I have a gir friend, we've bin dating going close to a year and she's from Edo state and myself lagos also she's a part-time student 400 level but she's not working. And have been advicing her to get something doing but she said she can't be going to school and at thesame time working, she also said her father said she should not work cos the father is paying her school fees, have also asked her what can she do maybe I could support her finacially her reply was nothing all she was given me in terms of business idea was zero, she said she will work once she finished from school with her certificate but she's 26yrs part-time student LASu, 1st born of the family. She's not from a rich home, she's not given me problem but when talk about her family issue she always saying that once she's married her problem is over that's when I understand that marriage is what she's after. She's not the type of person I need cos am not from a rich am also a final year student par-time, I sposored myself, doing the little I can do for my family shes not the kind of lady I need, I need some1 dat can encourage me, hard working even selfemployed cos am also self employed. I told her what can you do all she said was nothing and have giving her time if she can't get something doing I will quit. House please I want to quit even after we started dating last year I asked her about her ex guy she's said the guy told her they should quit cos they are not making head way since 3yrs of dating dat she did nothing but now I begin to see why the guy told her off. I don't want to be guilty house cos she's a gud girl in terms of domestic work cos she helps her mother a lot but that's not the world today I can't carry her responsibility cos I have mine, I want to quit I hope am justifie I don't want to go deep so I won't be blame. Should I tell her off and give her the reasons or should I just stop calling her and sop going to her place. I need ur help house what do I do

Pliss can you summarize in 4 sentense!

IMHO
I think its immature to just shut her out without letting her know why. Have a talk with her about it,let her know this is what you want in a wife,if she says she wouldn't work then you tell her it can't work with you that way,but I must say if her ex left her cos of this then she's really not ready to change her way of thinking(maybe when you leave she'd realize what she's doing to herself).
But na wa o,so there are still ladies who see men as their escape route from poverty,even the ones in universities too(hmm na wa o)

she is obviously a member of d NFA society. Her atitude has kept many graduates poor and living in horrible conditions. Sha dey careful.

All I can see is "I want to quit", then quit