@started
Oh gosh if my man does everything you listed above, i will get really bored and tired of him oh, might even call him a sissy .

I want a real man not a sissy , someone that will respect me not this one that pulls out the chair for me to sit, or hold the door rubbish.

My life is simple jare ,

MY OLD LADY

AINT YOU CONTRADICTING YOURSELF? YOU ASPIRE FOR A REAL MAN WHO WOULD RESPECT YOU BUT AT THE SAME TIME YOU DONT WANT ANYPERSON WHO WOULD DO LITTLE THINGS TO PLEASE YOU. I AM AFRAID YOU HAVE NOT THOUGHT ABOUT THIS THOROUGHLY BEFORE SAYING IT. COULD YOU PLEASE EXPLAIN YOURSELF OR SHUT UP.

na wa for u guys o, anyway the whole matter has been thoroughly skewed but i'll try my best to help (seeing as am such a nice guy, )
do i open doors for gels-yes(sometimes)
reason:it doesn't take anything away from me and its a polite thing do, jst like letting an elderly person enter a room before u

will i stand up when a gel enter the room-no
reason:who is ur father?
part of being a gentleman is being confident enuf of urself and ur abilities to do the polite thing and kno it doesn't make u seem weak,

'pending on how i feel i'm most likely to give my seat up for an elderly person than anyone else,
i cld also pull the seat out for a girl if i feel like it, but do i feel it makes lil' ol' me a gentleman? NO cos i'll still pinch,wind(or is it whine),tacci or tease the sh*t outta any gel dat catches my fancy(not in a hurtful way of crse, i'm more of a crazy person than anything else), if u like open all the door from here(or whereva u r) to tokyo and read and practice all d gentlemanly sturvs u can think of it wont change hu u r, jst find wot suites u best that u're comfy doing and DO IT

chaloo:

MY OLD LADY

AINT YOU CONTRADICTING YOURSELF? YOU ASPIRE FOR A REAL MAN WHO WOULD RESPECT YOU BUT AT THE SAME TIME YOU DONT WANT ANYPERSON WHO WOULD DO LITTLE THINGS TO PLEASE YOU. I AM AFRAID YOU HAVE NOT THOUGHT ABOUT THIS THOROUGHLY BEFORE SAYING IT. COULD YOU PLEASE EXPLAIN YOURSELF OR SHUT UP.

Maybe you should stop shouting,so stop using cap lock

What does respect have to do with chairs pulling a chair out for me to sit, or waiting for me to sit for before he does.

wtf are you telling to shut up, plz open your eyes and realize who the fu ck you're talking to, coming up here disrespecting people. !!!!!!!!stupid fool, i will advice your dumb ass to slow your freaking roll if you don't wanna start with me today .

I don't think you know the definition of a Real Man, Dumbo!!!!!!!!shio

@moody lady
chill now, jst ignore some stuff and follow the thread afta all we didnt come here to starting a cussing or shouting match

chaloo:

MY OLD LADY

AINT YOU CONTRADICTING YOURSELF? YOU ASPIRE FOR A REAL MAN WHO WOULD RESPECT YOU BUT AT THE SAME TIME YOU DONT WANT ANYPERSON WHO WOULD DO LITTLE THINGS TO PLEASE YOU. I AM AFRAID YOU HAVE NOT THOUGHT ABOUT THIS THOROUGHLY BEFORE SAYING IT. COULD YOU PLEASE EXPLAIN YOURSELF OR SHUT UP.

Please stop posting in "CAPS". It is really distracting. You must be new to cyber comm.

netotse:

@moody lady
chill now, jst ignore some stuff and follow the thread after all we didnt come here to starting a cussing or shouting match

Am sorry oh i won't allow anyone to disrespect me without any vaild reason !!!!gosh.

You need to chill out and not telling me to claim the hell down!!!!rubbish, why don't you talk to that fool who started it.

;d ;d

@moody
i did it cos u seemed like d more mature one of d two(u weren't d one screaming), lol,also someone always has to be d b d bigger person

netotse:

@moody
i did it because u seemed like d more mature one of d two(u weren't d one screaming), lol,also someone always has to be d b d bigger person

Sorry if i was been harsh in my last post , its just that people look 4 everywhere to fight with someone

My old Lady

Thats all woman like you can do, shout and scream and then you want respect from your man. Search yourself. I can also write all these 'F' and 'S' words but I wont. I never learnt these things. Moreover,I dont think I could achieve anything by shouting at you. What do you think you have achieved?  May be you are too old to learn anything or should I say 'grow up'

@chaloo

Why are you craving for some attention from me , but to be real with you are getting annoying now , plz return to your cage since recess is over , its time for mature people to share their views based no the topic.

abeg moodylady share ur thots on d topic, some pple shld look for the threads that say 'for the pre-pubescent'

netotse

I will ignore what ever you wrote in your last post. No arguement with bro.

My old lady

' go back to your CAGE, recess is over ' would suit you better. I sincerely dont wish to expand my last sentence.

netotse:

abeg moodylady share your thoughts on d topic, some people shld look for the threads that say 'for the pre-pubescent'

Well yes gentlemen do exist in Naija, but quite different from how the Americans ways, since our culture is aren't the same.

chaloo:

netotse

I will ignore what ever you wrote in your last post. No arguement with bro.

My old lady

' go back to your CAGE, recess is over ' would suit you better. I sincerely don't wish to expand my last sentence.

Be original jare!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!mumu

'because our culture ant the same'. Everyone knows that. Why cant you give anything constructive to the topic? The poster is asking for examples.

Get off my damn back

@topic

My man is a great example of a gentleman , everything he does is special to me .

I apologise for annoying you but you came across to me as a very rude young lady. I will leave you alone now.

abeg suit yourself

yesssssssssssssss, they do, just found one n cant get over him

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I was rushing to work on Friday and when I was about to enter a door with a friend when I stopped to hold the door open for a lady to pass, my friend was so irritatad that he didn't hide his annoyance. He even went on to tell other guys bout what happend. i found out that most of the people that saw what i did as irrelevant were Nigerians. Even Ghanian guys were a little complacent. But are nigerian guys gentlemen. Opinion from both guys and ladies needed.
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@ Eldee:

Are you for real

I didn't want to bash my Naija brovas so I opted for the "endangered specie" option when I voted

Well, if you're truly a gentleman as you say--- as in--- you do all those nice things you listed--- then I would say keep it up! It’s refreshing to know that there are a few of you left out there. I hope you find a lady who appreciates you for it.

As for my other Naija brovas---- take a hint!! Being a gentleman doesn't emasculate you. Rather it earns you “brownie points” on the “respect and trust” score sheet!!!

l believe they are there because l have just met one
and hes everything a gentleman can ever be

At last.

i don't think there's anything like a perfect gentleman but it is actually a continuos struggle towards perfection that matters

@topic
This should be an old thread, but i will still give it a shot.

Somebody has said it earlier; Naija chicks mistaken all the things you listed for some other things.
So, if being a gentleman is doing all the things in the list, then i will honourably tell you that i dont exist as a Nigerian gentleman. I can only speak for myself.

lmao