Try that at your own peril

ukaface:
Timini please rest

heat dey, he no fit rest

I can't relate I can't relate ...

he may have a point

60/40

I think the is loneliness,it's hard a girl got admirers everybody come,even the black guyz are looking for oyinbo,so if as a Nigerian girl u manage get one u go behave well

EreluRoz:
This short boy actually think he's a catch mtcheww

Dey Play 😁

Yankee101:
Sounding like a gold digging male

What's wrong with digging gold?

Caaz:

I don't know whom you re confusing me for,and please going forward,I won't respond to your mentions.


Thanks.

sageb this is Ahnie 👆, our resident alabosi, attention seeker and E'jo 🐍 🐍🐍

EreluRoz:
This short boy actually think he's a catch mtcheww

where is your own catch.


when someone finally wants to settle down with you then you can have a say. otherwise will you keep mute please.

Iamdbull:
Dbull on this one!



Mmm why not try other nationalities

Dbull you never blow?

Ok

Walahi this is so true. Naija no be same country. Everyone dey craze for this country.

You can find true love dating a Nigeria girl based abroad but you can never find love in Nigeria. Girls in Nigeria now are 95 % into hookup and what you can provide. Dem non Dey do fine boy for Nigeria ooh. Most girls here are hungry and can easily dupe you for a higher bidder. But abroad, I was surprised how many girls I could attract even without having a stable job and you know what is even more even surprising, most of the Nigeria girls that I met abroad are family oriented. They want to settle down and have a family. Some even encourage you, support you when they really like you. For Nigeria, my girlfriend was waiting for me to send her access code to my estate when she came to visit, in the process of waiting, another guy drove by with a Benz, saw how beautiful she was, stop by to get her number. She did not hesitate. After visiting me for that week, she went to visit the guy with the Benz who also live in the same estate I was living and spent the weekend with him. Funny, the guy is my friend but she did not know. We just laughed about it. Taking a Nigeria girl based in Nigeria and especially the ones living in lekki serious is at your own risk. No good girl in Nigeria. That American Nigerian girl, that is loyal and willing to start a family with you, you better take her serious and build with her. I just Dey pity people when non know Nigerian girl based in Nigeria. There is no such thing as love here.

Exceptional300:
I approve this message!!! Dating a girl back home is risky!
You won’t know who really loves or you just want to use you to Jakpa. Abroad girls especially those that migrated after degrees in Nigeria understand the systems very well and off course have the Nigerian cultural values imbibe in them. They know what if feels like to pay bills and living in the abroad

This sense of generalisation is overly and overtly flawed. While it is true that some women venture into this for the benefits, as you have highlighted, others do not even care. Are you aware that there are Nigerians (women inclusive) who are bothered about japa-ing)?

Juliearth:








This sense of generalisation is overly and overtly flawed. While it is true that some women venture into this for the benefits, as you have highlighted, others do not even care. Are you aware that there are Nigerians (women inclusive) who are bothered about japa-ing)?

I get your point but any Nigerian Lady based in Nigeria that is worth dating is a lady that has things going well for herself there. Good Job, Booming Business, financially stable etc. anything short of that is absolutely a big red flag, ( At least for me). Also, the western system is very different from Nigeria, unlike Nigeria where only the man pays the bills.

Exceptional300:
I get your point but any Nigerian Lady based in Nigeria that is worth dating is a lady that has things going well for herself there. Good Job, Booming Business, financially stable etc. anything short of that is absolutely a big red flag, ( At least for me). Also, the western system is very different from Nigeria, unlike Nigeria where only the man pays the bills.

Now, I can agree with you....but not completely (lol). Having a few bad experiences with Nigerian women should not be a yardstick for you drawing such conclusions.
You also, didn't notice that the paradigm has long shifted and Nigerian women are likewise, keying into the patriarchal role of providence? Have you not seen or heard of cases where women keep the family afloat? The world we live in has evolved so some of these archaic beliefs should be jettisoned. What I'm expecting to here is how women become boastful and arrogant when they start bringing "bread" to the table. Note that, that is spurious.

Juliearth:






Now, I can agree with you....but not completely (lol). Having a few bad experiences with Nigerian women should not be a yardstick for you drawing such conclusions.
You also, didn't notice that the paradigm has long shifted and Nigerian women are likewise, keying into the patriarchal role of providence? Have you not seen or heard of cases where women keep the family afloat? The world we live in has evolved so some of these archaic beliefs should be jettisoned. What I'm expecting to here is how women become boastful and arrogant when they start bringing "bread" to the table. Note that, that is spurious.

I totally agree with you on this, I shouldn’t use the experience of a few people as a yardstick to draw conclusion but like the saying goes “You learn from other people’s experiences”.

Exceptional300:

I totally agree with you on this, I shouldn’t use the experience of a few people as a yardstick to draw conclusion but like the saying goes “You learn from other people’s experiences”.

Learning from one's and other people's experiences doesn't necessarily connote drawing general conclusions.