I got married when I was 19 and my husband was 20. Now I’m 25 and he’s 26 and we have two kids (5 and 3).

Four years ago, while I was pregnant with my second son I found out he had an onlyfans account and it really upset me. I made my boundaries clear and explained that I was not okay with this because he’s paying them, but I was still okay with porn. Then a couple months later I found out he was still using onlyfans and on top of it had subscribed to one of my friend’s onlyfans. I talked to him again and explained that I would leave him over this. Another couple months go by and he’s STILL using onlyfans. At this point he had spent like $500 on it and I was obviously upset. I ended up leaving him and moving out with my two kids. A year went by of coparenting and eventually we talked it through and ended up back together. A couple months into being together I saw he had made on subscription to onlyfans, so I confronted him. He apologized and I was so confused because I literally just moved back with him so I ignored it that time.

It’s been one year since then and earlier this week I found out that he got an email from onlyfans. The email said his subscription was ending so I ended up changing the password and getting into his account. Turns out for all of 2023 he’s been subscribing to onlyfans. When I confronted him, he was just kind of listening but had nothing to say. I told him I needed to think and have no confronted him since.

The issue is in all other ways he’s a pretty decent partner. He drives me everywhere because he knows I don’t like to. He cleans, takes care of the kids, works. But I just can’t understand why he has to keep doing this and at this point I feel like I almost have to leave bc he clearly is not respecting me or my boundaries. On the other hand it would suck to leave because he’s my bestfriend and I love him and I’ve never really had to do life without him.

He does not find you attractive again and already addicted to the young and beautiful ones.

You will need to repackage and prove to him you still game.

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He does not find you attractive again and already addicted to the young and beautiful ones.

You will need to repackage and prove to him you still game.

Her husband is technically cheating with women online and wasting family resources but you are blaming the victim...ko proper naa.....

Most tym porn help young men like we to avoid sleeping with other gender physically. Ideological it will be nice to play unaware and remain hopeful that with time he will outgrow this behaviour and remember you can support him since he's active on his role as a husband which have produced 2 kids.
Stay unaware and be supportive.

Try Tame him quickly before he start to use your daughter shoot Castedraw home video

So Monica, you still get mind carry this come online after all the begie begie.

Longdon1:
I got married when I was 19 and my husband was 20. Now I’m 25 and he’s 26 and we have two kids (5 and 3).

Four years ago, while I was pregnant with my second son I found out he had an onlyfans account and it really upset me. I made my boundaries clear and explained that I was not okay with this because he’s paying them, but I was still okay with porn. Then a couple months later I found out he was still using onlyfans and on top of it had subscribed to one of my friend’s onlyfans. I talked to him again and explained that I would leave him over this. Another couple months go by and he’s STILL using onlyfans. At this point he had spent like $500 on it and I was obviously upset. I ended up leaving him and moving out with my two kids. A year went by of coparenting and eventually we talked it through and ended up back together. A couple months into being together I saw he had made on subscription to onlyfans, so I confronted him. He apologized and I was so confused because I literally just moved back with him so I ignored it that time.

It’s been one year since then and earlier this week I found out that he got an email from onlyfans. The email said his subscription was ending so I ended up changing the password and getting into his account. Turns out for all of 2023 he’s been subscribing to onlyfans. When I confronted him, he was just kind of listening but had nothing to say. I told him I needed to think and have no confronted him since.

The issue is in all other ways he’s a pretty decent partner. He drives me everywhere because he knows I don’t like to. He cleans, takes care of the kids, works. But I just can’t understand why he has to keep doing this and at this point I feel like I almost have to leave bc he clearly is not respecting me or my boundaries. On the other hand it would suck to leave because he’s my bestfriend and I love him and I’ve never really had to do life without him.

So with all these good qualities, na onlyfans be your problem? At least he is not cheating outside. Women have varieties of toys and men have to stomach that but that he spends his own money to wash some nude girl pisses you off?
He didn't stop fucking you or taking care of the bills or whatever and you still have an issue with his fetish?

WTF?

Maybe God is punishing you ... You might have wrecked someone's home in the past and didn't see anything wrong with it " allegedly" and maybe the chicken have come home to roost.

advanceDNA:


Her husband is technically cheating with women online and wasting family resources but you are blaming the victim...ko proper naa.....

So when women use dildos and toys, ain't they cheating on their partners, TECHNICALLY? shebi you wan form say you get talk ni..oya na..let's go there.

Family resources? He spent his own money and nowhere in the story was it told that he lacked in his duties.

WTF?

luminouz:

So when women use dildos and toys, ain't they cheating on their partners, TECHNICALLY? shebi you wan form say you get talk ni..oya na..let's go there.

Family resources? He spent his own money and nowhere in the story was it told that he lacked in his duties.

WTF?

Ur argument is way off point....No person can be be comfortable with their partner sharing time and money with other people online or offline....nit even you......so i dont get what ur argument is about calling it his money....

Wateva u are doing that is affecting ur home and partner needs to be reviewed if u want the relationship to stand...weda its dildós or porn, or only fans.......that's what's called compromise in relationships....not blaming the other person....

The only thing I understands here is that you're always checking your husband's phone


Well, it's good, I'll only advise you to find a ways to manage your anxieties and more of minding your beautiful family


When ever you decide to dig, definitely you must dig up something unpleasant

So, Pray for your husband, both of you are very young

He can over come it with your help, not with threats

advanceDNA:


Her husband is technically cheating with women online and wasting family resources but you are blaming the victim...ko proper naa.....

The man is buying sexual pleasure he cannot get at home. What else should he do? Other men would have married a second wife.

advanceDNA:


Ur argument is way off point....No person can be be comfortable with their partner sharing time and money with other people online or offline....nit even you......so i dont get what ur argument is about calling it his money....

Wateva u are doing that is affecting ur home and partner needs to be reviewed if u want the relationship to stand...weda its dildós or porn, or only fans.......that's what's called compromise in relationships....not blaming the other person....

Nah!! You are the sentimental one here. Dude has absolutely nothing to apologize for. I'm sure the wife uses Fleshlight too.

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The man is buying sexual pleasure he cannot get at home. What else should he do? Other men would have married a second wife.

Buying sexual pleasure he can't get at home

.. he told u this ??
Or u just dived into conclusion??
Or that's the reason u persinally pay only fans women online so u automatically assume thats also the man's reason....

luminouz:

Nah!! You are the sentimental one here. Dude has absolutely nothing to apologize for. I'm sure the wife and Fleshlight too.

Nigga if u wañk ur dick and pay women online and ur wife says she's not cool with it....tell her to fvck off that she doesn't have point...

And if ur wife does same...I hope u'll be happy

advanceDNA:

Buying sexual pleasure he can't get at home

.. he told u this ??
Or u just dived into conclusion??
Or that's the reason u persinally pay only fans women online so u automatically assume thats also the man's reason....

Do you spend on what you don’t need? I believe we talking about sexual pleasure here, and that makes it easy for me to conclude.

A man has a wife at home and spending on only fans? What do you feel he is trying to get in return?

advanceDNA:


Nigga if u self-service ur dick and pay women online and ur wife says she's not cool with it....tell her to fvck off that she doesn't have point...

And if ur wife does same...I hope u'll be happy

Exactly my point!!!!

Women masturbate and we don't kill them do we?
That woman should let her husband have his fetish. So long he sleeps with her, take care of kids and all that. At least...he is not fucking some random ass woman outside. It's called compromise too

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Do you spend on what you don’t need? I believe we talking about sexual pleasure here, and that makes it easy for me to conclude.

A man has a wife at home and spending on only fans? What do you feel he is trying to get in return?

In case u don't know..pple buy what they don't need...in fact, pple buy what kills them....

Its lack of discipline and addiction that makes someone have a wife and look for women online that hundreds of other men are sleeping with and pouring sperms on....

Maybe u need to be reminded that Pple that commit adultery have wife and some even have wives at home....... nothing is missing .. it's an indiscipline problem

luminouz:

Exactly my point!!!!

Women masturbate and we don't kill them do we?
That woman should let her husband have his fetish. So long he sleeps with her, take care of kids and all that. At least...he is not fucking some random ass woman outside. It's called compromise too

Did she complain of masturbation....what's are u even saying?? Will u take it if ur wife pays men online that make her cumm??

U don't know what is called compromise... U are just out of point and feel like throwing back what u saw

advanceDNA:


Did she complain of masturbation....what's are u even saying?? Will u take it if ur wife pays men online that make her cumm??

U don't know what is called compromise... U are just out of point and feel like throwing back what u saw

Lol..to be candid I guess I am not seeing it from your perspective. I am seeing it from a fetish angle. He has no problem fûcking his wife right...or providing for his family? He has a fetish he needs once in awhile. What you can say that's not proper is if he spends so much time and money on Onlyfans that it affects his time and providing for his family.

Your husband need help,if you love him you should help him. If you believe in prayer do it for him,he will change before he turn 40. Or visit a therapist. You also need help. You dont dump loved once when they need help.

so itz affecting his marriage this way so itz an addiction so ur love has to die except he must chat me up so we can address the addiction
so u can av less 2 worry about



u cant be hating urself 2 luv sumone else so ur mental health has 2 be of concern 2 me but u cant be my wife so u might av to disregard dis cuz u may not be able 2 leave him nor convince him 2 chat me up

so can u marry or befriend another guy except me or him 4 certain reasons ?


am not even ready 2 marry anything or anyone 4 now


let me be sure of what am doing b4 that

in fact, i might neva get married.


no factor iz more important than the other in marriage

age, finance,health, etc

luminouz:


Lol..to be candid I guess I am not seeing it from your perspective. I am seeing it from a fetish angle. He has no problem fûcking his wife right...or providing for his family? He has a fetish he needs once in awhile. What you can say that's not proper is if he spends so much time and money on Onlyfans that it affects his time and providing for his family.

I don't know if he has a problem fvcking his wife...the story did not say??

U have still not answered..... Will u be cool as u are expecting her to be cool if ur wife is striping in front of men online and paying them to make her cum?? It's just fetish??
As long as she's a "good wife"....??

He is gone. Forget it. It's either you 4get it and manage him or leave. Your choice

Longdon1:
I got married when I was 19 and my husband was 20. Now I’m 25 and he’s 26 and we have two kids (5 and 3).

Four years ago, while I was pregnant with my second son I found out he had an onlyfans account and it really upset me. I made my boundaries clear and explained that I was not okay with this because he’s paying them, but I was still okay with porn. Then a couple months later I found out he was still using onlyfans and on top of it had subscribed to one of my friend’s onlyfans. I talked to him again and explained that I would leave him over this. Another couple months go by and he’s STILL using onlyfans. At this point he had spent like $500 on it and I was obviously upset. I ended up leaving him and moving out with my two kids. A year went by of coparenting and eventually we talked it through and ended up back together. A couple months into being together I saw he had made on subscription to onlyfans, so I confronted him. He apologized and I was so confused because I literally just moved back with him so I ignored it that time.

It’s been one year since then and earlier this week I found out that he got an email from onlyfans. The email said his subscription was ending so I ended up changing the password and getting into his account. Turns out for all of 2023 he’s been subscribing to onlyfans. When I confronted him, he was just kind of listening but had nothing to say. I told him I needed to think and have no confronted him since.

The issue is in all other ways he’s a pretty decent partner. He drives me everywhere because he knows I don’t like to. He cleans, takes care of the kids, works. But I just can’t understand why he has to keep doing this and at this point I feel like I almost have to leave bc he clearly is not respecting me or my boundaries. On the other hand it would suck to leave because he’s my bestfriend and I love him and I’ve never really had to do life without him.

Longdon1:
I got married when I was 19 and my husband was 20. Now I’m 25 and he’s 26 and we have two kids (5 and 3).

Four years ago, while I was pregnant with my second son I found out he had an onlyfans account and it really upset me. I made my boundaries clear and explained that I was not okay with this because he’s paying them, but I was still okay with porn. Then a couple months later I found out he was still using onlyfans and on top of it had subscribed to one of my friend’s onlyfans. I talked to him again and explained that I would leave him over this. Another couple months go by and he’s STILL using onlyfans. At this point he had spent like $500 on it and I was obviously upset. I ended up leaving him and moving out with my two kids. A year went by of coparenting and eventually we talked it through and ended up back together. A couple months into being together I saw he had made on subscription to onlyfans, so I confronted him. He apologized and I was so confused because I literally just moved back with him so I ignored it that time.

It’s been one year since then and earlier this week I found out that he got an email from onlyfans. The email said his subscription was ending so I ended up changing the password and getting into his account. Turns out for all of 2023 he’s been subscribing to onlyfans. When I confronted him, he was just kind of listening but had nothing to say. I told him I needed to think and have no confronted him since.

The issue is in all other ways he’s a pretty decent partner. He drives me everywhere because he knows I don’t like to. He cleans, takes care of the kids, works. But I just can’t understand why he has to keep doing this and at this point I feel like I almost have to leave bc he clearly is not respecting me or my boundaries. On the other hand it would suck to leave because he’s my bestfriend and I love him and I’ve never really had to do life without him.

Bro Was wrong wit watchin blue film?...are u not nomal sir?
Brother why are u gay?((((no oofencsece))))

Pshew

Longdon1:
I got married when I was 19 and my husband was 20. Now I’m 25 and he’s 26 and we have two kids (5 and 3).

Four years ago, while I was pregnant with my second son I found out he had an onlyfans account and it really upset me. I made my boundaries clear and explained that I was not okay with this because he’s paying them, but I was still okay with porn. Then a couple months later I found out he was still using onlyfans and on top of it had subscribed to one of my friend’s onlyfans. I talked to him again and explained that I would leave him over this. Another couple months go by and he’s STILL using onlyfans. At this point he had spent like $500 on it and I was obviously upset. I ended up leaving him and moving out with my two kids. A year went by of coparenting and eventually we talked it through and ended up back together. A couple months into being together I saw he had made on subscription to onlyfans, so I confronted him. He apologized and I was so confused because I literally just moved back with him so I ignored it that time.

It’s been one year since then and earlier this week I found out that he got an email from onlyfans. The email said his subscription was ending so I ended up changing the password and getting into his account. Turns out for all of 2023 he’s been subscribing to onlyfans. When I confronted him, he was just kind of listening but had nothing to say. I told him I needed to think and have no confronted him since.

The issue is in all other ways he’s a pretty decent partner. He drives me everywhere because he knows I don’t like to. He cleans, takes care of the kids, works. But I just can’t understand why he has to keep doing this and at this point I feel like I almost have to leave bc he clearly is not respecting me or my boundaries. On the other hand it would suck to leave because he’s my bestfriend and I love him and I’ve never really had to do life without him.

Which Nigerian dey pay for OnlyFans?

Ndi ara!

It will only take deliverance to cast out the spirit that has taken over him, he can't stop on his own, even he would want to stop, but he's helpless. He gave room for the strange spirit to dwell in him.

He seriously needs deliverance to cast out the strange spirit and for the true spirit to dwell back in him.

advanceDNA:


I don't know if he has a problem fvcking his wife...the story did not say??

U have still not answered..... Will u be cool as u are expecting her to be cool if ur wife is striping in front of men online and paying them to make her cum?? It's just fetish??
As long as she's a "good wife"....??

Your question is not logically/realistically placed. Let me help you. You are looking at it emotionally.

First offs, women don't pay online for anything sexual like that, men do. Secondly, women have toys. They will rather use toys.

So, your question should be, 'will you be comfortable if your wife uses toys in your presence?'

My reply: Of course I will be. Toys don't threaten my manhood. If she feels she needs more orgasm and I'm tired, she can go ahead and satisfy herself. I don't mind😊😊😊

In both cases, nobody cheated on anybody physically but you can make a case for emotional cheating. So you see, OP's wife may feel cheated on emotionally hence her rants but most women would rather their men watch porn than have a side-chick, or financially irresponsible or violent to them and their kids.

Defender of the universe defending rubbish 🤣🤣🤣