mrwils:


WHAT IS THE BIG REASON SINCERE ANSWERS PLEASE!!!

mrwils:

why do nigerian men treat their wives with so much hatred and cruelty but treat the woman outside like a queen,i don't get it.

guys don't take it personal here but am being frank with my question coz alot of married woman are crying and smiling same time
coz they have no choice,you are married to a man that neglet and treat u like u don't exist why?they will not take care of their homes, they are never there for their wives prefer to spend time with women outside,provide more for them than their wives,pay more attension to gurls that are dating two or three men same time. A man that is blessed with a beautiful wife and kids,things are going well for you i believe u have been favoured by GOD,then your obligations are to love and cherish what GOD has given to you.The Bible does say in Galatians 6:7-8, “Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.”

The Bible says in Song of Solomon 8:7, “Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if a man would give all the substance of his house for love, it would utterly be contemned.” There are many good reasons to get married: for companionship and friendship, to have children, and to satisfy your physical and emotional needs of love. These are all good reasons that God created for marriage. so why suffer and neglet the woman you ones told "i love you",she hardly sees her husband,he talks to his girlfriends in her presence not even a little respect for her,calls the shorts the way he likes like she does not exist,women can not commit adultery like the way men do it with free mind,why don't they value and treat their women with respect alot use culture to subdue them with the fact that they are men and is meant to be so,

WHAT IS THE BIG REASON SINCERE ANSWERS PLEASE!!!

why do nigerian men treat their wives with so much hatred and cruelty but treat the woman outside like a queen,i don't get it.

guys don't take it personal here but am being frank with my question coz alot of married woman are crying and smiling same time
coz they have no choice,you are married to a man that neglet and treat u like u don't exist why?they will not take care of their homes, they are never there for their wives prefer to spend time with women outside,provide more for them than their wives,pay more attension to gurls that are dating two or three men same time. A man that is blessed with a beautiful wife and kids,things are going well for you i believe u have been favoured by GOD,then your obligations are to love and cherish what GOD has given to you.The Bible does say in Galatians 6:7-8, “Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.”

The Bible says in Song of Solomon 8:7, “Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if a man would give all the substance of his house for love, it would utterly be contemned.” There are many good reasons to get married: for companionship and friendship, to have children, and to satisfy your physical and emotional needs of love. These are all good reasons that God created for marriage. so why suffer and neglet the woman you ones told "i love you",she hardly sees her husband,he talks to his girlfriends in her presence not even a little respect for her,calls the shorts the way he likes like she does not exist,women can not commit adultery like the way men do it with free mind,why don't they value and treat their women with respect alot use culture to subdue them with the fact that they are men and is meant to be so,

WHAT IS THE BIG REASON SINCERE ANSWERS PLEASE!!!

if you are s1lly fat and unattractive with tonns of folds and refuse to work out, no need to blame your husband, it is a natural phenomenon loads of hotties out there.

if you fall into the cadre of not noticing the presence of your husband except the kids and yourself; reap your own evil

if you shout like you work part time in a recording studio without showing respect to your husband and kids; who wont avoid you?

if you spend your evenings attending one Mid week service to Friday functions when dinner should be served;well, he never bargained for FAO relief job

if you think that by sleeping in the church and memorizing verses from the bible will erode the fact that you fu.cked married men during your hay days ("old things have passed away" indeed); just reap your evil in a thousand fold not even prayer can save you.

if you trapped your husband with pregnancy before marriage; well, he has gone back to his wife.

if you trapped him with juju; sorry he has found christ.

if none of the above applies and he still misbehaves, then hire a psychiatrist and prepare him for deliverance immediately

hope i am honest enough.

i have a colleague that refers to his wife as "that one" you can imagine the marital hell fire  

why do nigerian men treat their wives with so much hatred and cruelty but treat the woman outside like a queen,i don't get it.

guys don't take it personal here but am being frank with my question coz alot of married woman are crying and smiling same time
coz they have no choice,you are married to a man that neglet and treat u like u don't exist why?they will not take care of their homes, they are never there for their wives prefer to spend time with women outside,provide more for them than their wives,pay more attension to gurls that are dating two or three men same time. A man that is blessed with a beautiful wife and kids,things are going well for you i believe u have been favoured by GOD,then your obligations are to love and cherish what GOD has given to you.The Bible does say in Galatians 6:7-8, “Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.”

The Bible says in Song of Solomon 8:7, “Many waters cannot quench love, neither can the floods drown it: if a man would give all the substance of his house for love, it would utterly be contemned.” There are many good reasons to get married: for companionship and friendship, to have children, and to satisfy your physical and emotional needs of love. These are all good reasons that God created for marriage. so why suffer and neglet the woman you ones told "i love you",she hardly sees her husband,he talks to his girlfriends in her presence not even a little respect for her,calls the shorts the way he likes like she does not exist,women can not commit adultery like the way men do it with free mind,why don't they value and treat their women with respect alot use culture to subdue them with the fact that they are men and is meant to be so,

WHAT IS THE BIG REASON SINCERE ANSWERS PLEASE!!!

if you are s1lly fat and unattractive with tonns of folds and refuse to work out, no need to blame your husband, it is a natural phenomenon loads of hotties out there.

if you fall into the cadre of not noticing the presence of your husband except the kids and yourself; reap your own evil

if you shout like you work part time in a recording studio without showing respect to your husband and kids; who wont avoid you?

if you spend your evenings attending one Mid week service to Friday functions when dinner should be served;well, he never bargained for FAO relief job

if you think that by sleeping in the church and memorizing verses from the bible will erode the fact that you fu.cked married men during your hay days ("old things have passed away" indeed); just reap your evil in a thousand fold not even prayer can save you.

if you trapped your husband with pregnancy before marriage; well, he has gone back to his wife.

if you trapped him with juju; sorry he has found christ.

if none of the above applies and he still misbehaves, then hire a psychiatrist and prepare him for deliverance immediately

hope i am honest enough.

i have a colleague that refers to his wife as "that one" you can imagine the marital hell fire  

jp philips:


if you are s1lly fat and unattractive with tonns of folds and refuse to work out, no need to blame your husband, it is a natural phenomenon loads of hotties out there.

if you fall into the cadre of not noticing the presence of your husband except the kids and yourself; reap your own evil

if you shout like you work part time in a recording studio without showing respect to your husband and kids; who wont avoid you?

if you spend your evenings attending one Mid week service to Friday functions when dinner should be served;well, he never bargained for FAO relief job

if you think that by sleeping in the church and memorizing verses from the bible will erode the fact that you fu.cked married men during your hay days ("old things have passed away" indeed); just reap your evil in a thousand fold not even prayer can save you.

if you trapped your husband with pregnancy before marriage; well, he has gone back to his wife.

if you trapped him with juju; sorry he has found christ.

if none of the above applies and he still misbehaves, then hire a psychiatrist and prepare him for deliverance immediately

hope i am honest enough.

i have a colleague that refers to his wife as "that one" you can imagine the marital hell fire  

Agybabe:

It happens when you married the wrong man, the one God has not destined for you. But I pray I don't come across that kinda man.

jp philips:


if you are s1lly fat and unattractive with tonns of folds and refuse to work out, no need to blame your husband, it is a natural phenomenon loads of hotties out there.

if you fall into the cadre of not noticing the presence of your husband except the kids and yourself; reap your own evil

if you shout like you work part time in a recording studio without showing respect to your husband and kids; who wont avoid you?

if you spend your evenings attending one Mid week service to Friday functions when dinner should be served;well, he never bargained for FAO relief job

if you think that by sleeping in the church and memorizing verses from the bible will erode the fact that you fu.cked married men during your hay days ("old things have passed away" indeed); just reap your evil in a thousand fold not even prayer can save you.

if you trapped your husband with pregnancy before marriage; well, he has gone back to his wife.

if you trapped him with juju; sorry he has found christ.

if none of the above applies and he still misbehaves, then hire a psychiatrist and prepare him for deliverance immediately

hope i am honest enough.

i have a colleague that refers to his wife as "that one" you can imagine the marital hell fire  

kody-licky:

some of d ladies may have slept with someone's husband in their youth and they just being repaid by nature.

seriously its becoming a normal trend among many Nigerian men: cheating on their wives.

gonzaga:

@ Poster, this should not be a blanket generalization as there are still a few good men around. As I type this reply, I am cooking cos am on vacation and my wifey has gone to work. We have been married for 3 years and we have 2 kids and I have never cheated on her. I knw there are men also that have never cheated on their wives. Both of us are bankers and we try to help out with chores as much as time permits.

My wifey in particular is a special type. She is not the stingy and nagging type and she's always willing and ready to help even with huge financial commitments. Because I run an online masters programme, the fees sometimes throw my account into red. At such times, she just comes around and wisphers those soothing words:"I knw hw much u have spent, dont worry I will take care of the expenses for this month" This type of comment gingers me to even do well so that I can get a mind blogging offer after my masters. How many women in Nigeria today are ready to do this?

Sexually she satisfies me and even indulges my fantasies. the only thing we have mutually agreed never to try out is the BehindBased stuff. She respects, adores and supports me in all ramifications. Our quarrels have never gone physical but just verbal disagreements. I feel even God will not be happy with me if I cheat on this rare gem!

The thing is that most women fail to understand their man. A man wants to be the man, and will naturally differ to the person that makes him feel like a man! When women begin to understand this, this adultrous attitude will greatly decrease. Though it's not easy, it easier to be faithful to a woman that respects and adores u!

sometime it is wrong for us to be looking for the cure of a disease instead of looking 4 d cause, some women are evil, they turned their husband to whatever they are, some frustrated their partner to that extent, can you imagine a wife after swearing with Bible at the altar that she will submit herself including her body to her husband but often deny her husband sex, one major purpose of marriage, some men does not have the grace of enduring this, they end up try it somewhere, and you must know that because the woman outside knows she has rival she will give the best  to satisfy him different styles, in the process  you've allow him to have a better taste, what do you expect? the Bible Says in the book of Prov. 14:1 "a wise women builds her own house, but foolish pull it down with her own hand" Sex among other issues cause these things, i do not ague that some men are not wicked but I tell you no matter whom a man is that thing called Sex is a strong power woman has to control her husband, and when a man loose the grip another woman take over the grip and control her husband usually not to her favors.

jp philips:

pls help me ask the poster whether the mistress is not a woman. I can understand a man's indifference to his family because of career but i don't understand it when another woman is involved, or perhaps the mistress has two heads, just wondering

As if, if you are eating only pounded yam, person no dey tire to eat the same pounded yam everyday forever!!!!!! the men (who are promiscuous and useless) would always try something else even if they have a QUEEN, in the house.  Till the one outside uses juju on them and buries their head (men) between her thighs.

godman01:

Doesn't happen in every relationship.