Another man's raising my son..

This is because I met a young lady four years ago and proposed a relationship to her not knowing she's been betrothed by another man. Things went well and she spent almost every night in my house.

Things Fell Apart the day one of her friends told me she has been engaged by a man just few months ago and were waiting for traditional rites and some other things. I confronted her and she reluctantly agreed. We separated but I never knew she was few weeks pregnant until she was four months pregnant.
The friend told me the pregnancy was mine so I called my ex and she accepted but said she will not give the child to me because it will destroy her relationship. She also said I refused to take care of her and I promised to pay her whatever she has spent. She insisted it will destroy her marriage and abruptly ended the call. Since that I have been calling but wasn't reaching her.

I heard that she and her husband relocated to a neighboring state.

Last week I saw her but hid myself...I later inqired from her friend and the friend told me they are back and the kid I saw with her was mine and that the boy resembles me stressing that if my ex's husband sees me there will be problem. She also urged me not to destroy her friend's marriage.

But I want my son back by all means and I am ready to pay anything demanded of me. Honestly, I have been going through sleepless nights since I saw my ex with my kid.
How do I get my son back without breaking her marriage?

You're the most foolish fool I have ever seen since I was born. What an idiot are you? A child? A son for that matter. Is your brain running backwards? Why should you care about the health of her marriage at expense of losing your son? Women are very stupid and cunning---cheats---and I am 💯 percent sure that stupid ex of yours is smashing men outside thereby making her husband a simp. Go and take your son! Go without fear and if possible, insist on DNA test. But don't pity a woman who was cheating after being engaged. Go and save your fellow MAN!!!

You can get her back as a widow easily because only a weak man accepts another man's pregnancy.

she does not deserve to be married get your child and damn the consequences for her. wickedness

Believe this at your own peril.

He's the same person as the first commenter.

The Op and Obama.messi are one and the same!!!

LewisHamilton15:
Another man's raising my son..
This is because I met a young lady four years ago and proposed a relationship to her not knowing she's been betrothed by another man. Things went well and she spent almost every night in my house. Things Fell Apart the day one of her friends told me she has been engaged by a man just few months ago and were waiting for traditional rites and some other things. I confronted her and she reluctantly agreed. We separated but I never knew she was few weeks pregnant until she was four months pregnant. The friend told me the pregnancy was mine so I called my ex and she accepted but said she will not give the child to me because it will destroy her relationship. She also said I refused to take care of her and I promised to pay her whatever she has spent. She insisted it will destroy her marriage and abruptly ended the call. Since that I have been calling but wasn't reaching her. I heard that she and her husband relocated to a neighboring state.
Last week I saw her but hid myself...I later inqired from her friend and the friend told me they are back and the kid I saw with her was mine and that the boy resembles me stressing that if my ex's husband sees me there will be problem. She also urged me not to destroy her friend's marriage. But I want my son back by all means and I am ready to pay anything demanded of me. Honestly, I have been going through sleepless nights since I saw my ex with my kid.
How do I get my son back without breaking her marriage?

LewisHamilton15:
Another man's raising my son..
This is because I met a young lady four years ago and proposed a relationship to her not knowing she's been betrothed by another man. Things went well and she spent almost every night in my house. Things Fell Apart the day one of her friends told me she has been engaged by a man just few months ago and were waiting for traditional rites and some other things. I confronted her and she reluctantly agreed. We separated but I never knew she was few weeks pregnant until she was four months pregnant. The friend told me the pregnancy was mine so I called my ex and she accepted but said she will not give the child to me because it will destroy her relationship. She also said I refused to take care of her and I promised to pay her whatever she has spent. She insisted it will destroy her marriage and abruptly ended the call. Since that I have been calling but wasn't reaching her. I heard that she and her husband relocated to a neighboring state.
Last week I saw her but hid myself...I later inqired from her friend and the friend told me they are back and the kid I saw with her was mine and that the boy resembles me stressing that if my ex's husband sees me there will be problem. She also urged me not to destroy her friend's marriage. But I want my son back by all means and I am ready to pay anything demanded of me. Honestly, I have been going through sleepless nights since I saw my ex with my kid.
How do I get my son back without breaking her marriage?

Is she lightskin?

MrCork:



Is she lightskin?

From the reports we gathered, she’s an albino. Very light skin.

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Get your son back man. The woman is doglike and doesn't deserve to marry.

ObamaMessi:
You're the most foolish fool I have ever seen since I was born. What an idiot are you? A child? A son for that matter. Is your brain running backwards? Why should you care about the health of her marriage at expense of losing your son? Women are very stupid and cunning---cheats---and I am 💯 percent sure that stupid ex of yours is smashing men outside thereby making her husband a simp. Go and take your son! Go without fear and if possible, insist on DNA test. But don't pity a woman who was cheating after being engaged. Go and save your fellow MAN!!!

ObamaMessi

Ok do not destroy another man's family. Just let it past you will born another child.

Go and get your son back if you are wise.

What do I tell you now? But if I have something to say is that you should not temper with that woman's marriage.

I thought you men like to deny pregnancy? Just because you have seen another man loving and accepting your ex with the pregnancy, you want to go and destroy her marriage? What is wrong with you? Go and marry another woman and bear another child, leave your ex alone, another man is ready to groom the child.

LewisHamilton
obamamessi
VictorMessi1
belongs to same person

okunwaye:
LewisHam.ilton
obama.messi
VictorMes.si1
belongs to same person

Be careful before I take up your matter👉

My elder bro is presently in the same shoes with you,op......But in my bro's case,the baby's mama even gave my bros number to her new husband and he was threatening my bro to steer clear from the child (my bros daughter) . My bro wey kukuma get stubborn head don tell the husband say if he never get him time yet.....the baby's mama knows the extent my bro can go just to have his baby back . So she has been begging my bro to please have a man to man conversation with her husband .

Op,so if you really want your baby back,then,go to any extent to have her back

When Vector said, "wise men looking for me cause they've heard of me, replicating myself in many minds, there's an herd of me, you must have heard of me". HE WAS TALKING ABOUT OBAMA.MESSI!!!!

I think this guy has more than 70 monickers on nairaland!!!

Notorioustroll:
Be careful before I take up your matter👉

them no born you well you this taraba boy, belike you don forget who i be

okunwaye:

them no born you well you this taraba boy, belike you don forget who i be

Who are you? Shut up before he crucifies you on the cross of Calvary.

Karen2024:
Who are you? Shut up before he crucifies you on the cross of Calvary.

another alternative acc, seems you forgot how i change am for you that year

drimzsmoke:
When Vector said, "wise men looking for me cause they've heard of me, replicating myself in many minds, there's an herd of me, you must have heard of me". HE WAS TALKING ABOUT OBAMA.MESSI!!!!

I think this guy has more than 70 monickers on nairaland!!!

Be careful before I come for you 👉

okunwaye:
LewisHamilton
obamamessi
VictorMessi1
belongs to same person

Notorious.troll
Karen.2024
Messi.1
Calvary.247
zeu.ss
Slayerof.satanst
Role.xxxy
e.felicity
Still.whites
Greattest.man
Nata.liace

LewisHamilton15:
Another man's raising my son..
This is because I met a young lady four years ago and proposed a relationship to her not knowing she's been betrothed by another man. Things went well and she spent almost every night in my house. Things Fell Apart the day one of her friends told me she has been engaged by a man just few months ago and were waiting for traditional rites and some other things. I confronted her and she reluctantly agreed. We separated but I never knew she was few weeks pregnant until she was four months pregnant. The friend told me the pregnancy was mine so I called my ex and she accepted but said she will not give the child to me because it will destroy her relationship. She also said I refused to take care of her and I promised to pay her whatever she has spent. She insisted it will destroy her marriage and abruptly ended the call. Since that I have been calling but wasn't reaching her. I heard that she and her husband relocated to a neighboring state.
Last week I saw her but hid myself...I later inqired from her friend and the friend told me they are back and the kid I saw with her was mine and that the boy resembles me stressing that if my ex's husband sees me there will be problem. She also urged me not to destroy her friend's marriage. But I want my son back by all means and I am ready to pay anything demanded of me. Honestly, I have been going through sleepless nights since I saw my ex with my kid.
How do I get my son back without breaking her marriage?

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@bolded.

You couldn't even take care of her while you two were together. You promised to pay her whatever she spent, and still couldn't afford to do so.

Yet you want to claim a child. Do you know what it takes to train a child in this Tinubu's administration? Do you know how much nursery and primary schools charge these days? You've not even talked about feeding, clothing, medical bills...etc.

If you don't have any stable means of income, better leave that girl alone and focus on your life.

Useless story.
And 1 mumu mod go take am Fp

Forget about the boy ... There is no point Fighting for any child, he is not suffering where he is so leave him there.


You are only thinking about yourself and that is why you are worried ... Let them be and face your life ... That child will still demand atonement for the transgressions of you and and his butterfly legged mother. Because he is living a lie.

Nazgul:
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@bolded.

You couldn't even take care of her while you two were together. You promised to pay her whatever she spent, and still couldn't afford to do so.

Yet you want to claim a child. Do you know what it takes to train a child in this Tinubu's administration? Do you know how much nursery and primary schools charge these days? You've not even talked about feeding, clothing, medical bills...etc.

If you don't have any stable means of income, better leave that girl alone and focus on your life.

Who told you I didn't take care of her? I took good care of her. She spent most nights in my house but it's just that she didn't tell me she was pregnant for me so how am I supposed to know? That was just a pretext to deny me of my son. Man I know myself I can take care of four kids.