FRANCISTOWN:

I have useful things to do with my life rather than waste my life having sex

Your desperate cries and lamentations already show that you have wasted your life, so fulfil your words and generously give him your wife or wives.

Here.

Kindly dig your grave down so that your family will not spend much for your funeral

It is nothing more than daring forbidden act. The same way people get thrill from cheating death.

Some of this guys are not even attracted to single or unattached girl until the girls belong to a close friends or relatives.

The status of the boyfriend or husband is also a factor. Sometimes, lower status like the wifes of subordinates.

Nothing hurts women or men more than sleeping with their subordinates

Different people different tastes.