Iamicekid:


It still pay him pass, cause now the rest of the family will know what to do and put her in her place, no matter how big she later become all the members in the family will still be telling her that if not for your husband she would have been nothing and that will be there for life, it still better than sending a girlfriend/wife abroad any day

Elohorp:

My husband carried his blood sister aboard,she called police on him, lied to the police ,almost made him lose his job and tryed to kill him as well,the same sister that said she can even die for him while in Nigeria oh

Geovanni412:


A bad person is a bad person

My mum gave one of my uncles 50k back in 1998.

She had an acct balance of 70k overall in her acct.

When the trip abroad no work, she asked for a refund.

My uncle turned around and asked her, "Did I give you a receipt?"

That was the end of the matter.

The worst people that can show you shege are family members.

You can't retaliate because everyone go dey beg you to free am.

thesicilian:

I guess the only thing that will change that mindset is for you to actually travel out and see for yourself

Geovanni412:


Nigerian women don't change once they get to UK

The men simply failed to read the red flags whilst they were in Nigeria.

Men wey dey UK wey get game dey control their woman wey dem sponsor enter UK plus one or two baby mamas.

E no red for everybody like that.

Elohorp:


Madam if you actually pay attention in the topic been discussed you will know that hotel is a typing error

Elohorp:


Actually they don't tell her anything,she came to Nigeria of recent, after many yeard,no one dey talk because Nigerians love money first and foremost, throw little money around they will not be able to confront the person no matter how bad the person is


I am a woman my husband took me aboard,I have made him very very happy,and even if he sees you today,guy he will boldlt tell you to your face that he never regrets it unlike the multiple relatives he carried their that only caused him trouble and wasted his efforts ,I know them even to greet him good morning they can't,some even told him that they are now all equals,so please don't preach what you don't fully understand in this life everyone will have different life experiences

Iamicekid:


That’s your own husband family ooo na them get craze and I do know what I’m talking about, my father send his brother who was the last born of the family abroad, now him don carry 2 of my brothers one of them don even marry born kids even became a citizen before our uncle but them no born am well make my uncle call any of them once make them no answer twice

Elohorp:


Different people different stories,that's why you need to talk with respect, your manner of approach matters, saying that carrying a wife is stupid or whatever doesn't make sense because you saw some story online,so if your sisters husband abandoned her here and went aboard would you be happy?
Or even your daughter?

The story you just told me now is a not because of gender or relationship but appreciative spirit

Iamicekid:


Appreciative spirit or not I will still stand on my saying that it’s still better for a man to send his brother or sister abroad as long as they shared the same parent than make he send any other woman I rest my case

Elohorp:


Well that advice is for you,I only pray you stick to the opinion when it comes to your own sisters and your daughters husband,they should take their relatives and leave them here, please don't fight them or don't even talk
I rest my case

Iamicekid:


That’s what families are for, my sis got sent to the uk by my 2 bro and myself we don’t have to wait for a man to help her, why will I ever be mad or fight on how someone choose to spend his money, that outright entitlement mentality, we don’t do that here

Beverlyjean:



Reason I also put hospital

Back to what u said... so how that making up 45% of international students in the medical field , result to Nigerians making up 25% of the entire medical workforce in America??

Elohorp:


Different people different stories,that's why you need to talk with respect, your manner of approach matters, saying that carrying a wife is stupid or whatever doesn't make sense because you saw some story online,so if your sisters husband abandoned her here and went aboard would you be happy?
Or even your daughter?

The story you just told me now is a not because of gender or relationship but appreciative spirit

Geovanni412:


There is not enough evidence to support either view

If the woman doesn't really like the man, going abroad is the ultimate opportunity for her to get rid of him

The reverse is the case if the woman likes the man

Either way, I'd advise any man/woman to prepare himself/herself for divorce if he/she is to get married or stay married abroad

Reason is this...the richer of the two couples is the one who pays child support and sometimes, albeit rarely, this happens to be the woman.

Elohorp:


Say not richer of two couples oh,there's more than that involved

And yes you are Right,there is no enough evidence to support any if the two views,each should do what's pleasing to him but no one should spoil any mans mind concerning his wife I stand by that firmly

Geovanni412:


Could you expand a bit more on the bolded?

Elohorp:


Please this is all stories

alphaNomega:


oga, if you had to pick a dishwashing job in the UK or 47m naira to buga in nigeria, what are you picking?

Obierika:


Advocate for abroadians i sight you

thesicilian:

Definitely the 47m, no cap.
I want to live like a king in my country
And visit abroad once in a while