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EreluRoz:
As a single unmarried lady this is the reality in the picture below. Stop marking unnecessary territories over someone that has not deemed it fit to marry you. Stop fighting over an ordinary boyfriend.

In essence you are dating someone else's boyfriend and you are trying to justify yourself. Isn't this a shameless thing to do?

HeatSeeker:
In essence you are dating someone else's boyfriend and you are trying to justify yourself. Isn't this a shameless thing to do?

You are not getting the point. We are talking about a girlfriend calling another girlfriend sidechick. Na the matter we dy settle here since.

Sidechick is a girlfriend to a married man and not to a single man.

I like it when women justify their wicked acts with logic. This sounds sane to me

This is a leeway for any random girl to usurp another in any fcking relationship

EreluRoz:
You are not getting the point. We are talking about a girlfriend calling another girlfriend sidechick. Na the matter we dy settle here since.

Sidechick is a girlfriend to a married man and not to a single man.

You and who dey settle the matter?

This is the same mentality behind guys having multiple girlfriends.

The thing is that when you gender swap, it doesn't always make sense, and always feels more immoral. Either way, the only way you would express this opinion is if you are deliberately and consciously a side chick or worse....

A husband snatcher

CyrusVI:


I like it when women justify their wicked acts with logic. This sounds sane to me

This is a leeway for any random girl to usurp another in any fcking relationship

She is doing so, or has already done so. Just looking for validation.

CyrusVI:


I like it when women justify their wicked acts with logic. This sounds sane to me

This is a leeway for any random girl to usurp another in any fcking relationship

A girlfriend does not have any right to call another girlfriend to her boyfriend a sidechick, only a married woman can address her husband's girlfriend as sidechick but these days you see some girlfriend doing wifely roles and calling their boyfriend's girlfriend sidechick, it's insane. They are both girlfriend until he married her which automatically turns the other one to a sidechick

HeatSeeker:
You and who dey settle the matter?

This is the same mentality behind guys having multiple girlfriends.

The thing is that when you gender swap, it doesn't always make sense, and always feels more immoral. Either way, the only way you would express this opinion is if you are deliberately and consciously a side chick or worse....

A husband snatcher

Like I said earlier, a girlfriend does not have any right to call another girlfriend a sidechick. Only a wife has that right, there's nothing like main girlfriend or whatever nonsense credibility they want to attach to it.

EreluRoz:
Like I said earlier, a girlfriend does not have any right to call another girlfriend a sidechick. Only a wife has that right, there's nothing like main girlfriend or whatever nonsense credibility they want to attach to it.

EreluRoz! There is always a main girlfriend!

HeatSeeker:
In essence you are dating someone else's boyfriend and you are trying to justify yourself. Isn't this a shameless thing to do?

Why are u trying to make a woman see reality....Women like making themselves feel better with their versions of truth......

Lol... I have seen side chic dating married man but consoling herself she's more important to him than wifey because he sleeps at her place many times in a week and takes her on business trips.....like wtf

Heck!! A woman will form monogamy in her head with a polygamous man by telling herself that if he was happy he wouldn't have looked outside for another woman...hence shes his real soul mate and completes him

HeatSeeker:
EreluRoz! There is always a main girlfriend!

Nothing like a main girlfriend, it's a word coined by promiscuous men to manipulate women into accepting their randiness. It's either you are the only girlfriend or he has other girlfriends plus you. The word sidechick is strictly reserved for the wife of a Married man, only her has that right to call her husband's girlfriend a sidechick.

I am a side cock

Cos I screw people's girlfriends...

illicit:
I am a side cock

Cos I screw people's girlfriends...

You are a boyfriend kos only a husband has the right to call you that

EreluRoz:
You are a boyfriend kos only a husband has the right to call you that

Awwww

The increasing social acceptance for promiscuity is becoming worrisome.


People forget that cheaters in dating are still the same in marriage.

Why not practice faithfulness from the relationship

EreluRoz:
Do you know there's nothing like dating if we want to be all righteous?

You're right, however, we don't need to be righteous to be faithful.

real691:
The increasing social acceptance for promiscuity is becoming worrisome.


People forget that cheaters in dating are still the same in marriage.

Why not practice faithfulness from the relationship

Do you know there's nothing like dating if we want to be all righteous?

the above is only PARTLY true....
- if he introduces her to all his friends and family as his gf but only meets you when he is drunk and/or h0rny.... sista, you are the sidepiece!
- if he lives with her but only meets you in hotels... sista, you are the sidepiece!
- if he wants to spend all his time with her but often tells you he needs his space (with you)... sista, you are the sidepiece!
- if he always pick up when she calls but often miss your calls... sista, you are the sidepiece!
- if he respects her but wants you to do all the dirty nasty stuff in the bedroom... sista, you are the sidepiece!
- if he cares about what she thinks, cares about how she feels but dont give a damn about your life issues.... sista, you are the sidepiece!

MrBrownJay1:
the above is only PARTLY true....
- if he introduces her to all his friends and family as his gf but only meets you when he is drunk and/or h0rny.... sista, you are the sidepiece!
- if he lives with her but only meets you in hotels... sista, you are the sidepiece!
- if he wants to spend all his time with her but often tells you he needs space... sista, you are the sidepiece!
- if he always pick up when she calls but often miss your calls... sista, you are the sidepiece!
- if he respects her but wants you to do all the dirty nasty stuff in the bedroom... sista, you are the sidepiece!
- if he cares about what she thinks, cares about how she feels but dont give a damn about you.... sista, you are the sidepiece!

😂

CyrusVI:


I like it when women justify their wicked acts with logic. This sounds sane to me

This is a leeway for any random girl to usurp another in any fcking relationship

Where is the wicked act?

EreluRoz:
😂

but the most important part IS:
- if you always compare yourself to her, while she probably doesnt even know you exist... then you are most definitely the sidepiece!

EreluRoz:
A girlfriend does not have any right to call another girlfriend to her boyfriend a sidechick, only a married woman can address her husband's girlfriend as sidechick but these days you see some girlfriend doing wifely roles and calling their boyfriend's girlfriend sidechick, it's insane. They are both girlfriend until he married her which automatically turns the other one to a sidechick

Commitment in a relationship leads to marriage. And there can be no commitment if the person's involve do not get that sense that their partner is exclusive to them.
I understand where you are coming from, but will you marry a man that has not made it known to you that you are his one and only woman?
Will you still consider marrying him if he is getting his manliness sucked by another woman while you are in a relationship with him?

MrBrownJay1:
but the most important part IS:
- if you always compare yourself to her, while she probably doesnt even know you exist... then you are most definitely the sidepiece!

Sidechicks are really trying enduring nonsense

EreluRoz:
Sidechicks are really trying enduring nonsense

Are you a sidechick?

HeatSeeker:
Are you a sidechick?

Is this the topic we are discussing?

EreluRoz:
Is this the topic we are discussing?

Your response to the question is important. It helps to add more context to your logic and position on the matter.

EreluRoz:
Sidechicks are really trying enduring nonsense

these women are the nonsense themselves... if you are dating a guy and fully well know he has a gf, then you are part of the problem (by allowing this low life cheater to succeed in his nonsense).

the reality of this issue is that so many women out there think they are "the one" that will make this guy leave his woman (to be with you)... not understanding that, if this remotely happened, then you would now be the main GF and he would be cheating on you with other babes (until he drops you and upgrades to the new one).

imagine a woman, deceiving herself thinking that she is special to this man, not understanding that she is just a tool used by this man to further his yeye lifestyle... and when he is done with her, he switches to the next deluded woman. PRICELESS!

@op



I actually do kinda gree with your assessment.

But I still feel people in a rship should have respect for what they have.

Well, none of my biz as im married.

calabaman:
@op



I actually do kinda gree with your assessment.

But I still feel people in a rship should have respect for what they have.

Well, none of my biz as im married.

Married man I'm sure your girlfriend (I'm sure you have) is a sidechick and your wife has the full right to call her a sidechick

That's a female problem.

Just as Nigerians are side chick’s only to be used and dumped by every government after 8years…

Dating a married man make her a mistress. Dating a guy who has a serious girlfriend make them sidechics until u are number 1.

They should stop giving themselves false/fake rep to feel better about dating someone's serious bf.

EreluRoz:
As a single unmarried lady this is the reality in the picture below. Stop marking unnecessary territories over someone that has not deemed it fit to marry you. Stop fighting over an ordinary boyfriend.

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