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Please Help, My 4 Years Relationship Seems To Be Crashing Down / He Has Been After Her For 4 Years.......She's More Educated, Older And Richer / 3 Years Older Than My Boyfriend: Is It Ok? (2) (3) (4)
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by Hotstepper(f): 3:57pm On May 04, 2006 |
he shouldn't get into the relationship if he doesn't want to get married so the lady would go and find sum1 older or da same age dat is ready, this is da advantage of guyz dating older women esp. if they know they won't be ready for marriage by da time da lady is, delay is dangerous dat is 4 da lady :p |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by kimba(m): 5:07pm On May 04, 2006 |
@Uchesco ur story looks like one of those Love-stories these ray-power people read out every night and then ask for contributions from listeners, my answer: Age doesnt matter, if they love each other, let them go ahead. |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by Coco29(f): 12:24pm On Jun 18, 2006 |
the age difference betwen the two of them is not that much of a cap, i feel the real issue is the guy not wanting to commit, we have all been in love and am sure we know that nothing can stop two people who are in love. |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by eveseh(f): 2:51pm On Jun 18, 2006 |
aint nuthing wrong |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by sammyjl(f): 7:55am On Dec 20, 2006 |
I think the problem here is the age, the fact that the woman is older than the man. But if it was the other way around, it wouldn't be a problem, what happened to age aint nothing but a number. And yes I so totally agree with Seun's comment, they are both ready and mature for marriage but your friend is just on about the age thing. But damn, he's old enough aswell. Love conquers all. I ask the same question posted by Seun, "What is your friend's problem"? Oh I know, the answer = age. |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by ehie007(m): 10:13am On Jan 18, 2007 |
why is it that most ladies are saying that [b]"age is just a number and if they are in love they should go ahead and marry."[/b] there are a lot of things to age. guys this babe is four full years older than the guy it really matters. the babe cannnot wait. even though the guy gets a good job doesnt mean he can get married btw two years. it takes a lot to enter in to marrieage. my advice is that the guy should let the lady go since she still has suitors. and become good freinds. by the grace of God she will get a guy who is of her age or older. if age is just a number y are there so many things atttached to it. Ma guy free the babe and let her go. |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by Richaado: 1:28pm On Jun 07, 2007 |
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Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by Caspery: 7:49pm On Jun 19, 2010 |
@ poster, please come and give us an update about how it eventually played. I guess the guy should be about 29 years old now. I wonder what happened to the two of them. Did L (the guy) eventually marry T (the girl) cos the 2 years has passed now?!! |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by uchesco(m): 11:05pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
Hi people! Longest time no hear! My sincere. Apologies for not providing the details of the story...I actually lost touch with the two friends. But I met Tunde yesterday thru Facebook...he is married but to another lady! he said he didn't marry L again because after the two years, a lot of things had happened. She had a serious bobo then, he had also met new people and their lives were taking different paths... In his words" L had joined a one man foreign business and I was working for a corporate multinational... In the course of her work, She had met many big business guys who were interested in marrying her so I decided to cut my losses and move on. In addition, I had met other babes too and I realized that I should move on... Eventually I met another girl, who also loves me so much(at least that's what she says)and I decided to settle with her... So help me God! But guess what, L is not married. She is 38 now, and has become a prayer warrior at one of the popular Pentecostal churches... It hurts my heart every time I talk to her as I sometimes think I am the one who made her not to marry. However she disagrees, saying that she had dated several guys after me, so she wasn't waiting for me really..... It's only that she didn't meet anyone worth settling down with, but I don't know.... Ma people, na so the story be o! Do u think he is the one responsible? |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by zicky(m): 11:19pm On Sep 02, 2014 |
If the guy really love the girl he should go ahead and marry her, what is he waiting for, a graduate n his of age, abi to marry dey fear am? |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by clemz85(m): 7:14am On Sep 03, 2014 |
and so what?? I didn't read the post but I comments following the topic, they said "age is an issue of mind over matter, if you don't mind it doesn't matter." 1 Like |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by dickoflife(m): 5:09am On Sep 04, 2014 |
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Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by uchesco(m): 5:38pm On Sep 06, 2014 |
Thanks for the insight... By theway, are you sure one of the reasons why your fiance agreed to marry you is not because of your... dick of life? |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by WackyJ1(m): 7:35pm On Sep 06, 2014 |
When I saw this story, the first question that came to my mind was that this girl was too good to be true Then I saw the quoted part below and I laughed I knew she was lying uchesco: Hi all And here was the truth uchesco: ! She had another serious Bobo then. She was just giving him story that if they were both single after two years mtcheww |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by destante(f): 7:48pm On Sep 06, 2014 |
I honestly can understand that regardless of the love the man might have for the woman, it will be difficult for him to settle down when he is not yet ready. Love shouldn't contradict common sense. However, there is a place for the girl if the love is that genuine. The guy could agree to engage the girl until he is finally ready for marriage. This could take place for years. This way, the woman can be secure and the man not coaxed into early marriage. Modified. *** Didn't check to see it was an old post |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by Nialler: 10:42pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
If he was 30 and she was 26 wouldn't they get married if they're in love?
Why does it matter if it's the other way around? |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by abimic(m): 11:37pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
Hmmmm. .. Ur inconsistencies in jumping from T to Tunde and back to T almost created complexity, notwithstanding, the issue was well understood. Age they say is no barrier for lovers of nowadays who knows what they want. Age is no determinant in choosing a life partner if there's love but still, what part of the world do we live in? Africa, Nigeria! Sometimes, age counts... Did u say 4? Hmmmmm. One thing is, your friend might not be ready yet due to financial buoyancy and the girl's age isn't reducing, she's adding and growing older, hence the need to get married early. Yorubas will say:ile obinrin kin pe su meaning women grow old quickly. The girl no doubt would age faster than your friend, marriage isn't about now, but future. Will your friend be comfortable having someone older than him as his wife and still love her same way he does now in the next 30 yrs? He needs to reexamine himself and answer some real questions personally. I for one can't marry who's older than me even though I'm dating one older. So, your friend needs weigh his chances, love, passion now and imagine in far future, how will things really look then. Future is more important than now and anything we do now directly or indirectly affects the future. |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by Nobody: 11:43pm On Sep 08, 2015 |
There's no but to it. Either they're in love or they're not. I don't even like guys that are four years older self.... |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by Nobody: 3:04am On Sep 09, 2015 |
This thread kicked-off in 2006 and died. Got resuscitated briefly 8 years after in September 2014 to be precise , it slept off until it got a tap in September 2015 Don't you feel it right to nickname this thread 'Abiku' ? Abi what do you suggest? 1 Like |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by peirson5: 5:59pm On Sep 24, 2016 |
An abiku indeed |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by LiberatedGirl: 6:17pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Seun: This is the Best Thing iv read on Nairaland. |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by LiberatedGirl: 6:20pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
Greatpeter: This is Awesome advice |
Re: They're so in Love, But She's 4 Years Older by LiberatedGirl: 6:30pm On Nov 26, 2021 |
CalabarMan: Yes explaining how much you make is very important. The Truth is marriage is not the time to discuss financial situation , it is best to do so while still dating, that's why dating a friend is so important you pretend less and begin to solve problems as a team so by the time you get married your already a team |
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