My Girlfriend Is Playing With My Feelings – What Should I Do?

Hello Everyone,
Hope your day is going well?

A frustrated Nigerian man needs your advice concerning this girl he likes that is using his feelings to play lawn tennis.

Hello guys I need your advice I met a girl ask her out so she told me she have a Boyfriend but her boyfriend doesn’t take the relationship serious reason because he tell lies and womanize alot…. she don’t want to continue the relationship with him anymore…

So, I convince her that my own time with her will be different from her boyfriend and she accepted me and we started the relationship the relationship was going well smooth and nice along the line she requested for some money and also she asked me to get her a new phone because the phone was bad so for the sake of love and care I have for her I provided her the money she requested and also provide her a better phone.

Recently, she begin to act up somehow whenever I called her on phone telling her that I would like to see her she will say she’s busy, she’s always busy so I begin to suspect her that was happening so during the weekend she told me that her ex-boyfriend is back again and both of them were together when she was telling me she’s busy because she doesn’t want her ex to know what is happening that was the reason so she told me was was busy with work.

So she pleaded that we should end the relationship we just started, since we have been dating I have spent money on her and I have also get her a better phone.

My question now the phone I bought for her should I collect it back or I should leave the phone with her let her go with it and continue her relationship with her former guy.

Leave her and sustain your feelings the best way you can

You got played by a hungry Nigerian girl...what a shame


I would have offered ways to retrieve the phone, but you're SIMPly amazing and I have no pity for people like you.

Play with her feelings too

kmaster007:
My Girlfriend Is Playing With My Feelings – What Should I Do?
Hello Everyone,
Hope your day is going well?
A frustrated Nigerian man needs your advice concerning this girl he likes that is using his feelings to play lawn tennis.
Hello guys I need your advice I met a girl ask her out so she told me she have a Boyfriend but her boyfriend doesn’t take the relationship serious reason because he tell lies and womanize alot…. she don’t want to continue the relationship with him anymore…
So, I convince her that my own time with her will be different from her boyfriend and she accepted me and we started the relationship the relationship was going well smooth and nice along the line she requested for some money and also she asked me to get her a new phone because the phone was bad so for the sake of love and care I have for her I provided her the money she requested and also provide her a better phone.
Recently, she begin to act up somehow whenever I called her on phone telling her that I would like to see her she will say she’s busy, she’s always busy so I begin to suspect her that was happening so during the weekend she told me that her ex-boyfriend is back again and both of them were together when she was telling me she’s busy because she doesn’t want her ex to know what is happening that was the reason so she told me was was busy with work.
So she pleaded that we should end the relationship we just started, since we have been dating I have spent money on her and I have also get her a better phone.
My question now the phone I bought for her should I collect it back or I should leave the phone with her let her go with it and continue her relationship with her former guy.

the problem is not your yeye imaginary GF, the problem is your mumu self,,, so many red flags:
- the babe already had a boyfriend yet you believed the nonsense she was telling you
- if her BF was so bad then why she didnt drop him?
- what love are you talking about, when you barely know anything about this stranger?
- you got played like a mumu... accept it and go get your damn phone back
- how many times are you gonna bring that same old story of yours to NL?

Collect your feelings back so she won't play with it...

Rubbish 🗑🚮,

Damnnn niggar

Another simpleton

How much is the phone?

Is this a recycled story cause have read something similar in this same forum.

My advice is that since you decide to be a simp cause of love just count you losses and move on.no dey mumu yourself cause of love.

To slap you dey hungry me seriously 😒

Should we tell him?

Used and dumped....that's what u re

Lo..loudest..this is really funny.. How much is the phone and how many times did you shine her congo? I wan calculate something...

THE GIRL HAVE PLAYED U A LOCAL SCAM AND U FELL FOR IT..FROM THE BEGINING, SHE HAS SEEN U LIKE A MUGU,SO THEREFORE SHE USED THE OPPORTUNITY..LOL

You can ask the Minister of Sports for permission to use the National Stadium, Abuja.

It will be spacious, I believe, with more state of the art facilities. It will enable her play with your feelings very well.

You must get that phone back. Its a must. Get that phone back.

Ordinary girl is frustrating you?

kmaster007:
My Girlfriend Is Playing With My Feelings – What Should I Do?

Hello Everyone,
Hope your day is going well?

A frustrated Nigerian man needs your advice concerning this girl he likes that is using his feelings to play lawn tennis.

Hello guys I need your advice I met a girl ask her out so she told me she have a Boyfriend but her boyfriend doesn’t take the relationship serious reason because he tell lies and womanize alot…. she don’t want to continue the relationship with him anymore…

So, I convince her that my own time with her will be different from her boyfriend and she accepted me and we started the relationship the relationship was going well smooth and nice along the line she requested for some money and also she asked me to get her a new phone because the phone was bad so for the sake of love and care I have for her I provided her the money she requested and also provide her a better phone.

Recently, she begin to act up somehow whenever I called her on phone telling her that I would like to see her she will say she’s busy, she’s always busy so I begin to suspect her that was happening so during the weekend she told me that her ex-boyfriend is back again and both of them were together when she was telling me she’s busy because she doesn’t want her ex to know what is happening that was the reason so she told me was was busy with work.

So she pleaded that we should end the relationship we just started, since we have been dating I have spent money on her and I have also get her a better phone.

My question now the phone I bought for her should I collect it back or I should leave the phone with her let her go with it and continue her relationship with her former guy.

If your fellow man ask you of 1k now, you will never agree that you have money talkless of giving him⚠️

Now a loose Nigerian girl within weeks scammed you a brand new phone and cash without issues and you're here talking about your feelings🙄

I'm not even sure your biological mum done see 10k for your hand before....... Because you simps are only generous with hoes only♂️

Yet you even have the fortitude to seek advice from us!!!

Oga you're MAD💯

Collect your phone let the ex get her a new phone. Honestly some of you guys dey try sha loving girls that doesn't reciprocate the same feelings.

kmaster007:

My question now the phone I bought for her should I collect it back or I should leave the phone with her let her go with it and continue her relationship with her former guy.

You don't need to bother her about the phone. You v done it for God. Relax, she might v a change of heart and remember you were nice.
Also, don't bother her on coming to visit you.
She ll develop feelings naturally and that's the sweetest. She might v trauma burning in her heart that's why.
Take care.

Zonefree:
You got played by a hungry Nigerian girl...what a shame


I would have offered ways to retrieve the phone, but you're SIMPly amazing and I have no pity for people like you.

Na advice e need no be fight 😂😂😂

kmaster007:
My Girlfriend Is Playing With My Feelings – What Should I Do?

Hello Everyone,
Hope your day is going well?

A frustrated Nigerian man needs your advice concerning this girl he likes that is using his feelings to play lawn tennis.

Hello guys I need your advice I met a girl ask her out so she told me she have a Boyfriend but her boyfriend doesn’t take the relationship serious reason because he tell lies and womanize alot…. she don’t want to continue the relationship with him anymore…

So, I convince her that my own time with her will be different from her boyfriend and she accepted me and we started the relationship the relationship was going well smooth and nice along the line she requested for some money and also she asked me to get her a new phone because the phone was bad so for the sake of love and care I have for her I provided her the money she requested and also provide her a better phone.

Recently, she begin to act up somehow whenever I called her on phone telling her that I would like to see her she will say she’s busy, she’s always busy so I begin to suspect her that was happening so during the weekend she told me that her ex-boyfriend is back again and both of them were together when she was telling me she’s busy because she doesn’t want her ex to know what is happening that was the reason so she told me was was busy with work.

So she pleaded that we should end the relationship we just started, since we have been dating I have spent money on her and I have also get her a better phone.

My question now the phone I bought for her should I collect it back or I should leave the phone with her let her go with it and continue her relationship with her former guy.

My own advice, when going into relationship what are going into the relationship for.... relationship is beyond beauty..... there are so many beautiful out there.....

You should have invested the money......in something...
Girls are so many, don't allow them do you any how....
Please collect your phone back sir, you can sell it....
But if it's in a charitable donations, you can leave it,at least you helped a Nigerian...

Relationship should be based on improving you, not depleting you

It’s pretty easy - once you realize a girl is playing with your feelings for fun, you either call her out on it - and then cut her off.

Or you just cut her off.

I’d do the first option, just because I’d like to see her reaction and hear her justifications.

But I’d cut her off either way.