So I met this girl, beautiful and hard working. She told me she had a bf, but complained that he cheated all the time. We decided to go out as friends one time, and then kept meeting up, and slowly we began talking on the phone everyday. Feelings started to grow and so I confessed I wanted to be more than just friends, but she ducked the subject. As time passed, she told me she liked me, but was confused, she then stopped talking relationship and never responded to any questions. Once I tried to hug her good bye and she sidestepped me, and just walked away. Despite this, I know she likes me, but am not sure if i should be pursuing a girl with a bf. Some advice pls nairaland. Am I wasting my time? Or should I go for broke and ask her to break up with her bf so we can be together? I feel guilty asking her to break up with her bf, cos she refuses to talk about him, so besides the cheating I don't know what she thinks of the guy.

you want her to beak up with her bf so she can be with you shey??
Bro,if she leaves her bf for you,she's sure gon leave you for someone else pretty soon.it's a simple working of life. what goes around comes back around.
Leave the poor girl alone and stop messing with her emotions.
Go out and go find your own girl.the land is green.

Cine:

So I met this girl, beautiful and hard working. She told me she had a bf, but complained that he cheated all the time. We decided to go out as friends one time, and then kept meeting up, and slowly we began talking on the phone everyday. Feelings started to grow and so I confessed I wanted to be more than just friends, but she ducked the subject. As time passed,  she told me she liked me, but was confused, she then stopped talking relationship and never responded to any questions. Once I tried to hug her good bye and she sidestepped me, and just walked away. Despite this, I know she likes me, but am not sure if i should be pursuing a girl with a bf. Some advice pls nairaland. Am I wasting my time? Or should I go for broke and ask her to break up with her bf so we can be together? I feel guilty asking her to break up with her bf, cos she refuses to talk about him, so besides the cheating I don't know what she thinks of the guy.

AHAHAHAHAHAHAHHHAHAA *echoing laughter*

I already know where this is going.

She keeps complaining about her boyfriend and yet she probably keeps going back to him despite his cheating. THAT'S WHY SHE KEEPS GOING BACK TO HIM!!!

You've essentially become her g@y friend.

Cine:

So I met this girl, beautiful and hard working. She told me she had a bf, but complained that he cheated all the time. We decided to go out as friends one time, and then kept meeting up, and slowly we began talking on the phone everyday. Feelings started to grow and so I confessed I wanted to be more than just friends, but she ducked the subject. As time passed, she told me she liked me, but was confused, she then stopped talking relationship and never responded to any questions. Once I tried to hug her good bye and she sidestepped me, and just walked away. Despite this, I know she likes me, but am not sure if i should be pursuing a girl with a bf. Some advice pls nairaland. Am I wasting my time? Or should I go for broke and ask her to break up with her bf so we can be together? I feel guilty asking her to break up with her bf, cos she refuses to talk about him, so besides the cheating I don't know what she thinks of the guy.

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Get another gurl bros,thats not the way to go!

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Men that dude really passed through hell 

@OP---Leave the gal alone, she is just keeping you as plan B and possible re-bound should something go wrong with her relationship

Go 4 her,but dont come back here to complain dat ur girlfriend went back to her ex.

Don't pursue her anymore. It's up to her to leave her man for you. Do not ask her to break things off with him.


BTW, why would you be attracted to a silly girl who is tolerating a cheat. One who doesn't know what she really wants?

Plus what Dynamique said.

@op, why do u want to reap where u did nt sow?

Well I guess the advice I'm getting from everyone here is to forget about her, and to be honest, I think deep down, I agree. Like someone above said, I'm plan B or her rebound.

Cine:

Well I guess the advice I'm getting from everyone here is to forget about her, and to be honest, I think deep down, I agree. Like someone above said[b], I'm plan B [/b]or her rebound.

yes you are

Please change ur topic, ur not dating her

Real men dont snatch girls,dey get girls,u might av a re-think coz what u about doing is called snatching by style&mayb u avent heard of d inevitable law of 'KARMA'.

Cine:

Well I guess the advice I'm getting from everyone here is to forget about her, and to be honest, I think deep down, I agree. Like someone above said, I'm plan B or her rebound.

y settle for less

The answer is simple dump her and look for ur own girl. U are just a plan B a guy she runs 2 wen her bf is not around and wen he comes around she runs back 2 him so use ur head (if u gat one)

guy leave the girl and go for her sister

Dynamique:

Real men dont snatch girls,dey get girls,u might av a re-think coz what u about doing is called snatching by style&mayb u avent heard of d inevitable law of 'KARMA'.

mature word

Mynd_44:

guy leave the girl and go for her sister

Mynd_44:

guy leave the girl and go for her sister

, good plan