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Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by Carlylepneuma: 5:53pm On Jan 16
tensazangetsu20:
Women are the same everywhere just pray to find someone who is good and God fearing
in Africa we practice patriarchy, and our women recon to that on the other hand European women don't believe in that, they infact don't believe in d word "submissive" they believe in equality... So women aint the same everywhere man. I will choose my African Nubian Queens anyday anytime over Europeans ladies...

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Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by rumenase(m): 5:56pm On Jan 16
Bongadu:
yt women are over rated, you'll hate yourself for forking one tbh
how their puci be?

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Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by ogbonti: 5:56pm On Jan 16
DiskJokeyManic:
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that woman is not a white woman - thats a hispanic or latino woman probably from mexico or el salvador - In Nigeria, any fair skinned person is a white person grin grin grin grin
Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by sirray001: 5:57pm On Jan 16
money121:

Na true shaa
But to me na gigolo grin grin
na wetin man go do my brother. Man must survive

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Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by LastProphet: 5:59pm On Jan 16
money121:

So is a crime to married from another country?
That have been happend for long my brother
So stop blaming everything on naija
Na choice

Is not only choice, is about class too. A black professional abroad who likely schooled there has access to ladies/guys of hisor her age and can marry them, he has his own papers too or qualify to apply so he doesn't need theirs. Such person has no business with any white granny.
Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by Enny2013(f): 6:18pm On Jan 16
Kolanalife2:
Nigerians.
A pack of the "agbo" i am sellimg cost 15,000 naira and i have up to at least five distributors that buys up to 20 packa each in a week.
Personally i sell up to 10 packs a day.

Do the maths yourself, i have a roof over my head, a family and my wife pushes a 2019 model toyota product, what more can i ask for that my "agbo" has not given me.

Mumu, this same agbo has sent me to over 6 European nations and counting.
With this agbo, my late grand dad built at least one house in at least 25 states in Nigeria including fct.

Check his name, t.o omo oleabheale jp na big name bros.
The former chairman of west africa traditional medicine practioners association.
Bro, some things are better left unsaid. Men are expected to talk less. This is too much talk. It doesn't worth it.

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Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by zedegit: 6:25pm On Jan 16
Kolanalife2:
Nigerians.
A pack of the "agbo" i am sellimg cost 15,000 naira and i have up to at least five distributors that buys up to 20 packa each in a week.
Personally i sell up to 10 packs a day.

Do the maths yourself, i have a roof over my head, a family and my wife pushes a 2019 model toyota product, what more can i ask for that my "agbo" has not given me.

Mumu, this same agbo has sent me to over 6 European nations and counting.
With this agbo, my late grand dad built at least one house in at least 25 states in Nigeria including fct.

Check his name, t.o omo oleabheale jp na big name bros.
The former chairman of west africa traditional medicine practioners association.

Papa die, mama die. Konkonbility.

Do you also know who I are? My Papa is related to Dangote while my mama dey related to Adenuga.

Nonsense and ingredient.
Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by cococandy(f): 6:28pm On Jan 16
This your timeline is not clear. She died in 2021 and since then you’ve had 3 children that you named after her and her kids? You loved her so much that you couldn’t even wait to move on. 3 kids in 2 years since she died? Na wa

P.S you almost married her even with children? Would you have done the same if she were Nigerian?

Kolanalife2:
I have dated a phillipino, an Australian and lastly the love of my life, an eastern european, a polish precisely but i lost her to convid in 2021. Alicja, wherever you are may your soul continue to find rest.

If you have dated a foreigner to date a Nigerian will be a herculian task. I never knew what it means for a woman to love a man till i met my late polish fiancee.
She did all she could to make sure i was comfortable enough, she showed me the true meaning of love.
I named my first daughter after her and my two sons after two of her sons.
.

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Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by cococandy(f): 6:31pm On Jan 16
If you know how many Yorubas are abroad and married to foreign women you won’t be saying this.

People are people.

paris10:
This is where identity & culture comes into play. For the Hausas & Yorubas, their identity & culture comes before anything. That self-actualization is paramount to their decisions. There are 0.001% of the Hausas/Yorubas getting married to white women.

The Igbos on the other hand aren’t immersed with the idea of cultural belonging. They think commonly & often go with “women are the same everywhere”. The Yorubas have a rich culture, likewise the Hausas. The Igbos are more secularly inclined. They account for 99% of Nigerian men marrying a white woman. This is so because they believe in western ideology than the traditional African ethics.

Self-belongingness is a key factor here. While the Yorubas & Hausas believe they are indigenous African & Nigerian, the Igbos believe they are Jews & from Israel. More reason they want to secede from Nigeria. The election also gives you a glimpse of who the Igbos are; they’re predisposedly & inherently not a respecter of anyone. They hold no one in high esteem. A big contrast to the Yorubas/Hausas.

Patriotism & culture plays a significant role when talking about this topic. And we all know who displays patriotism & cultural affirmation here.

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Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by nedekid: 6:34pm On Jan 16
360command:
your brother type are alot and I can read into it. They claim they like dark skin girls but they are lustful for that dark skin girl. In reality, they want to marry that white girl, ofcourse, experience what it is like but they are much ok to tell or show people they are with a white woman even till the extent of having children.

There is nothing wrong about it. Maybe they do not know about this psychological issue going on in their mind, maybe they know but just want to paint it to people they care not about white women but love dark women.

I think it is just a case of been bored with something. If you have been eating ewa on a daily basis, rice will hungry you. grin
Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by Klass99(f): 6:40pm On Jan 16

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Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by jubrilELsudan: 7:05pm On Jan 16
farem:


Why are you so incensed because one wicked woman you call mother. As bad as white ladies might be, you still rate them above our virtuous one here. Don't you think you truly had a very wicked mother or you nerve had one which might be due to the circumference around your birth?
Check your own verdict on your mother:

"THE WORST WHITE WOMAN IS STILL MANY TIMES BETTER THAN THE BEST NIGERIAN WOMAN MANY TIMES OVER"

Fight yourself, please

ODE

Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by steeltrust: 7:05pm On Jan 16
LastProphet:


Your black American woman is even worse than our own ladies, our ladies are more educated than them. And their behavior is the worst with a few very few exceptions
what do you understand by one being educated and besides which one have you been with to come into conclusion

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Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by jubrilELsudan: 7:07pm On Jan 16
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Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by compton11(m): 7:18pm On Jan 16
Offpoint1:
grin Your choice of pictures though, those ones are hustler naw.

I don't find white women sexually attractive, I don't know why. I can't never have erection watching white porn.


If I ever consider interracial relationship, it'll be with a Chinese/Japanese lady.
me too and if I wish to smash a white woman, it would be their bbw/Ssbbw 😭😭😭
Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by Akabuking: 7:27pm On Jan 16
Kolanalife2:
I have dated a phillipino, an Australian and lastly the love of my life, an eastern european, a polish precisely but i lost her to convid in 2021. Alicja, wherever you are may your soul continue to find rest.

If you have dated a foreigner to date a Nigerian will be a herculian task. I never knew what it means for a woman to love a man till i met my late polish fiancee.
She did all she could to make sure i was comfortable enough, she showed me the true meaning of love.
I named my first daughter after her and my two sons after two of her sons.

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Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by robosky02(m): 7:28pm On Jan 16
A red Indian once saved some white folks

And in appreciation he was ask if he would take one of thier woman as wife

Is reply was.

"When the lights are off in the room women are all the same, "
Colour, or size doesn't matter again,.

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Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by Raalsalghul: 7:29pm On Jan 16
tensazangetsu20:
Women are the same everywhere just pray to find someone who is good and God fearing

The only white women I recommend are those from the Eastern Europe axis especially for a black African man: any other one is a "no no".

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Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by 360command: 7:32pm On Jan 16
nedekid:

I think it is just a case of been bored with something. If you have been eating ewa on a daily basis, rice will hungry you. grin
we men have a way of justifying the wrongful things. If a woman had said this, you did say she is for the street.

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Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by tensazangetsu20(m): 7:38pm On Jan 16
Raalsalghul:


The only white women I recommend are those from the Eastern Europe axis especially for a black African man: any other one is a "no no".

Lol these spanish girls were super nice to me and Spain na western Europe o. Good people are everywhere. It's just to pray for one.

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Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by Klass99(f): 7:41pm On Jan 16

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Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by zegeijuwa: 7:43pm On Jan 16
angryIf u never nyash Arabic woman you dey miss. Those people na jaki.
Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by Atlantis585: 7:44pm On Jan 16
Their toto just dey feel like half cooked food grin
Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by Psammmy(m): 7:59pm On Jan 16
Well women are the same everywhere, good bad n not too good, whether black or white. as someone who has been married to a white woman for 14 years n counting.
I will say it's been great and well. after the initial hick up n bickering because of cultural differences et al. Offcourse I miss Nigerian food etc but after eating oyinbo food for many years, I can hardly eat pepper anymore n anytime am in naija, my stomach hardly is at peace😂😂😭
Most nigerians in Nigeria or newly arrived here are marrying for papers to settle down, so they marry old women or anything the can find coz time is running out(especially those asylum seekers in UK or America ) just to get permit, green card etc but however if you marry out of love, then it's a different story..

I don't know about other white women from other countries but Scandinavian women no get ur tyme whether you get money or not, if them like you, Na to the finish line with u bi dat.

There are the usual fights n quarrel but if you love each other n as a black man, if u can keep your pe.. nis in check or at least hide ur away matches very well, you will be fine. People believe with oyinbo women everything from house work or food making Na 50/50, big lie, if you be beta male by nature women go sense am fast whether home or abroad n take advantage of am.. Be a man, take care of your responsible, take charge n lead, ur oyinbo woman or wife go bi like puppy dey follow you.. Personally I have Never washed my clothes or make food for myself over 10 years, Na wetin you go enjoy when you make your woman(black or white) the envy of her mates or family
Ps :
For those who want to come for me, Am 9 years older than my wife n met her when she was 19. I married her coz I fell inlove❤️😂🤣.. Everybody story different



quote author=MatthiasChin post=127962959]In Nigeria today most people see marrying a white girl as a very risky thing.

owing to the fact that you may get divorced, your children may never come back to Nigeria and all of that....

But I'm of the belief that some countries have white women who are exceptionally loyal and cool headed, Brazil for example.

But yet I will like to here a firsthand experience story..

Sir please give us your candid advise...

Is it worth it, is it advisable like what's your experience?[/quote]

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Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by cococandy(f): 8:13pm On Jan 16
No I don’t think Nigerian single moms need soul checking. I think Nigerian men need to examine their biases. There’s no way on earth that you won’t judge a Nigerian single mother of FOUR KIDS before even getting to know her. Y’all have expectations from Nigerian women that you don’t hold other women to.
It’s a sign of deep self hatred

Tell yourself the truth for your own peace’s sake.

Kolanalife2:
my first two babies alicia and adam are two years old, they are twins and my last born daniel is barely four months old.

How long would you have suggested i wait before i move on with my life, shey make i get greyhair before i go move on ni?

She had four kids, "twins". before her death and she was barely 33 years old. Same age bracket with me.
Why wont i marry her when despite having four kids she doesn't depend on me for money, she even suports me financially, spiritually and in every little way you could.

Despite having four kids there's no form of toxicity in her, a pastor, a graduate and works with mary kay.
She gives me peace of mind.
If a nigerian single mum can offer these qualities and more why wont i marry her?

FYI: i am married to a ghanian and she was a single mum of one before we started making our own babies.
So if i can marry a european and ghanian single mums and cant marry their Nigerian counterpart doesnt that mean nigerian single mums need to do some soul checking?

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Re: Nigerian Men Married To White Women What's Your Experience? by cococandy(f): 8:18pm On Jan 16
If a Nigerian woman divorced her husband after four kids because he “simply” cheated, I’m 100 percent sure that you would be among those calling her a bitter westernized feminist for abandoning her African values and running out of her marriage for a small reason.

Who do you think you’re talking to? Someone who doesn’t know how y’all reason?

If you don’t shut up. grin



Kolanalife2:
i know nothing will be interesting about someone that is educated, gainfully employed in the sight of an average dull headed Nigerian gum chewing woman like you because those attributes are alien to you.

To an average dull headed parasitic baby mama like you, visiting a man means sex thats why you all keep having babies like rats out of wedlock and expect one innocent man to come wife you and swallow all your garbages.

She was married and legally divorced because her husband was a serial cheat and alcoholic.
And what part of your Bible tells you a pastor woman is not supposed to date before marriage?

And for your info, i am not of the same stock of men in your family that can marry even a corpse just to japa or become a citizen of a foreign country.
I schooled in Europe and have been in over 6 european nations, i am a tz passport holder and dont need to behave like the men in your family before i can travel to any country of my choice.

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