did I just read 😱

What the hell did I just read 😱

as in....

Foodqueen:
Mind your business.

I can't imagine that u actually went to say that to her mother. Isn't she aware about what's going on before

No matter how much you try, that girl no go ever look your side, there are some girls that are destined to date bad boys, she's one of them.

U thought cos u are a cool guy, she should av been chilling with you ba

If u like part with your money cos u av the hope that she might start dating you. OYO.

Mind your business before them naked you for that house.

This is so funny