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| I Lost Him! by Yemmyc(f): 7:51pm On Nov 27, 2011 |
Hey peeps, jst felt lyk sharin ma pains wiv u. well, dat is if u dnt mind. I 've bin datin this guy 4 almost 2 yrs now,buh he kips on insisting on marriage which am nt yet ready 4,coz am stil an undergraduate nd stil av lng way 2 go in terms of education nd won't wnt marriage or relationship ish 2 disturb ma educational pursuit.Although he his a workin class guy who seems 2 b ready 2 settle down nd start a family,buh he is nt dat mch old (26). He finks am cheatin on him buh it wnt b easy 4 me 2 carry on dis way.He says i shld giv him a break till i've made up ma mind, i do fink i've lost him 4 gud: i told him i nid 2 sort ma self out,so i can let him in rather than push him away, i jst wish i knw d ryt step 2 take. |
| Re: I Lost Him! by 195(f): 7:53pm On Nov 27, 2011 |
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| Re: I Lost Him! by 195(f): 7:54pm On Nov 27, 2011 |
XMAS BAIL OUT Na me remain 1 Like |
| Re: I Lost Him! by Goldieluks: 7:56pm On Nov 27, 2011 |
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| Re: I Lost Him! by Yemmyc(f): 8:06pm On Nov 27, 2011 |
@190, no jokes in here. |
| Re: I Lost Him! by iyatrustee(f): 8:15pm On Nov 27, 2011 |
Just asking. How wld ur being married disturn ur educational pursuit? D only tin required here wld be understanding to delay having babies. From ur narration, d guy is 26 which means u shld be like 23 or 24 right? Guess u re still feeling like u re young and have a whole lot of time. Unless u don't love the guy enof or u want to "explore" more. |
| Re: I Lost Him! by 195(f): 8:19pm On Nov 27, 2011 |
Yemmyc:  |
| Re: I Lost Him! by slimyem: 8:25pm On Nov 27, 2011 |
hey!relationships are about compromises. If you do not want anything to affect you education,try and make him uderstand that you'd delay baby-making until you are thru or almost thru with school.if he truly loves you,he'd respect and support you. Remember,there are not so many great guys out there. |
| Re: I Lost Him! by Osama10(m): 8:26pm On Nov 27, 2011 |
190_@: |
| Re: I Lost Him! by slimyem: 8:34pm On Nov 27, 2011 |
hey!relationships are about compromises. If you do not want anything to affect you education,try and make him uderstand that you'd delay baby-making until you are thru or almost thru with school.if he truly loves you,he'd respect and support you. Remember,there are not so many great guys out there, |
| Re: I Lost Him! by 195(f): 8:35pm On Nov 27, 2011 |
slimyem: Neither are there any great girls out there inclusive of you  |
| Re: I Lost Him! by freecocoa(f): 8:40pm On Nov 27, 2011 |
Girl if you don't wanna lose this guy then you have to use your head wisely,except you are under 20,don't think you are too young to get married,if he's a nice guy,I advice you talk about waiting till you are through with school before making babies if that's what you want,don't loose a good thing all in the name of education,think and act wisely. |
| Re: I Lost Him! by slimyem: 8:44pm On Nov 27, 2011 |
190_@:hello??do i know you from anywhere?? |
| Re: I Lost Him! by omega25red(m): 8:45pm On Nov 27, 2011 |
190_@: you no well at all poster never sacrifice your education and future independence for anyone even if it means breaking up. Keep facing your schooling that way he can't act like you are a gold digger because you will be able to do for yourself. |
| Re: I Lost Him! by Nobody: 8:46pm On Nov 27, 2011 |
[size=14pt]Op! I hate when guys are insensitive to the plights of their significant other! He has to understand that you want to wait until you are through with school stress! My advice is for you to stick to your resolve. He is the one that needs to see reasons, NOT you! Dont go back to him for anything just yet. When he is ready, he'll come back to you. If he doesn't come back, just take it that you two were never meant to be together as man and Wife, and then count it as one of those nonentities of Life!. . . Besides, who needs an insensitive man as a husband? How and why would he bring up trust issues now? Because you cant get married now? Rubbish mentality! That means he doesnt trust you? Good he is showing you those skills now. It's men like this that'll want to have their way in the marriage, forgetting that he should consider his wife. . . As long as it is on this issue of him not trusting you enough, to think that your saying NO to his marriage request, means that you are cheating, i'd say stick to your ideology! Dont let him coerce you into an early marriage you dont want. If you two can work something out, and stick to it, like delaying the baby stuff, then go for it. But if he is adamant, and insensitive, remain unshakable! He should know better, having passed through the four walls of the university himself!. . . What an arse! Of course, it wont be easy making a tough decision and sticking to it, but hell, this is your life and your future we are talking about! If you fail to plan it, you have planned to fail. . . All the best! He lost You!  [/size] |
| Re: I Lost Him! by Yemmyc(f): 8:52pm On Nov 27, 2011 |
@iya trustee, i do appreciate ur contributn buh marriage ain't as easy as u fink coz ,it ab2t commitment nd dedicatn of ur tym nd everyfin pertaining 2 u, i dnt wnt 2 pursue dis 2 fins @ a time MARRIAGE ND EDUCATION, @slimyem i feel u , @190 hope u nt takin it personal , lol |
| Re: I Lost Him! by Wislet(f): 8:59pm On Nov 27, 2011 |
It is in this day and age that education seems to be the all in all in life. Little wonder women get married in their 30s and men 40s. Young kids having old papa and mama as parents. Instead of parents to enjoy their children and youthfulness by still being in their 40s when their kids are in their mid to late 20s, they become too old for their children to relate with. If you have a partner that understands the importance of education, by all means get married and still go to school. You have such a young man who's serious enough to be ready for marriage at 26, when some in their 40s haven't found their feet. Marry young and you'll be happy you did. |
| Re: I Lost Him! by freecocoa(f): 9:02pm On Nov 27, 2011 |
Wislet:Where have you been?eh so you went to do your traditional marriage and you didn't tell us,na wa 2 you o. |
| Re: I Lost Him! by Yemmyc(f): 9:09pm On Nov 27, 2011 |
@freecocoa, u ryt marriage is a gud fin buh if nd only if u ready 4 it,it takes alot 4 a marriage 2 work out u knw?, @omega fenkz bro, @sexskillz ur opinion jst hardened my heart 2wards dis ish,lovd ur contributn, yeah if he doesn't cum bck we ar neva meant 2 b 2gether, fenkz |
| Re: I Lost Him! by cynthiafred67(f): 12:24am On Nov 28, 2011 |
Wislet: ^^^ SECONED |
| Re: I Lost Him! by SAFO(m): 12:36am On Nov 28, 2011 |
How is it that we have all these peeps in pursuit of higher learning and they can't even string together 2 coherent sentences? This is mind boggling. Our schools have failed us . |
| Re: I Lost Him! by tellwisdom: 12:44am On Nov 28, 2011 |
Wht the fuckkk is wrong wit this ALBINO writing a newspaper letter here?? . |
| Re: I Lost Him! by tellwisdom: 12:46am On Nov 28, 2011 |
How is it that we have all these peeps in pursuit of higher learning and they can't even string together 2 coherent sentences? This is mind boggling. Blame it on too much of peppersoup and nkwobi |
| Re: I Lost Him! by LadyT(f): 12:49am On Nov 28, 2011 |
sexkillz has said it all  |
| Re: I Lost Him! by tellwisdom: 12:56am On Nov 28, 2011 |
sexkillz has said it all  You believing that dude?? I can say 3rice of that and never meant it #Use ur head mehnn!! |
| Re: I Lost Him! by Mynd44: 12:58am On Nov 28, 2011 |
There are plenty fishes in the river oh sorry I forgot the river has been polluted and they are all dead |
| Re: I Lost Him! by Nobody: 1:08am On Nov 28, 2011 |
@OP as i was reading your post, i was hoping to see word like:" i love him" etc but nothing like that. if anyone read this post, it seems that you are talking about a simple friend. do you even LOVE this guy, to be talking marriage? (and stalling him) |
| Re: I Lost Him! by tellwisdom: 1:25am On Nov 28, 2011 |
Bro, thats women for u. This guy had to call the relationship off, cos the gurl was costing him much than he can take as a wife . |
| Re: I Lost Him! by BCuZiMBlaCk(m): 1:35am On Nov 28, 2011 |
MRbrownJAY: |
| Re: I Lost Him! by LadyT(f): 1:53am On Nov 28, 2011 |
| @tellwisdom I will fight you oh  |
| Re: I Lost Him! by tellwisdom: 2:05am On Nov 28, 2011 |
I think i was right anyway |
| Re: I Lost Him! by Nobody: 2:09am On Nov 28, 2011 |
190_@: lol @ 190's cunumunu sef.  |
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