kelvinakproko:
You called her on phone around 10pm in the night and she told you she wasn't fine. You asked if her mother was around, she said 'No' that she had gone on a business trip and she was the only one in the house. You told your friend living in her neighborhood to check up on her when you called severally and she didn't pick up again. When he got there, her door was locked and her neighbour told him that she travelled in the morning of that very day.

After not taking your calls, you dropped a message that someone checked up on her and she wasn't around. She wouldn't pick until the evening the next day. When she picked, she said she went for an interview but because it was late she spent the night in a friend's (girl) place and because she hadn't told you about the movement earlier, she felt you might get angry if she told you she was at a friend's place. She added that she's been scared of taking your calls because she didn't know what to do.

You know she's lying but she asks for forgiveness. You remember the financial sacrifices she's made on you for the past one year. Her contribution when things were rough for you until things became fine for you. You just feel like letting go but something deep down in you, you just want to know the truth but she wouldn't say it but cries for not believing her.

You don't play games. You really love this girl and already planning to wife her.
She loves you by the actions and efforts she makes up till the moment but your mind always goes back to it. You keep on bringing it because you just want to know the truth but she insists that you should forgive her and let go of the past? What do you do?

Do you forgive her without knowing the truth or Forget all her sacrifices and end it?

SharingIsLife:
Don't forgive her if you don't have faults yourself. Everyone has got faults. Therefore, the only way to make any relationship work is to emphasize the strengths over the weaknesses of anyone you are relating with.

But this is not to say that you should let the weaknesses be. Instead, fight your weaknesses by discussing them (both yours and hers) sincerely together and talking about them, the problems they can cause and how to stop them.

For example, admit to her that you too you have weaknesses and tell her that she is free to tell you your weaknesses anytime, that you are ready to adjust. Then, tell her her own weaknesses lovingly and suggest ways to help her overcome them. This can help you even to bond.

If you need more detailed confidential advice about your relationships, you can dm me. Little problems are destroying many would be beautiful relationships and we must all work together to fight against them and win. Thank you.

kelvinakproko:
You called her on phone around 10pm in the night and she told you she wasn't fine. You asked if her mother was around, she said 'No' that she had gone on a business trip and she was the only one in the house. You told your friend living in her neighborhood to check up on her when you called severally and she didn't pick up again. When he got there, her door was locked and her neighbour told him that she travelled in the morning of that very day.

After not taking your calls, you dropped a message that someone checked up on her and she wasn't around. She wouldn't pick until the evening the next day. When she picked, she said she went for an interview but because it was late she spent the night in a friend's (girl) place and because she hadn't told you about the movement earlier, she felt you might get angry if she told you she was at a friend's place. She added that she's been scared of taking your calls because she didn't know what to do.

You know she's lying but she asks for forgiveness. You remember the financial sacrifices she's made on you for the past one year. Her contribution when things were rough for you until things became fine for you. You just feel like letting go but something deep down in you, you just want to know the truth but she wouldn't say it but cries for not believing her.

You don't play games. You really love this girl and already planning to wife her.
She loves you by the actions and efforts she makes up till the moment but your mind always goes back to it. You keep on bringing it because you just want to know the truth but she insists that you should forgive her and let go of the past? What do you do?

Do you forgive her without knowing the truth or Forget all her sacrifices and end it?

kelvinakproko:

kelvinakproko:


I've told her severally that we all make mistakes and that telling the truth doesn't break relationships so much as covering it does.

SharingIsLife:

Still be patient and loving with her and see her change with time. This is why people are considered mature after they've been married for some time. Every woman has a serious fault. So if you continue to emphasize their faults, then, you will never have anything to do with any woman. From what I see, your woman has a very beautiful character of self sacrifice for her man. For me that is good enough for you to endure her other faults while trying to transform her for the better.

kelvinakproko:
You called her on phone around 10pm in the night and she told you she wasn't fine. You asked if her mother was around, she said 'No' that she had gone on a business trip and she was the only one in the house. You told your friend living in her neighborhood to check up on her when you called severally and she didn't pick up again. When he got there, her door was locked and her neighbour told him that she travelled in the morning of that very day.

After not taking your calls, you dropped a message that someone checked up on her and she wasn't around. She wouldn't pick until the evening the next day. When she picked, she said she went for an interview but because it was late she spent the night in a friend's (girl) place and because she hadn't told you about the movement earlier, she felt you might get angry if she told you she was at a friend's place. She added that she's been scared of taking your calls because she didn't know what to do.

You know she's lying but she asks for forgiveness. You remember the financial sacrifices she's made on you for the past one year. Her contribution when things were rough for you until things became fine for you. You just feel like letting go but something deep down in you, you just want to know the truth but she wouldn't say it but cries for not believing her.

You don't play games. You really love this girl and already planning to wife her.
She loves you by the actions and efforts she makes up till the moment but your mind always goes back to it. You keep on bringing it because you just want to know the truth but she insists that you should forgive her and let go of the past? What do you do?

Do you forgive her without knowing the truth or Forget all her sacrifices and end it?

SharingIsLife:

Still be patient and loving with her and see her change with time. This is why people are considered mature after they've been married for some time. Every woman has a serious fault. So if you continue to emphasize their faults, then, you will never have anything to do with any woman. From what I see, your woman has a very beautiful character of self sacrifice for her man. For me that is good enough for you to endure her other faults while trying to transform her for the better.

kelvinakproko:
You called her on phone around 10pm in the night and she told you she wasn't fine. You asked if her mother was around, she said 'No' that she had gone on a business trip and she was the only one in the house. You told your friend living in her neighborhood to check up on her when you called severally and she didn't pick up again. When he got there, her door was locked and her neighbour told him that she travelled in the morning of that very day.

After not taking your calls, you dropped a message that someone checked up on her and she wasn't around. She wouldn't pick until the evening the next day. When she picked, she said she went for an interview but because it was late she spent the night in a friend's (girl) place and because she hadn't told you about the movement earlier, she felt you might get angry if she told you she was at a friend's place. She added that she's been scared of taking your calls because she didn't know what to do.

You know she's lying but she asks for forgiveness. You remember the financial sacrifices she's made on you for the past one year. Her contribution when things were rough for you until things became fine for you. You just feel like letting go but something deep down in you, you just want to know the truth but she wouldn't say it but cries for not believing her.

You don't play games. You really love this girl and already planning to wife her.
She loves you by the actions and efforts she makes up till the moment but your mind always goes back to it. You keep on bringing it because you just want to know the truth but she insists that you should forgive her and let go of the past? What do you do?

Do you forgive her without knowing the truth or Forget all her sacrifices and end it?

galadima77:


So what are we forgiving?

galadima77:


So what are we forgiving?

kelvinakproko:


The fact that she lied but she doesn't want to say the truth.