Reason y genevivi nnaji, Linda ikeji and a host of other rich Igbo women no go consider marriage. Husband family will consider their eastate and wealth as theirs. The reason easterners will prefer their wealthy brothers not to give birth men too

Frankofor10:
This is very sad,one of the bad sides of African culture.i am in a big mess guys.assist me..0035..325979..access bank

Igbo culture, not African culture.

ashiwaju2010:


https://punchng.com/anambra-widow-battling-forced-eviction-by-in-law-seeks-help/?amp

Just imagine
The heart of most blacks na wickedness full Dr.


How do they expect the children to feed, cloth and continue education when they have collected everything that belongs to the widow?

God is indeed patient

This is why i don't like most of these cultures and traditions in the land,it tends to incapacitate the other gender and render them helpless,i don't pray for my womb carrier to pass through this HELL......... I be Igbo by the way🛀🛀

FIDA and their usual nonsensical approach to such matters cannot cease to surprise me because they are an association of dumb persons dressed in lawyer's robes. This is both a criminal and civil matter, yet FIDA is claiming it is strictly a family issue. How? Maybe the widow should be killed first before they pore through the law books to find the liability of her late husband's siblings? Didn't the Court of appeal in NZEKWU v. NZEKWU hold that such practices or acts are against the rights of a widow and her children? How on God's green earth would FIDA now claim it is strictly a family matter? What a sorry sight for an association.

Hmmm lazy siblings will always be an enemy of progress

talented321:
What about the big pride price and a woman been buried in the husband's community, is that one a lie too?

The issue of big bride prices is relative.

Most families collect little or nothing as bride price; they will implore you, the intending groom, to settle the kindred or village men and women.

What is wrong with burying a woman in his husband's community or compound?

Why is it that anything that has to do with land always makes these hinterland bushpeople go gaga ?!

Men should always buy land and add their wife's name.

All my landed properties has the name of my wife in it.

I don't care if i am close to my brother...with what is happening in Nigeria now,we have to be smart and do the right thing.

I don't really believe this because the few i came across there is nothing like what you wrote down here, though may be i'm the one that never go across such.. ..

Bobloco:


The issue of big bride prices is relative.

Most families collect little or nothing as bride price; they will implore you, the intending groom, to settle the kindred or village men and women.

what is wrong if she is been buried in her village, do you want your mother to be buried in a strange land, right? When there is no challenge in the village she comes from

What is wrong with burying a woman in his husband's community or compound?

dayleke:
Ha!!

Sebi they have their own lands too, why are they disturbing the poor woman?

How do you even feel inheriting your sibling's property(ies) while his own family are there?

Na wah o.

The worst part is that they will use that money to take care of their own children while depriving the owner's children and wife of the goodies their father and husband left behind

Hmmm

Christlike01:
Why is it that anything that has to do with land always makes these hinterland bushpeople go gaga ?!

U lack education.

The igbo land tenure system is a complex one and hence the issues associated with it. If u had read architecture,estate mgt,environmental science,URP,geography u will understand but because u are filled with hate and lack the needed education to understand u will keep hating rather than understand it.

Go and read the igbo land tenure system and stop casting away what u don't know.

Then,the above topic is embarrassing and should not be tolerated because this isn't normal in any society for brothers to destroy their brothers wife all because of land.


And for u men,learn to trust ur wives with ur land and not brothers and for many of u who have entrusted all ur properties and next of Kin names in ur brothers,father or sisters name...u are only looking for trouble when the real deal starts.

Except for those who are divorced or separated,pls ensure u put ur wife's name as ur next of Kin...it is very important my people.

💯 Igbo people way of life .

This is what happens when you show your family that they are mire important than your wife. This is what happens when you place your wife below your family. After you go, your wife and children will suffer. Your family will feel entitled to what should belong ti your wife and kids.

Donate to charity and use your head to train those children

solmusdesigns:
Shameless people

Why not donate to charity what the dead man left

Houseontherock1:

The worst part is that they will use that money to take care of their own children while depriving the owner's children and wife of the goodies their father and husband left behind

Are you sure these relatives are not the ones who killed the man?, they are not called village people for nothing.
Their own no dey please dem, their eyes are always inside another person own.
They want to take over for now, so that children can come to collect the land when they grow up, lies from the pit of hell.
This is why they are called village people,
they will make sure those children never come back to ask for the land.
Wicked folks, no wonder they have all fled their homeland, to go and constitute nuisance elsewhere.

Haven't we gone beyond this already? What the heck is wrong with this people and obsession with properties that are not your own?

When you see things like this, you begin to wonder if these people truly love their brother.

Nice2023:



U lack education.

The igbo land tenure system is a complex one and hence the issues associated with it. If u had read architecture,estate mgt,environmental science,URP,geography u will understand but because u are filled with hate and lack the needed education to understand u will keep hating rather than understand it.

Go and read the igbo land tenure system and stop casting away what u don't know.

Then,the above topic is embarrassing and should not be tolerated because this isn't normal in any society for brothers to destroy their brothers wife all because of land.


And for u men,learn to trust ur wives with ur land and not brothers and for many of u who have entrusted all ur properties and next of Kin names in ur brothers,father or sisters name...u are only looking for trouble when the real deal starts.

Except for those who are divorced or separated,pls ensure u put ur wife's name as ur next of Kin...it is very important my people.

Will you shut your faecal ogiri smelly trap up there,Igbo land tenure my foot ! Why don't you tell us exactly what's complex about your tiny 5 acres of erosion ravaged land ?!

Lol,you honestly think we don't know why land issue is a matter of life and death in your jungle ? Take a look below :

*Anambra = 4,844 square kilometers
*Imo. = 5,530 square kilometers
*Abia. = 6,320 square kilometers
*Enugu. = 7,161 square kilometers
*Ebonyi. = 5,670 square kilometers

TOTAL = 29,525 square kilometers

*Oyo state = 28,454 square kilometers!

Before you go any further with your "complex Igbo land tenure" yeye theory,above is the real reason why una dey go gaga because of land in your jungle! See the person who is talking about education,someone whose people were still walking around buttnaked as recent as 1930s ! You and your people need that education more,Chinedu !

EreluRoz:
Wicked

Women should learn not to be weak, if our mother Eve was weak she won't have succeeded in making Adam eat the forbidden fruit. You should know why you are a woman, learn to always take that advantage.

Ten thousand of inlaws like this can't do me shit

just pray not to experience this thing because some inlaws are ready to wipe out an entire family so they can take people's property they didn't even contribute to build or work for. Some inlaws are 😈 incarnate

talented321:
I don't really believe this because the few i came across there is nothing like what you wrote down here, though may be i'm the one that never go across such.. .. what is wrong if she is been buried in her village, do you want your mother to be buried in a strange land, right? When there is no challenge in the village she comes from

I don't understand what you mean by "Strange land"you

talented321:
I don't really believe this because the few i came across there is nothing like what you wrote down here, though may be i'm the one that never go across such.. .. what is wrong if she is been buried in her village, do you want your mother to be buried in a strange land, right? When there is no challenge in the village she comes from

I don't understand what you mean by "Strange land"

They must have hated their brother, hence no regards for the wife and kids after his death. Men better learn that only the kid’s mother, and not his sisters, brothers etc can take good care of his children after his death.

Christlike01:


Will you shut your faecal ogiri smelly trap up there,Igbo land tenure my foot ! Why don't you tell us exactly what's complex about your tiny 5 acres of erosion ravaged land ?!

Lol,you honestly think we don't know why land issue is a matter of life and death in your jungle ? Take a look below :

*Anambra = 4,844 square kilometers
*Imo. = 5,530 square kilometers
*Abia. = 6,320 square kilometers
*Enugu. = 7,161 square kilometers
*Ebonyi. = 5,670 square kilometers

TOTAL = 29,525 square kilometers

*Oyo state = 28,454 square kilometers!

Before you go any further with your "complex Igbo land tenure" yeye theory,above is the real reason why una dey go gaga because of land in your jungle! See the person who is talking about education,someone whose people were still walking around buttnaked as recent as 1930s ! You and your people need that education more,Chinedu !

Agba searcher- The land no fit contains their noise hence the spread over other people's land

Gboom:

Agba searcher- The land no fit contains their noise hence the spread over other people's land

Don't mind those mofos !

People never learn from the mistakes of the past generation. Aren't they themselves going to die someday? Foolishness. The late brother even has a son so what are they thinking? Wickedness doesn't allow people to think well. The next thing is to try to get rid of their late brother's son.

oladipuposadeeq:
just pray not to experience this thing because some inlaws are ready to wipe out an entire family so they can take people's property they didn't even contribute to build or work for. Some inlaws are 😈 incarnate

I'm not afraid of any type of in-law, try shit and eventually wipe themselves and not a strand of hair will be out of my skin. They'll learn the hard way.

I feel for her sha

I said she is Igbo before opening the thread.


Next!

I hope no reasonable ladies will dare to marry from that region. It is really a shame and wickedness

A USELESS HUSBAND IS BETTER THAN A DEAD ONE, TIWA SAVAGE EX, EVEN THOUGH NOT TOGETHER ANYMORE STOOD UP FOR HER WHEN SHE HAD ISSUES WITH OBO.