Da Doctor:



THE CASTLE IS THE GUYS HERITAGE, NO DOUBT. BUT FRO THE SAKE OF 'INDEPENDENCE', IF THE FATHER LIKES HIM. HE SHUD GET HIM A PLACE. BUY HIM A BUNGALOW. OR CANT HE AFFORD IT.

ALOT IS WRONG WITH IT OH. SO MANY 'VOICES' ,'HANDS' AND 'HEADS' WOULD BE ON THE MARRIAGE

RuuDie:

Is anybody even considering the fact that the dude might be so dead-broke he can't afford a place of his own!!!?

Mai-suya:

B4 I start my wife just gave birth to a bouncing baby boy

I am the only male child in my family, we have a massive house, all my sisters are all married and my dad is late, only my youngest sis and my mum live in that big house. When I got married last year I lived at the family house with my wife for close to 8 months not because my mum asked for it but she liked it nonetheless, I SEE NOTHING WRONG IN THAT.

Although I now live in my own house now with my wife, she didnt complain then. And u r not proving a thing living alone, they r your parents. It's not about being weak coz I studied and stayed abroad alone for some years before returning to the nija.

Bottom line, they r your parents they just have some few years left to live (even if it's 20 yrs more) if living with them makes them happy, why not. After they pass on u have the rest of your life for urself, u can go live on Pluto for all anyone cares. And those girls complaining, the essence of marriage is sacrifice and if u can't sacrifice to share those few years with your mother inlaw, then u r starting your marriage life on the wrong footing. Just my thout

Mai-suya:

B4 I start my wife just gave birth to a bouncing baby boy

I am the only male child in my family, we have a massive house, all my sisters are all married and my dad is late, only my youngest sis and my mum live in that big house. When I got married last year I lived at the family house with my wife for close to 8 months not because my mum asked for it but she liked it nonetheless, I SEE NOTHING WRONG IN THAT.

Although I now live in my own house now with my wife, she didnt complain then.[b] And u r not proving a thing living alone, they r your parents. [/b]It's not about being weak coz I studied and stayed abroad alone for some years before returning to the nija.

Bottom line, they r your parents they just have some few years left to live (even if it's 20 yrs more) if living with them makes them happy, why not. After they pass on u have the rest of your life for urself, u can go live on Pluto for all anyone cares. And those girls complaining, the essence of marriage is sacrifice and if u can't sacrifice to share those few years with your mother inlaw, then u r starting your marriage life on the wrong footing. Just my thout

the bible says a man shall leave the mum and dad and be joined to his wife and that includes not living with them in the same house in my own little interpretation

Boyloaf:

@da doc, u get job at all?

jay bee:

Why marry if that's the case

omar22:


Where does it say?

New International Version (©1984)
For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and they will become one flesh. Genesis 2:24

and please don't tell me u didn't notice the little sarcasm there which was represented by the *tongue* emoticon and the "interpretation" thingy

Bawss1:

Says who? The only reason any adult should be living with his or her parents is if they are bankrupt. It is this culture of living with one's parent's that fosters all kinds of unhealthy perspectives and quarrels besides giving a sense of false comfort. We are all in this world to make something of ourselves so living off the efforts of one's parents (by still living in their house) is at odds with this objective.

Ujujoan:


She can cook a meal with too much salt, burn the stew, add too much water to the soup and the husband will only grumble and still eat it!

Mai-suya:

And those girls complaining, the essence of marriage is sacrifice and if u can't sacrifice to share those few years with your mother inlaw, then u r starting your marriage life on the wrong footing. Just my thought.